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" Curving " is the new ghosting
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" Curving " is the new ghosting Ok so a lot of people know the meaning of ghosting and a lot of people have been ghosted, now there is a new term and one that's quickly catching on and not in a good way. To begin with , what is ghosting exactly? The meaning of the word may not have been around for a very long time but its been in practice for a very long time..Say you make contact with someone and you both hit it off , meet and decide to persue some sort of , friendship, relationship etc...talk every day, hang out when possible, have sex and so on..then one day poof! they vanish without a word, you try to contact them , no response ...seems like they dropped off of the planet..ok what do you do? Continue to hope there is an underlying problem ,the reason why they have disappeared, hope they finally contact you? Wish and hope all you want but , honey they ain't coming back, you been ghosted plain and simple!. Ok now " curving " is almost the same but with a new twist, they string you along because they fear confrontation from you because they don't want to hurt your feelings after you do all the things as a couple , hang ,have sex etc....but then they decide its not what they want , so they throw you a " curve" ..but after a couple days of non communication you hear from them...communication is short and to the point , but its always you who contacts them, rarely is it them contacting you..this goes on for weeks at a time..they throw you a tidbit every now and then but never come right out and tell you they lost interest , so you are going along every day hoping that you will get back on track, honey that aint gonna happen...people who curve wont come right out and tell you that they are not interested any more, because of hurting your feelings....just enough to keep you hanging on...Curvers are not trying to string you along they just feel they are sparing your feelings by letting you down gently..lol |
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3/16/2019 2:42 am |
Have you been thrown any "curves " lately?
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We curve after we have been ghosted and they reappear months down the road like nothing ever happened. Not sure it fits perfectly with the given scenario but it is what we do.
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3/16/2019 3:27 am |
That’s a good way of putting it. I don’t like to see people get hurt, and confrontation isn’t my forte, but direct is best. It hurts, it’s uncomfortable, but it’s the quickest way to happiness and resolution.
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It's happen to me both ways but life goes on. Next will be curbing kicking one to the curb baggage and all not contact me at all. Have a wonderful day and a better tomorrow.
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It's happen to me both ways but life goes on. Next will be curbing kicking one to the curb baggage and all not contact me at all. Have a wonderful day and a better tomorrow. ... ok on topic(s) ... ... 'Orbiting' Is The New Dating Trend That's Even More Frustrating Than Ghosting ... This New Dating Trend Is Even Worse Than Ghosting - Mosting is like ghosting, but on steroids. ... If You're Dating, You've Almost Undoubtedly Been Kittenfished ... If You've Ever Been Ghosted, You've Probably Been 'Submarined' Too ... Benching is when you keep someone "on the bench" or on the "sidelines" or the "back burner." ... Zombieing: When An Ex Rises From The Online Dead Fucking a this is easy ... here are a few maybe even brittany wong could pinch off into another article. Mechanics first ... what seems to be occuring in these magic spells is that a suffix is appended to the original word such that it now ends in -ing or -ed. Like Brittany Wong effortfully articled another masterpiece on dating trends, thanks to Folgers. Ok well lemme see here .... how about 'Huffpoing' is the Same Old Dating Trend where your partner clickbates you into cliched notions of being wrong for them. Did it work? Am I wrong yet? Has anyone had the desire to really let me know that I'm 'wronging' and that they need to take time to seriously consider what this implies and whether that is the signal to finally move to the final solution ... let's call that 'blunting' which is not bluntly telling them a frank fact, but rather picking up a blunt instrument and helping them sleep 6 under, which isn't about letting them sleep in for an extra set of minutes or 'hours' ... ... advice lines are really better for me blogs don't allow the contrapostivity of uploading images. And it feels less biting and gnawing when not on a persons blog ... like you added the part where it 'seemed' personal and so not sure if that is just another reason they left you or ... the effect it had on your ... or you are them, which is usually the un'safest take but also the option less than likely, yet functionally inevitible if all the appending would stop and the label maker lost. And there I find it more appropo to dig that extra layer out and not doing the flatter surface of the presented brass ring of prizyness. 'prizing' is the dating trend you didn't do that lead you to this articled. but seriously though .. ghosting .... I mean just because a term can describe the behavior of the another doesn't mean that One should take it as a suggested 'trend' to follow ... following what is herd by reading what isn't rite. But what is right is when the cover is cozy and snug like a bug on her ... 'digressed' when your date brings up how beautiful your eyes are then begins an innane polysemic about how your eyes rhyme with I's. How is it possible to finally win that effective dating edge when that Alpha-hole is sitting over there whacking away at the rules of the game and not just 'personalizing' is the practice of taking it the ...next level by realizing that double or nothing is the fastest path in yoga. 'transducting' is the new trend in sensing that allows you to feel the the hand. Magick is not just mere prestidigitation... it is a causing change to occur inconformity of will .. it is a but a ... 'turning' is the new phrase made old again ... and finally in the end, which is the very begining is the realization that magic really is just a trick of the hand... mostly the backside. Have you been 'prestiged' the disturbing new trend in .... 'blog bombing' the tired and cowardice posts made by one that deserves some 'blunting' the .... end it now! ... yea and whoa fraters and soreresses... verily the mind is a terrible thing to taste.
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3/16/2019 7:15 am |
We curve after we have been ghosted and they reappear months down the road like nothing ever happened. Not sure it fits perfectly with the given scenario but it is what we do.
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3/16/2019 7:17 am |
That’s a good way of putting it. I don’t like to see people get hurt, and confrontation isn’t my forte, but direct is best. It hurts, it’s uncomfortable, but it’s the quickest way to happiness and resolution.
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3/16/2019 7:18 am |
It's happen to me both ways but life goes on. Next will be curbing kicking one to the curb baggage and all not contact me at all. Have a wonderful day and a better tomorrow.
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3/16/2019 7:26 am |
lol .. or you could just leave her where you found her .... have you never seen American History X? ... ok on topic(s) ... ... 'Orbiting' Is The New Dating Trend That's Even More Frustrating Than Ghosting ... This New Dating Trend Is Even Worse Than Ghosting - Mosting is like ghosting, but on steroids. ... If You're Dating, You've Almost Undoubtedly Been Kittenfished ... If You've Ever Been Ghosted, You've Probably Been 'Submarined' Too ... Benching is when you keep someone "on the bench" or on the "sidelines" or the "back burner." ... Zombieing: When An Ex Rises From The Online Dead Fucking a this is easy ... here are a few maybe even brittany wong could pinch off into another article. Mechanics first ... what seems to be occuring in these magic spells is that a suffix is appended to the original word such that it now ends in -ing or -ed. Like Brittany Wong effortfully articled another masterpiece on dating trends, thanks to Folgers. Ok well lemme see here .... how about 'Huffpoing' is the Same Old Dating Trend where your partner clickbates you into cliched notions of being wrong for them. Did it work? Am I wrong yet? Has anyone had the desire to really let me know that I'm 'wronging' and that they need to take time to seriously consider what this implies and whether that is the signal to finally move to the final solution ... let's call that 'blunting' which is not bluntly telling them a frank fact, but rather picking up a blunt instrument and helping them sleep 6 under, which isn't about letting them sleep in for an extra set of minutes or 'hours' ... ... advice lines are really better for me blogs don't allow the contrapostivity of uploading images. And it feels less biting and gnawing when not on a persons blog ... like you added the part where it 'seemed' personal and so not sure if that is just another reason they left you or ... the effect it had on your ... or you are them, which is usually the un'safest take but also the option less than likely, yet functionally inevitible if all the appending would stop and the label maker lost. And there I find it more appropo to dig that extra layer out and not doing the flatter surface of the presented brass ring of prizyness. 'prizing' is the dating trend you didn't do that lead you to this articled. but seriously though .. ghosting .... I mean just because a term can describe the behavior of the another doesn't mean that One should take it as a suggested 'trend' to follow ... following what is herd by reading what isn't rite. But what is right is when the cover is cozy and snug like a bug on her ... 'digressed' when your date brings up how beautiful your eyes are then begins an innane polysemic about how your eyes rhyme with I's. How is it possible to finally win that effective dating edge when that Alpha-hole is sitting over there whacking away at the rules of the game and not just 'personalizing' is the practice of taking it the ...next level by realizing that double or nothing is the fastest path in yoga. 'transducting' is the new trend in sensing that allows you to feel the the hand. Magick is not just mere prestidigitation... it is a causing change to occur inconformity of will .. it is a but a ... 'turning' is the new phrase made old again ... and finally in the end, which is the very begining is the realization that magic really is just a trick of the hand... mostly the backside. Have you been 'prestiged' the disturbing new trend in .... 'blog bombing' the tired and cowardice posts made by one that deserves some 'blunting' the .... end it now! ... yea and whoa fraters and soreresses... verily the mind is a terrible thing to taste.
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yes, i have been both curved and ghosted. i wonder where the term originated.
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If people are not reaching out to me despite the fact that it's been awhile since we last had contact, I take the hint that they are not interested in me and move on. If they are having an active social life with other people then I can definitely assume that their dance card is full and that they don't have the time or interest in socializing with me. Please don't let me be misunderstood.
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3/16/2019 8:21 am |
yes, i have been both curved and ghosted. i wonder where the term originated.
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3/16/2019 8:25 am |
If people are not reaching out to me despite the fact that it's been awhile since we last had contact, I take the hint that they are not interested in me and move on. If they are having an active social life with other people then I can definitely assume that their dance card is full and that they don't have the time or interest in socializing with me.
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3/16/2019 8:26 am |
as much as I hate too..I will tell Her its not meant to be..Living a life behind lies can get stressful.. You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!
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3/16/2019 10:35 am |
as much as I hate too..I will tell Her its not meant to be..Living a life behind lies can get stressful..
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3/16/2019 10:37 am |
lol stick with me Jack and you will learn a lot and if I tell you something it is based on my facts as I gather them..stick with me kid and see the world through my eyes...thanks Jack.
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3/16/2019 2:47 pm |
A good blog! This situation happens all the times, I sure it happen to a many of us.
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3/16/2019 3:19 pm |
A good blog! This situation happens all the times, I sure it happen to a many of us.
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I have just been curved in a big permanent way : more to come (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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3/16/2019 7:22 pm |
I have just been curved in a big permanent way : more to come
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