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If you are cheating  

Coffeenick 53M/48F
23 posts
9/9/2019 8:09 am
If you are cheating

we define<b> cheating </font></b>as trying to find with out your partners knowledge now for those who think just telling us your wife knows you need to realize we still expect to meet them or have some clear sign they are good with it we will not become part of a couples drama of splitting up if you are in a relationship you are not happy in then get out but of course is your choice just don't involve us we are a couple who plays together and can truly enjoy each others pleasure and everyone can rest assured we are very discrete we don't want or choice to be in this lifestyle to be announced to family or friends any more than anybody else but know this discretion should never need be applied to your spouse or partner they should already know if they don't it will likely become messy for those<b> cheating </font></b>so really listen to my advice and talk to your other half and don't be selfish if you are unsatisfied he or she likely is as well and sneaking around at the minimum will make you and them even more unhappy and likely will tear you apart my wife and I have a great sex life as well as relationship because we choose to be honest with our desires because we care about each others pleasures and don't judge each other for it just a note for those wanting to cheat make it simple don't just have the conversation with your spouse gf bf you both will be happier in the end (and I would like to state again without partners knowledge)

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
9/10/2019 8:37 am

 I dont cheat, but only while married have I ever promised monogamy, and only in my 1st & 2nd marriage. My 3rd, we met at a swing/BDSM party, and knew from the 1st that we could never nor want to be monogamous. BUT, when not married, I have always played with whom I choose when I choose, and make no promises not to do that to any partner I may have at that time.
My 1st wife however, DID cheat on ME all thru our 10 yrs of marriage, tho I wasnt aware of it until after our divorce. If she had just asked, I would have gladly given my permission to her, sigh !


Coffeenick replies on 9/11/2019 11:48 am:
see there you go you have been honest and it wasn't your 1st wife having sex that was upsetting but the fact she lied and snuck around please correct me if I am wrong and no if the spouse is ok with there spouse playing then we have no issues with that we just expect for them to know and be ok with it

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