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Great read this morning and it's been a couple of months for me as I have been sick. I hope things will change soon, but it just depends on him as he is not into it like he used to be. As he is older than me, and a very good man is hard to find and when you have one you need to hold on to him. I hope you enjoy your day hun.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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Goodmess. I don't believe that I am in a minority, but I have always ensured that my partners had a good time during sex. It is very important to me to give a woman pleasure and I really like to give her an orgasm (this is almost exclusively as foreplay in my experience, but not exclusively). Sex is surely about shared pleasure, even if the relationship is casual and transient. I think you need to go out and sample a wider population of men (besides, it could be a fun experiment!).
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Well I'm not the best at ittime has changed thing I'm not 19 no more but I try my best at trying to please her. Been awhile to long hoping being here can help k won't try till know I can last to the end.
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I impose my motivation, energy, kinkiness and imagination on my partner. It's infectious! Combine playfulness and just relaxed 'no pressure' expectations and chances of having bad sex are minimal. It's almost always good for both of us. If I'm having an off day, I expect my partner to pick me up with her energy and motivation... That's not to say I'm perfect... just perfectly motivated to make it work and have fun. Really bad sex, doesn't occur more than twice and I'll put a stop to that. I'll blame myself for those failures for not being a better judge of sexual character. I have no patience for partners with no imagination. Harsh? Perhaps... Life is short. Why waste your time...? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I will admit there were times when I should have been a better lover. sex definitely should be as great for her as it for me...or words to that effect  
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I've never reached orgasm during sex. Does that make my partner not good in bed? No. Does it mean I had bad sex? No. Why did I keep doing it? Because I enjoyed helping her to orgasm. I enjoyed the company. I enjoyed the chat. I enjoyed the physical contact.
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Of course ‘bad sex’ exists and it will continue if there isn’t open, honest communication. Ideally, I want each time to be the ‘best’ for my partner and myself and that can’t happen if we don’t let each other know what’s working and what isn’t. It’s another reason why I refuse that ‘fake it’.
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Getting to know anyone is really easy... you just have to know which questions to ask and how to read people. If you're going back and forth talking, sexting or emailing and she's keeping up or surprising you... well, that's a good clue. Having great sex doesn't mean having a lot of experience or being good at it. It means being willing to try and get good at it. It means willing to experiment and push your limits. And most importantly... it means willing to have fun! If she's willing to try - I've never had bad sex with that type of playful, relaxed and open minded person. I don't have to test drive a Porsche, to know it's a fast car. You know what I mean? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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preach it sista
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She doesn't have to sext. Does she have a sense of humour? Is she intelligent? Does she use sexual innuendo in conversations? Does she know how to tease? Does she have a phone and a voice? A woman who is so uptight, while looking for a long term relationship, who is not willing to put herself out there, stretch her personal comfort zone and express with the man what she wants and what she expects - is never going to be happy. It's not about finding a perfect fit and then opening up. It's about opening up - and because of that.... you find the perfect fit. If someone doesn't open up with me, in a real hurry... chances are - they are pretty uptight in the bedroom as well.. My pov is based on my study in psychology and personal experience.. What can possibly go wrong with saying exactly what you think. Expressing exactly what you want. If a person is having trouble with being open - they are more than likely being afraid of being hurt. If you are confident..... nobody can hurt you. Good sex is about two confident people sharing and exchanging uninhibited appreciation of each other's body's and minds. Comfort level...? Every time I meet a new person -I push that limit right off the charts. There is no comfort level with me... I'll tell you something... it so much better than playing it safe... It doesn't take long for my partner to get to know me. I expect the same openness from her. Immediately! Otherwise.... Fuck that! No time for vanilla games and please... Miss.... Waste of time... Comfortable? Can you be honest with me? That is my demand for comfort. Right from the first Hello... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Hmm I guess for me it's not a black and white, "you're bad at sex ,get out of here". My most recent sex partner - good kisser, good nipple stimulation, but hardly touched me below the waist. It was weird. But if we had continued to see each other (we only had sex three times) I would have tried to work with him on that. I don't really feel comfortable giving a ton of detailed instructions early on. Anyway, he was a sweet guy, so for me if it's a choice between a) getting to kiss and then have somewhat mediocre sex and then get some nice skin to skin cuddling time; or b) sitting at home on my couch alone; it's going to be a. I know people will say 'well find someone else who IS good at sex' but it isn't that easy for me to find guys who I can stand being around, lol.   
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>>Seems you are talking about this guy in past tense. No more??? Yeah, I'm pretty sure we're through. I'll probably write about it on my blog at some point, but wanted to do the upbeat vacation post first
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did I really write all thst shit? pls delete it from your blog. I didn't mean to monopolize your blog with my drivel.. That's fucking long winded.... sorry about that ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Does bad sex exist? If so, what constitutes bad sex for you? Sure, bad sex exists! With the caveat that there's bound to be a whole lotta subjectivity in that judgment call. The cliche that "One person's meat (something good) is another person's poison (something terrible)" may be relevant. Here are 3 examples - from personal experience - of what I considered sex to be so bad that I didn't repeat . . . excepting type-1 below, which I sorta cluelessly put up with multiple-times in my teen-age years, because I was just so thrilled to be having sex: 1 - Starfish-sex. You know about Starfish women, right ? Being called that isn't a compliment. Similar to those aquatic creatures that you often find in shallow pools along a stretch of relatively calm ocean-beach. They may be nice to look at. But the thing is . . . they just LAY there passively. No fun, and no thanks! 2 - Unfit sex. I'm not fussy about female body-shapes/sizes . . . to a point . . . as I describe in some detail in the "My ideal person" part of my profile-intro. What I've learned is that body-shape/size doesn't matter so much. What matters - assuming the click of comfortable conversation and easy laughter - is being physically active. I once . . . only once . . . had sex with a woman who was perhaps 30 pounds overweight. Nothing wrong with that; that's common to the point of practically normal. What was wrong was she proved so inflexible that she couldn't raise her thighs . . . even moderately, even with help. Which made missionary-position a serious challenge. Nor could she arch her back or even stretch to the point of upper-body lowered - call that a yoga "child's pose - while on her knees. It wasn't that she was unwilling - just physically incapable in her mid-40's. 3 - "Everything cannot" sex. Perhaps this woman had bad prior experiences ? Or perhaps she was profoundly selfish ? Her wish-list consisted solely of having her pussy licked while she buzzed her clit with a bullet-vibrator through multiple orgasms. So far, so good as I enjoy giving oral. But fingering while licking - nope, no fingers allowed. Doggy-style - no, I don't do that. Woman-on-top - no, I don't like that either. Penetration longer than 5 minutes - I'm getting tired; will you lick me some more ? Another one-and-done experience. Happily - reflecting on the big picture - those bad experiences have been so infrequent that they stand out as memorably bad - just one each of types #2 and #3. Both of which women I met through this site, incidentally. Type #3 happened to me several times in my teens. Only once ever with a woman from this site.
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Happy International Women's Day.... 😘💐❤️🌹 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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3/11/2019 12:54 pm |
It's always good to have a good sex, so you can compare. I've always been asked, can I steal you, can I keep you forever.
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Mutually satisfying sex is very healthy. At this point I masturbate daily, yes way better then being with wrong partner. When I was younger sex was fun I did not truly learn till I left my husband. Wish I masturbates then. When 2 have that connection in the moment it is truly magical . Now that I know a bit better about my sexual needs I can it Express that. Some people never get to that. Here is to more fun learning 😉
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For me, there is no such thing as bad sex, though some cases are absolutely better than others. I've learned that helping the lady relax, and really "get in to it" is a good way to increase the chances of really good sex.  E for Eyeglasses, on HNW Quite a View from Here The St Lucia Diet [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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4/3/2019 2:39 pm |
Ensuring your partner has a good sexual time as I believe someone put it is paramount. Respectability should be one of the primary goals of the experience going in, because once you are in* pun-intended, the goal is not always a game-winning event. Sometimes, sex is bad because the logistics of it are all fucked**this time, no pun-intended. Ever had sex in a car where it has worked out pleasurably before, but this time you can't seem to get the angle right and your body parts are jammed and cramped on the car's interior? Ever had sex where it starts out okay but then there is a persistent bad odor? Ever had sex where the condom just simply does not work? Where the condom just desensitizes the whole situation? What about sex that starts out good but ends up bad?
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I have a rule, the lady always cums first. And its all about the foreplay, without that why bother...
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