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blllyjack765 50M
95 posts
7/8/2019 5:19 pm

I'm sorry wonder..I know it's tuff....what u wearing.


562guy_inthe671 57M
51 posts
7/8/2019 6:22 pm

I get what you're saying.
I found out my daughter was bi because of social media (I don't have any, I found your profile on a blog about 'oversharing.' I was told by friends and family who were able to see her profile etc.
I never approached her on the subject but know a secret she didn't choose to share with me hurt but I understood. My son (her twin) asked if I was OK with it. I said I was fine with it and I said "why would you ask me that?" He replied because I was a military man... SMH.
My children lived 14 years without me while I was deployed overseas over the decades (I retired from the military in 2009) That was the total of years combined in 14 deployments since 1989 (I enlisted in 1985-2009 when I retired).
My children know the man I am, I am very stoic and guarded but when my wife passed away in 2012, my attitude and outlook changed. I couldn't be close minded and 'stick to my guns no matter what' when it came to my opinions anymore...
Sorry for the tangent about my kids but I just know what your saying and I appreciate reading it. The heart wants what it wants and lusts for what it lusts for.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/8/2019 6:27 pm

How far does our unconditional love go? .... "Unconditional love", does not exist. That is a romantic fairytale. There are always conditions for why we intimately attach to someone. And when those "Conditions" change, expect the person to love you no more.

What happens those that love with conditions?.... You mean everyone who loves? As long as the loyalty-conditions stay in place, ... they stay together, maintaining an intimate loyalty for them.

Ever know anyone like that? .... Everybody who has gone beyond infatuation with someone.

You can never meet their expectations..... Sure you do... if you don't, then the relationship fades and one or both of you attaches to another.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/8/2019 8:17 pm

The raising only tapers off as they grow to maturity, as they enter new realms your experience can be quite useful. Just as we can learn from them too.

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smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/9/2019 11:24 am

>> If I were stronger, I'd be gone.

I understand this. When my ex and I started having problems I wasn't brave enough to be the one to make the break. Starting over and being single again sounded too horrible. Finally, he found someone else and we split. Ironically I am enjoying being by myself more and more as time goes on.

As for your husband's digs about your children - I guess it depends on whether he's also expressing his disapproval directly to them? I think sometimes parents can joke with each other about their kids' flaws while still being supportive to the kid. I do agree with you that being an independent, contributing adult is way more important than sexual preference or tattoos.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
7/9/2019 12:31 pm

Live and let live.
I don't know people who are like that. You have to let your kids go after a point.
I can let their lifestyle get to me, but what good does THAT do? 🤔


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
7/9/2019 1:57 pm

I really appreciate you writing this blog my friend, as I totally understand where you are coming from here. I have always wanted my children to be close to one another but they live in different areas of the country and very seldom has any contact with one another ( this is hurting my heart very much.

I am not close to my family but my reasons are so very valid as DYSFUNCTIONAL comes into play there. Not going to bore you with those details. My children I raised by myself pretty much and its like they don't even appreciate the three and four jobs at a time I worked just to raise them and take good care of them. I admit I was very over protective, but that's because of all that was happening around us with other kids. And one of our friends was the late Steven Stayner, which anyone in CA knows about him.

Its so sad that kids don't really understand things until they have children of their own and still they don't understand the hurt we feel over things that's happening in their lives. Once your a mother your always a mother no matter what age they are, as that's what UNCONDITIONAL LOVE is all about..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
7/10/2019 12:20 am

"A Fixed Point" ….
Check Idris Elba's monologue on the tuby place

That's the way I've found to work

Cheers - P


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
7/10/2019 9:09 am

I've missed out on being a parent. I would have liked to have settled down while in my younger days but it just never happened.
I'm grateful to still have all four of my siblings living in town, which means I get to see them, their kids and grand-kids often.


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