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BEST advice for both SINGLE & COUPLES on Profile pics and how to succeed using ONLINE profiles  

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8/26/2020 11:17 am
BEST advice for both SINGLE & COUPLES on Profile pics and how to succeed using ONLINE profiles


BLOG posts from a former professional dating coach with a psychology degree in human behavioral studies.

We hope our posts help make this community better offering the skills and education help members both experienced or new be more successful.

Your profile picture can be the difference between someone deleting your email and responding it. That first two-second impression is utterly crucial how you operate these websites.

If you pick the right profile pictures, you will increase your replies and ultimately your success!

First, what should your profile look like if you’re a single person?

If you’re a single person looking meet a couple, your swinger dating profile pic is how you tell this couple that you’re ready for action.

If you have a nice body, show it off. Add details on what type of person you are and what type or people you are looking meet- DETAILS MATTER- A great pic with no INFO means most couples will BYPASS your profile without contact.

This does not mean post a picture of your dick.
It should be known that most women and couples will not choose meet a man from a dick pic, they have no value.

Bathroom and mirror selfies are the absolute worst choice for your profile

Just some fun sarcasm" Ever heard a woman say -W

WOW I have meet that beautiful Dick? or
What a beautiful<b> toilet </font></b>in the back round of that Dick photo?

Much more likely they are looking to meet the man not a dick.

Dick pics are classless and should be shared when asked for. Always have nice lighting (natural lighting if you can, front off-center lighting if you don’t).

Try to get someone else to take the picture, and always include your face, or be willing to share. Worst is those single that say I cant share my face.

How would anyone know if they would be attracted to you ?

Remember, you’re getting people to invite you into their relationship. This is a very intimate act, and you should look like someone that is worth getting to know.

If you don’t have a great body, don’t worry!

There are plenty of swingers who are looking for exactly your kind of person, no matter what you look like.

No matter how old you are, how much you weigh, what your skin is like, there are people out there who are looking for you.

If you are not confident in your body, dont worry!

Take pictures of yourself in action shots. Make yourself seem like the kind of person that someone would want to hang out with.

Pick something you won’t mind talking about if the subject comes when you finally meet someone online you want move a real-life hookup.

Don’t just photoshop yourself in front of something interesting if you don’t know anything about it. If someone asks, you’ll just look like a fool.

If you’re a couple, make sure both of you are in the photo!

You’d be surprised at how many couples only post photos of one person online. Sometimes it’s because one is shyer than the other, or didn’t want their face in the photo.

Whatever the reason, it comes across as a bit strange to have a couple advertised but only one person in the picture. or thats its a FAKE couples profile. This is the first conclusion experienced couples will think.

Do something fun.

You don’t need to post photos of the two of you kissing, but it’s nice if others can see that there’s genuine affection between the two of you.

Remember, you’re inviting someone into your life, even if it’s only for a single evening. You want them to know they’re coming into something fantastic.

If you have nice bodies, don’t be afraid to show them off—but there’s no reason to be really lewd about it.

If the person who wants to hook up with you wants to see more intimate shots, it’s fun to get them to ask for it.

In general, shots of the two of you poolside or at the beach is a great way to showcase your bodies without being extra forward. If you can show off your bodies in an effortless, fun way without making a big deal out of it, that’s even better.

The basic rule of thumb is simple. Make yourself look like the kind of person (or couple) you’d want to hang out with.

MOST PEOPLE join these sites with no plan, no organization and no real thought behind the profile they are creating.

We have seen 10's of thousands of DEACTIVATED members or those that have QUIT in as little as 90 days due to no success.... however there is a reason for this...

The profile itself often had no value, no quality pics , and no information.

You have to know your audience and create a profile that would be enticing for those to get to know you and invite you to meet ---otherwise its an exercise in futility and wasted time and effort.

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