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Who is your TARGET AUDIENCE? YOUR OWN DICK or women & couples?  

Jchris2018 44M/38F  
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1/23/2021 2:17 pm
Who is your TARGET AUDIENCE? YOUR OWN DICK or women & couples?

BLOG POSTINGS from a former professional dating coach with psychology degree in human behavioral studies.

First men must understand couples and single women get 500 messages a month, asking meet or EVERY MONTH.

We have received over 35,000 online messages in the last 8 years here.

Most of the messages are I want fuck you , I want eat your pussy , I would love pound that pussy” along with a boring , mundane , ill attempt at a DICK PHOTO, often over a TOILET BOWL.

ALL of those introductions have NOTHING to do with women or couples at all.

Its sex based language that expresses NOTHING more than a man’s selfish agenda to take care of his own dick.

If you notice each introduction started with ( I ) , ITS NOT ABOUT YOU or your dick but rather how to connect and attract more women and couples – YOUR TARGET AUDIENCE.

WHAT DO YOU THINK WOMEN AND COUPLES FIND ATTRACTIVE?

We often visit men’s profile’s that have messaged us , all we see is ONE sentence and 2 or 3 dick pics?

Do men truly think that women find that approach attractive and enticing?

MEN do you think the first thought of a single woman or MARRIED couple is:

OH MY GOD , YOU HAVE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL COCK over the other 1.2 MILLION other cocks on this site that I MUST , SIMPLY MUST,INVITE THAT COCK AND GET IT IN MY WIFE'S PUSSY IMMEDIATELY.

Your target audience is WOMAN AND COUPLES who often have FAMILIES , FRIENDS , SOCIAL AND PERSONAL OBLIGATIONS ,strong , loyal , caring relationships with some form of open marriage or bond agreement to have sex with others NOT here to fulfill every desire and deviant wish of mindless men looking to get their dick wet.

LEARNING HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR TARGET AUDIENCE WILL BE FAR MORE VALUABLE, than just a profile with a DICK photo and silly one sentence introduction of " Hey i would love to fuck you "

TAILORING YOUR PROFILE and introduction message that is more favorable to women and couples will give you far more success than how 99% of men approach this site, with silly sex based introductions and mundane DICK photos.

AdultFriendFinder ADVERTISES as a SEX site and this is NOT accurate at all !

A SEX site is where you a woman for guaranteed sex.

AdultFriendFinder is a SEX DATING SITE where all the basic factors of human psychology of choice and interaction still exist.

This means there still has to be some modicum of connection, attraction and interaction for it to be successful.

We have seen TENS of THOUSANDS of men quit the site in as as 90 days or less with absolutely no success, and didn't meet a single person.

Stop thinking with the totality of your DICK and you may find better success.

Step by step:
1) Read single woman or couples profile ENTIRELY to glean important information to help you craft an introductions that STANDS among the other HUNDREDS they see every month

2) respond with something of interest that specifically a SPECIFIC thing you like about a profile or HOW YOU fit the preferences THEY ARE LOOKING FOR. Not just Hey ,NICE pics , love your profile.

NO VALUE, couples get hundreds of those every month.

3) Show some effort -give examples or direct reasons why you feel you may be a good match what they wrote.

4) STOP leading with your own agenda --statements like I want to meet because I want to fuck her, means nothing, you are ONE in a sea of thousands of lackluster , mediocre introductions with every other man

5) Use LESS of the pronoun ( I ) and write about THEM , females and couples from what you read. This shows effort, interest and value.

6) Offer a message that may contain things of common interest , not just sex related , if you see a photo and have been there –GREAT STARTER CONVERSATION, Maybe send a PHOTO of you playing a musical instrument , something DIFFERENT than a dick


Learning the basic ideas on how couples and women CHOOSE to meet a man will be far more powerful in helping you have success here.

Here is a valuable exercise.

When you see profile photos are you more attracted to:
A) A sexy bikini clad woman walking on tropical beach with sun glistening off her beautiful curves

Or

B - SAME WOMAN pulling her sweat pants down , showing off her slit in bathroom mirror with a toilet bowl in the back round??????


Now think about women and couples, do you think a woman would prefer a nice pic with content style charisma and thought like a well dressed man in a cool nightclub or sporting event for example

OR

A man wearing a T shirt in bathroom taking a DICK selfie in the mirror?

Think we all know the answer.

Learn how to PLAY the online profile game BETTER and you will be more successful

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