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The Price Tag Barbie... With The Auburn Hair  

Paulxx001 66M
8702 posts
12/18/2018 1:06 am

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The Price Tag Barbie... With The Auburn Hair

Many y.ears ago, when I was a young man... I met a young woman...

She was a price-tag Barbie, with painted-on jeans and those fuck me, charcoal eyes. I was never sure... if they were half-open, or half-closed. I guess, it depended on the time of day. Auburn hair, brushed her waist... and her tall, confident stride - always turned heads. She would have been a candle, in someone's eye... but not mine. I wanted nothing to do with her.

She slowly, sauntered up to me - through the dark... and across the light. I leaned up against my car and watched... as she stirred that quiet parking lot, with her shadow. The fine gravel, under her black leather boots, crunched to a rhythm of a song... with a title... that I couldn't remember.

"Hi Paul . . . gotta light ?"

"I don't smoke... You know I don't."

"Oh... yeah... I remember."

If I could, I would have rewound space and paused at the good times - a couple of y.ears ago... when I was 23. Those memories... had long faded, and the only ones left, were all sour and grey. She'd been drinking, or smoking... or both. Her glassy eyes, were large... black... pools.

"I thought, it was you inside. I haven't seen you in what... 2 or 3 y.ears? Are you, uhh... in town for the... holidays? When dja' get in? Mike would prob'ly wanna see you. Did you see him in the bar tonight?"

So many questions in a row, I didn't know which one to answer first. It didn't matter. She didn't really care, about my answers anyway. "Yeah. I saw Mike. I said hi to both of you. You don't recall?"

"Oh yeah... yes... I do. Sure... You were talking to the drummer, Pete... uhhh... or Steve... I don't remember his name. So how long are you here for? How are your parents? How's your brother doing? I haven't seen you in so long. You're looking good Paul... yeah..."

And her voice trailed off, as she lowered her gaze, and reached into her jeans... for a lighter - I presumed. Then a voice I recognized, yelled from across the parking lot. It was Mike.

"Hey... Paul... Tell that girl you're with, we're going home. Unless she wants to go home with you?" he laughed.

She turned around to Mike and waved, then looked back at me.

"It was good to see you Paul. It was really, good to see you. You think... we'll run into each other again? We're coming back here tomorrow night. You know... Mike's doin' the sound for the band. I saw your band, is playing over at the Coliseum in Syracuse next week? Maybe Mike and I can make it for that. I'll speak with him... yeah... so anyway..."

"Hey, ...! Are ya coming , or what ?" Mike's voice echoed across the lot.

"I gotta run Paul. It was good to see you. Merry Christmas."

She leaned over to me and gave me a hug. A tight one. I could smell her perfume, and the liquor on her breath. Then she turned her head and kissed me on the cheek. I felt her warm tears, as they dripped, off her cheek and onto mine. She pressed her lips, to my ear and whispered...

"I love you Paul. I always will..."

Then with a shove, she pushed against my shoulders, steadied herself and turned to walk away. As she did, she wiped her glistening eyes, with her hand.

She would always cry and get emotional, when she'd been drinking. She'd always tell me that she loved me... when she was drunk. I watched as she walked back, across the parking lot... and into the shadows... again.

"Merry Christmas," I whispered back...


© December 2018 Paul P.
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So...
What is it about 'bad boys' and 'bad girls' that attracts us to them? Or is it just me?
Do you like going to<b> bars </font></b>or small clubs where live bands ?


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Yeah . . . 'Bad' boys and girls have a tendency to get under your skin. Or at least the 'bad' girls , had a way of getting under mine... I guess I was weak.
Give me a live band in a small bar - any time. Something intimate and really enjoyable about watching a band where they are so close you can hear the of the sound of the snare drum without the for the mic. And the guys on stage are talking amongst themselves , between songs.
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Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 1:06 am

I don't know what it is about bad girls . . . I've only met a few in my life that have captured my attention, but they have done a damn good job of it. Something about forbidden fruit, or something that is just unattainable. They have succeeded in drawing me into their web on more than one occasion. Or is it something about my personality that draws that type of person towards me? I can't say I've regretted it. It has definitely been a great ride with them, while it has lasted.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 1:07 am

As someone who played (plays) in a band, I really love going to bars with a live band. There's a vibe to it that is just great ! Especially when I know the band playing. There is a certain comradery about the guys in the band. We're all pulling for each other. I've even stepped in for some bandmates (last minute fill in), when they needed someone - and THAT is a thrill. Playing when you barely know the songs on the playlist... lol. Yep . . . Love going to see live bands ! The smaller the venue - the better. I've seen some great bands that turned out to be superstars, who started out as small club bands. Now THAT's a thrill... Being that close to people with talent... it's as if you are the first one to notice them, before the rest of the world does.


Topdrawer999 47M
45 posts
12/18/2018 2:17 am

Nice xx


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 5:11 am

    Quoting  :

No bad boys in your history ? Really . . I guess you're the bad girl the guys talk about ? lol Bad in a good way !
Yes . . . I knew you would probably love that bar, live band vibe. It's such a warm feeling ... usually ! Which do you enjoy more - on stage or in the wings listening to someone else play?
Yep . . . happy Tuesday and enjoy your coffee dear !!!


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 5:12 am

Thanks for popping in. Have a great Tuesday !


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 5:14 am

    Quoting  :

Hey . . . You know what I'm talking about . . right ? Only in the bedroom . . . is a good place to be 'bad'... I mean good ! lol
There is ALWAYS that one ! Or I always happen to notice that ONE . .. Ugh ..
Have a great Tuesday !


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
12/18/2018 5:20 am

My bad girl days are gone- dammit and the boys wellll. I had a few that my mom thought were bad, but they were really just horny boys looking for a little jam session Bars around here well not in the boonies. The best band I ever saw was in a hole in the wall in boston: The Boston Tea Party
The Who doing the first live performance of rock opera " Tommy". Never forget that and a weekend later The Grateful Dead before they got famous
Mickey Hart could jump my bones any time LOL

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pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
12/18/2018 6:46 am

Nope never fell for a bad boy........and of course everybody knows I'm angelic....!


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 7:28 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    My bad girl days are gone- dammit and the boys wellll. I had a few that my mom thought were bad, but they were really just horny boys looking for a little jam session Bars around here well not in the boonies. The best band I ever saw was in a hole in the wall in boston: The Boston Tea Party
    The Who doing the first live performance of rock opera " Tommy". Never forget that and a weekend later The Grateful Dead before they got famous
    Mickey Hart could jump my bones any time LOL
Hmm... Bad girls days? I would have loved to be there for that. Horny boys...? Go figure... lol
Well... it sounds like you've seen/heard some classics. Always a thrill to see a band when they were 'smaller'. Grateful Dead !!! Omg ! Are you a DeadHead ? lol ... Ahh... The 'Mickey' . . Lol The Who... you've seen some good ones ... for sure !
I guess you've never dated a musician either? Good for you ! They are a bad lot !


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 7:30 am

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    Nope never fell for a bad boy........and of course everybody knows I'm angelic....!
Yes... I believe you when you say you never fell for a 'bad boy' . . . but you ... Angelic ? Everybody knows ? No worries . . . I believe you ...... sort of ....


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 7:34 am

    Quoting  :

So true...! It WAS the look... And sometimes - the look was all it took to get ALL gooey, inside and out. Good for you, that you resisted ... or not. lol


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
12/18/2018 8:47 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Yes... I believe you when you say you never fell for a 'bad boy' . . . but you ... Angelic ? Everybody knows ? No worries . . . I believe you ...... sort of ....
Everybody knows= = family and friends........


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 9:22 am

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    Everybody knows= = family and friends........
I believe you as well ! In all your pics . . you seem so innocent... and sweet...


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
12/18/2018 9:43 am

"Ever have one of those days when sadness and nostalgia wraps around your throat - like a warm scarf that you just don't want to take off... even if you know it's choking you? "
Now we're even.

I love a live band in a small setting.....no need to over amp the volume.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 10:18 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    "Ever have one of those days when sadness and nostalgia wraps around your throat - like a warm scarf that you just don't want to take off... even if you know it's choking you? "
    Now we're even.

    I love a live band in a small setting.....no need to over amp the volume.
wow... whoever wrote that has a way with words.... ok I get it.. we're even, but it was never a contest . .
Yeah . . That vibe where it's not breaking your eardrums . .. and I say that as someone who can feel the difference... on stage as well. Love it ! Where you can still have a conversation with someone close to you . . . Yep ! Worthy !
oh and ... sorry about that ...


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 10:29 am

    Quoting  :

Oooooooops . . . . I hope the landing was a gentle one . . . Or at the very least, the flames from the crash landing... still fire bright and happy memories... from time to time. . . Yes. I understand the feeling !


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
12/18/2018 12:02 pm

I used to be in the Bar as I worked there for over 20 years as a bar tender. Great times those were I even got to sing with some of the bands that played there.

And yes something about a bad boy is HOT!!! I hope you enjoy your day..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
12/18/2018 12:13 pm

'Bad boys' came in degrees of 'badness'. They were interesting to observe but were always held at arms' length. With 2 older brothers, dinner time conversations often included their quick assessment of 'No Way, Not That Guy". I couldn't wait for them to no longer be at the same high school lol.

The music scene in Toronto is incredible. While major stadiums such as Rogers Centre and Scotiabank Arena regularly attract A-list acts like Beyoncé and Taylor Swift, the smaller venues provide a more intimate experience. No matter what style of music you are into, you won’t have trouble finding the hottest local and international acts in Toronto every night of the week.


mc_justmc 63M

12/18/2018 1:25 pm

I had a gf once that if we were drinking, we were together. We could split up and run into each other months later, get drunk, get back together. I finally gave her up. When I got divorced I googled her and saw she had a mugshot pic for Public Intoxication. The more I looked, the more I found, all alcohol related. Her mugshots were like a timeline of her face/hairstyles. They got progressively worse.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 2:47 pm

    Quoting  :

Hmmm.. Are any of them still to together?
I guess there's a fine line between, fun and I've had enough of that. I hear you. Of course I'm romanticizing those bars now, since I haven't been to one is years. But I've been to small clubs and seen great up and coming bands.
Waitress at a C&W bar... Wow. I'll bet you have some stories... to share ... ! 😱😎🙌


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 2:52 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I used to be in the Bar as I worked there for over 20 years as a bar tender. Great times those were I even got to sing with some of the bands that played there.

    And yes something about a bad boy is HOT!!! I hope you enjoy your day..
So you were the one doing vodka shooters at 1 in the morning with that gang of drunk colleges kids ? Sounds like a classic. I'd always wonder how the bartenders could keep it all together.... 😱
Yes to bad boys... Lol ..😁😘


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 2:59 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    'Bad boys' came in degrees of 'badness'. They were interesting to observe but were always held at arms' length. With 2 older brothers, dinner time conversations often included their quick assessment of 'No Way, Not That Guy". I couldn't wait for them to no longer be at the same high school lol.

    The music scene in Toronto is incredible. While major stadiums such as Rogers Centre and Scotiabank Arena regularly attract A-list acts like Beyoncé and Taylor Swift, the smaller venues provide a more intimate experience. No matter what style of music you are into, you won’t have trouble finding the hottest local and international acts in Toronto every night of the week.
You couldn't wait for your brothers to leave the highschool ...? Oooo... So did you ever hook up with one of those bad boys ?😋
True... I imagine TO has tons of band action to enjoy.. regardless of your musical tastes. So... you would close those places down and hang with the bands ? Eeee...😱🙌


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 3:05 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I had a gf once that if we were drinking, we were together. We could split up and run into each other months later, get drunk, get back together. I finally gave her up. When I got divorced I googled her and saw she had a mugshot pic for Public Intoxication. The more I looked, the more I found, all alcohol related. Her mugshots were like a timeline of her face/hairstyles. They got progressively worse.
Hmmm. Sounds like you might have had a good time, but in the end ... things didn't work our for her..🍸🍺
Is there a movie script there? Hmmm..🎬😶 Well, I imagine you felt Lucky when you stepped away when you did.. Sounds sad... for her...😶


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
12/18/2018 3:16 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    You couldn't wait for your brothers to leave the highschool ...? Oooo... So did you ever hook up with one of those bad boys ?😋
    True... I imagine TO has tons of band action to enjoy.. regardless of your musical tastes. So... you would close those places down and hang with the bands ? Eeee...😱🙌
Nope never hooked up with the ‘bad boys’. They were a curiosity more than anything else. And no, didn’t hang with the bands but my first ‘boyfriend’ was a drummer.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 4:16 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Nope never hooked up with the ‘bad boys’. They were a curiosity more than anything else. And no, didn’t hang with the bands but my first ‘boyfriend’ was a drummer.
Your first boyfriend was a drummer ? Hey... I'm a drummer... Go figure.. Does that mean you're attracted to guys with big sticks, who can carry a beat? Ya think there's a chance we could be friends ? I might be able tap a beat or two that might impress you. Just taking a guess.. 😁 So do you cha cha ?🎵


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
12/18/2018 6:54 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Your first boyfriend was a drummer ? Hey... I'm a drummer... Go figure.. Does that mean you're attracted to guys with big sticks, who can carry a beat? Ya think there's a chance we could be friends ? I might be able tap a beat or two that might impress you. Just taking a guess.. 😁 So do you cha cha ?🎵
These days, it takes a lot to impress me. Hmmm 🤔 A drummer 🎼 with a sense of humour 😀 who dances 🕺AND is Canadian 🇨🇦.... noteworthy credentials. Do you cook 👨‍🍳 too?


Livin_my_Life14 53F

12/18/2018 7:17 pm

I love live bands. So much fun dancing to the oldies and shaking my goodies💕💕


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 8:08 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    These days, it takes a lot to impress me. Hmmm 🤔 A drummer 🎼 with a sense of humour 😀 who dances 🕺AND is Canadian 🇨🇦.... noteworthy credentials. Do you cook 👨‍🍳 too?
Do I cook ? Yes . . Won't do us much good if I bring the food to you when it's cold. We're going to have to find a way to get a bit closer to each other for you to enjoy my cooking. Unless I just FedEx you the meal and you can microwave it . . Lol Oh that would be sad . . . Do you ever travel to this city ?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 8:10 pm

    Quoting Livin_my_Life14:
    I love live bands. So much fun dancing to the oldies and shaking my goodies💕💕
I do see you to be the type to enjoy the 'oldies' wtf are the oldies ? lol What the 90's 80's or the 60's ?
No bad boys in your repertoire . . . ? I thought for sure the lady in red would have a story or two to share about some random guy with the pouty lips and the shoulder length hair ? . . .


CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
12/18/2018 8:41 pm

I freakin loved one of the opening lines...

" I was never sure... if they were half-open, or half-closed. I guess, it depended on the time of day."

I tend to think you are an expert writer, worthy of publishers... very good use of words there!!!

I like those kind of small bars or pubs, My mom was a expert bartender, the best in town. I watched her with awe!! Every band member of the house band... ended up in love with her. And she wasnt prompting a thing!
My Momma was a Dish!!!!

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/18/2018 8:57 pm

    Quoting CampoGirl:
    I freakin loved one of the opening lines...

    " I was never sure... if they were half-open, or half-closed. I guess, it depended on the time of day."

    I tend to think you are an expert writer, worthy of publishers... very good use of words there!!!

    I like those kind of small bars or pubs, My mom was a expert bartender, the best in town. I watched her with awe!! Every band member of the house band... ended up in love with her. And she wasnt prompting a thing!
    My Momma was a Dish!!!!
Thanks... I'm not sure if people here really want that type of writing . . But I'm glad you appreciate it.
I love those type of small bars and clubs. So much fun and so intimate. And... once in a while there's a group that performs . . that really doesn't belong there. Your mom was a bartender? Wow. ... It takes a special person to be able to put up with the clientele lol . . . The good ones knew how to do it. Sounds like your Mom knew what she was doing !!!
I really liked your post this afternoon btw. . . It was hot ! Thanks for popping in here at this late hour . . So . . Can I serve you a non alcoholic drink? The bar is still open . . . LOL ... Oh . . . I have a juice bar . . . fresh pineapple, orange and blueberry juices . . .


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
12/18/2018 9:58 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Do I cook ? Yes . . Won't do us much good if I bring the food to you when it's cold. We're going to have to find a way to get a bit closer to each other for you to enjoy my cooking. Unless I just FedEx you the meal and you can microwave it . . Lol Oh that would be sad . . . Do you ever travel to this city ?
‘Plates by Paul’ 🥘 delivered by courier 🚗 ? Hmmmm could be a new business for you. Personally, I would prefer to see you ‘in action’ . Do you have a chef’s hat 👨‍🍳 and apron? Visiting Montreal is on my bucket list. Now I have a reason to move it to the top of the list 🗒


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/19/2018 5:22 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    ‘Plates by Paul’ 🥘 delivered by courier 🚗 ? Hmmmm could be a new business for you. Personally, I would prefer to see you ‘in action’ . Do you have a chef’s hat 👨‍🍳 and apron? Visiting Montreal is on my bucket list. Now I have a reason to move it to the top of the list 🗒
I guess it'll be what it'll be.Right? Have a great day.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
1/3/2019 6:39 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    'Bad boys' came in degrees of 'badness'. They were interesting to observe but were always held at arms' length. With 2 older brothers, dinner time conversations often included their quick assessment of 'No Way, Not That Guy". I couldn't wait for them to no longer be at the same high school lol.

    The music scene in Toronto is incredible. While major stadiums such as Rogers Centre and Scotiabank Arena regularly attract A-list acts like Beyoncé and Taylor Swift, the smaller venues provide a more intimate experience. No matter what style of music you are into, you won’t have trouble finding the hottest local and international acts in Toronto every night of the week.
Ever have one of those days when sadness and nostalgia wraps around your throat - like a warm scarf that you just don't want to take off... even if you know it's choking you?


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/3/2019 11:44 am

I am doing my best to avoid sadness and nostalgia as it can be too painful 😢


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
1/3/2019 12:32 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    I am doing my best to avoid sadness and nostalgia as it can be too painful 😢
Sorry that I brought it up...


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/3/2019 2:02 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Sorry that I brought it up...
Oh don’t be sorry. It’s a fact of life that each of us has to find a way to deal with. Not everything is rainbows 🌈 and sunshine ☀️


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