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Women Say Men... Aren.t as Sexy... As Men Think They Are... ðŸ˜Ū❗  

Paulxx001 67M
8732 posts
5/18/2021 10:45 am

Last Read:
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Women Say Men... Aren.t as Sexy... As Men Think They Are... ðŸ˜Ū❗

When I'm in my car, I don't have the time or patience to fiddle with playlists or search for themed music; I choose whatever random radio station is available and listen until I get fed up — then I flip to the next airwave. It's rare for me to get glued to one frequency for any period. Yet yesterday, I was stuck on 'The Beat 92.5' ; they'd sucked me in with their — 'Question of the Day.'


'What do men do — that THEY think is sexy — but has the OPPOSITE effect on women?'

Interesting query. Here are some of the answers that were texted.

- Send dick pics. (Of course.)
- Wear socks to bed. (What man thinks that's sexy?)
- Call middle-aged women 'hot'. (The term ladies prefer, is 'attractive' or 'beautiful'.)
- Wear pants that are too tight. (I can see that.)


And then the DJ opened up the phone lines. Who knew women had so much to say about men? The first caller must have enjoyed 'Happy Hour' somewhere in this city; it was evident as she spoke that she'd had a few.

"Just because you buy a woman one fucking drink doesn't mean you own her for the night."

The DJ had forgotten to press the seven-second delay, and — after another second of stunned silence — he cracked up. Meanwhile, the lady continued.

"Don't think women get impressed with one drink. Are we expected to sit next to you ALL fucking night because of that two-for-one one glass of whatever you just bought us?"

After I'd stopped laughing, I paused and thought about what the caller had said. I might have been guilty of THAT faux-pas — once or twice.

Traffic barely budged, but I didn't mind. The DJ was still chuckling and questioned whether or not he'd lost his job. I sat in my car and listened and got an education from all the women who called. Who knew? lol 😂

................


I guess these socks are sexy; sort of.



Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 10:47 am

What do men do — that THEY think is sexy — but has the OPPOSITE effect on women?

Men? Ladies? Feel free to put in your two cents. ❗😎


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 10:49 am

I'll say — putting on too much cologne.ðŸĪ”

But if I felt SEXY, wasn't THAT the point? Or was it to attract a female ; or was it both?
One outta three ain't bad.😊


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
5/18/2021 11:35 am

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Can't wait to see the contributions to this one, although honestly nothing very funny or unique is popping into my head. How about my least favorite kind of kisser? The guy who, without any kissing 'foreplay', jams a stiff tongue into your mouth. Like he's trying to fuck your mouth with his tongue. Not sexy.


donsv1962 61M

5/18/2021 1:04 pm

interesting time he had there

I want to take you into the fiery lair of steamy sexual delight on this hot sultry night.


CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
5/18/2021 1:15 pm

Those "leather" plastic panties are a pitch to take back off/ esp. when wet!!! ( dont ask). But the secret is a thin coating of baby powder or similar, corn starch put on the inside! They kind of roll off then. But I bet you've already been stuck in them at least once! if its you Im looking at in photos.
Next....

Try the full body, black laytex suit! Putting on and off....separates the boys from the men!!

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
5/18/2021 2:46 pm

I must admit I never understood the 'One drink and she's mine unwritten rule'....

I also don't understand sending dick pic nor Socks to bed....


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
5/18/2021 2:50 pm

Thongs. Tongue pics. Too much jewelry. Poor flirting skills.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
5/18/2021 3:09 pm

Something I can't stand is when a man who I don't know, never chatted with, viewed or exchanged a message with, contacts me and calls me "Babe" or "Cutie" or says, "Hey Girl".


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 5:02 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    [image]

    Can't wait to see the contributions to this one, although honestly nothing very funny or unique is popping into my head. How about my least favorite kind of kisser? The guy who, without any kissing 'foreplay', jams a stiff tongue into your mouth. Like he's trying to fuck your mouth with his tongue. Not sexy.
Stiff tongue 😝, huh?
Yep, I can see that one.

This Q might have been tougher than anticipated. lol 😂

I know that as far as I'm concerned, NOTHING about a woman — these days — is unsexy; absolutely NOTHING ! ðŸŒđ ❗ 😎


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 5:03 pm

    Quoting donsv1962:
    interesting time he had there
You never know what people will say on live radio.
Thanks for popping in..👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 5:06 pm

    Quoting CampoGirl:
    Those "leather" plastic panties are a pitch to take back off/ esp. when wet!!! ( dont ask). But the secret is a thin coating of baby powder or similar, corn starch put on the inside! They kind of roll off then. But I bet you've already been stuck in them at least once! if its you Im looking at in photos.
    Next....

    Try the full body, black laytex suit! Putting on and off....separates the boys from the men!!
If it's you looking at me then that's me. 😊
Hey, how have you been? 😎

Ya know, I've never tried latex. I'll take your tips to heart if I ever try rubber! ❗

Good to see you. 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 5:10 pm

    Quoting GhostofH:
    I must admit I never understood the 'One drink and she's mine unwritten rule'....

    I also don't understand sending dick pic nor Socks to bed....
That one drink myth is ONE I've seen. lol 😂
Those others are questionable; that crowd just started piling on men and lost their direction.

Plus, it's a tough Q; as I mentioned to 'Smart.' There's NOTHING unsexy about women I see these days. Have my standards lowered? ðŸĪ” ❗😎
Ya know what I mean? ðŸĪ”


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 5:14 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Something I can't stand is when a man who I don't know, never chatted with, viewed or exchanged a message with, contacts me and calls me "Babe" or "Cutie" or says, "Hey Girl".
Hmmm... Reeeelee...
Ooops.

Okie dokie ; note taken. ❗❗😎
Anything else?
I'm pretty forgiving these days and nothing you could do would turn my switch off.
But I get your point. Do you write that person off at that point? ðŸĪ”


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
5/18/2021 5:26 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Something I can't stand is when a man who I don't know, never chatted with, viewed or exchanged a message with, contacts me and calls me "Babe" or "Cutie" or says, "Hey Girl".
BINGO!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 5:37 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Thongs. Tongue pics. Too much jewelry. Poor flirting skills.
Wow! All of those are good ones... I mean bad ones! 👍
So, ya met a few guys like THAT? lol 😂 ❗❗😎


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
5/18/2021 8:44 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Hmmm... Reeeelee...
    Ooops.

    Okie dokie ; note taken. ❗❗😎
    Anything else?
    I'm pretty forgiving these days and nothing you could do would turn my switch off.
    But I get your point. Do you write that person off at that point? ðŸĪ”
I make it clear how I feel about their comments. Their reaction will determine if the communication continues; it rarely does. Other “non-sexy” stuff includes: while on a date flirting with wait staff or leering at other women; indiscriminate swearing; grabbing their crotch or indicating the size of what’s hidden; talking about their past “conquests”. Embodying, “You only get one chance to make a first impression,” goes both ways 😉.


Paulxx001 replies on 5/18/2021 9:59 pm:
And you've experienced all that stuff? ðŸĪ” Wow
So you think that I should quit swearing? I use it mostly — for dramatic effect.

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
5/18/2021 8:51 pm

I sense that you're feeling the last year of isolation pretty acutely, Paul...


Paulxx001 replies on 5/18/2021 9:46 pm:
I would have rewritten it and sent a better rebuttal but I don't want to set new records, and I'm tired. Lol 😂 I'm not listening to you in the future and /or ill proof what I write in the future. ❗ ❗ 😎

Paulxx001 replies on 5/18/2021 9:54 pm:
I'll quit while I still can. ❗😎

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 9:52 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I sense that you're feeling the last year of isolation pretty acutely, Paul...
Lol 😂 Well, 'acutely' might be overstating things, but... I've become more tolerant of the attributes the opposite sex demonstrate? ðŸĪ”
Don't you miss getting close to members of the other team? ðŸĪ” That cute way they strut into a room, tight pants 👖 stopping their circulation as waves of their pungent cologne roll in fragrant waves and smack you in the nose? ðŸĪ” ❗❗😎


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/19/2021 2:17 am

    Quoting  :

Good safety tip! 👍
So, you've never been fooled by that guy who bought you that drink? ðŸĪ”
Men are quirky beasts, aren't they? 😂 lol ❗❗😎


mc_justmc 63M

5/19/2021 4:06 am

I listen to Spotify when I'm driving. Hard to get fed up with your own playlist. Manbuns, I don't know what women think about them but they annoy the shit out of me.


BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
5/19/2021 1:20 pm

Perhaps Paul "men" or women come to that, should not try so hard? And, as usual enjoyed your Blog - could picture you "cuckling along with the Dj"! Hey, and fuzzy socks and woolie caps could be sexy in front of the fire in winter, esp if that's all he, she is wearing?!

..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/19/2021 2:34 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I listen to Spotify when I'm driving. Hard to get fed up with your own playlist. Manbuns, I don't know what women think about them but they annoy the shit out of me.
lol 😂 Man-buns... yep! 👌 ❗

My problem is that I have too many playlists and I've messed them up. I used to have themes. UGH, now...? Well now I just do my playlists at home.; where I can mess with it without hitting a tree. ðŸĪ” ❗


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/19/2021 4:30 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Perhaps Paul "men" or women come to that, should not try so hard? And, as usual enjoyed your Blog - could picture you "cuckling along with the Dj"! Hey, and fuzzy socks and woolie caps could be sexy in front of the fire in winter, esp if that's all he, she is wearing?!
True about trying too hard, but I imagine self confidence and self esteem has a part to play.
THAT radio wave is always provocative. lol 😂
I can see that 'socks' scenario, except on a day like today; 30°C and the air is thick.
Let's forget about the cap and fireplace, and sit out on the deck and watch the sunset. I'm not wearing socks ðŸ§Ķ. lol 😂
Is it cold there? It's boiling here. ðŸĪ” ❗ ❗ 😎


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/20/2021 1:16 am

Facial hair IS a good one yet perceived as a sign of masculinity. A woman's perspective would also include how rough stubble feels on her body and its various creases. I'd imagine there might be some chafing. ðŸ˜Ū

The most I've grown is a goatee, back in the day. If I try a beard, I have too many gaps.

Thanks for popping in and sharing your pov. Drop by any time. 😎❗


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/20/2021 2:35 pm

    Quoting  :

Mine neither. But, he's been photoshopped.
Many things? ðŸĪ” Reeeleee... lol 😂
As in...?
I'd agree both bullying and arrogance are NOT sexy. We had a hard time finding a vast list here.
Feel free to add — I'm sure I'd recognize it if I saw it.
We're not THAT bad, are we? ❗❗😎


silk_petal_rose 60F  
2363 posts
5/20/2021 2:52 pm

you need to listen to 92.5 in the morning.

silky...


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/20/2021 4:29 pm

Sometimes I do. This morning they were talking about silly stuff ; they're usually funny.
Is that your station? ðŸĪ”
No comments about men?
You have the second shot yet?
All's well? ❗❗😎👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/20/2021 11:57 pm

    Quoting  :

lol 😂 👍
I understand that arrogance you're referring to. ❗
Now those other items ... lol 😂, well, they're just things that annoy you about men (me too, by the way) and not necessarily things men would find sexy. the

I mean, when I'm digging — if I did — I'd try and hide and not be seen. Yes, to biting, as well. 😊
Ya didn't mention random gaseous discharge; you're okay with that? ðŸĪ”
Now this list is filling up. Thanks ❗ 😎👍


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
5/20/2021 11:57 pm

Cute stockings


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/21/2021 12:28 am

    Quoting  :

Lol, 😂 That is too funny. I'm thinking of any you might have missed; I'm sure there might be a few.
All good examples. Punctuation, huh? ðŸĪ”
So... ya been holding THOSE in? Lol 😂 , Yep, happy to oblige with a sounding board. Feel free to vent here at your leisure any time. ❗❗😎👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/21/2021 12:32 am

Ya think? ðŸĪ”
Woudja tell him to keep them on or take them off, as he climbed into bed? ❗❗😎

Any peeves to share? ðŸĪ”


scoupe42 60M

5/21/2021 6:07 pm

I think I'll try the socks to bed, if it's what the doctor ordered. I do tell middle-aged women they hot, for they are the women I mess with, tight pant, I'm chubby so my pants are tight whether I want them to be or not. Speaking about that one drink. I have a friend that got kicked out of a club, for he bought a women a drink and mentioned to her, that she was his. Wrong! Good blog.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/21/2021 8:33 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    I think I'll try the socks to bed, if it's what the doctor ordered. I do tell middle-aged women they hot, for they are the women I mess with, tight pant, I'm chubby so my pants are tight whether I want them to be or not. Speaking about that one drink. I have a friend that got kicked out of a club, for he bought a women a drink and mentioned to her, that she was his. Wrong! Good blog.
Socks ðŸ§Ķ? Really? ðŸĪ” lol 😂 No...
True about pants, and choices.
The drink comment seems to be a popular one a lot of men have abused!
Thanks for sharing! 👍 ❗


Wat2dowithme 81F
43 posts
5/22/2021 12:32 am

Posting Videos or Pictures of them Fucking or Getting their dick sucked?? I realize that they have had sex before but who wants to see WHO and HOW? Especially if she's nothing to be bragging about or she's got one fucking her and someone else's dick in her mouth. I've never seen anything like that and thought to myself "OH MY GOD ME PICK ME I WANNA BE NEXT" STANDARDS fortunately have kept me from finding this "SEXY" sorry Guys just MY opinion 🙃


Paulxx001 replies on 5/22/2021 10:04 am:
'Pick me, pick me'. That's funny! True, who wants to watch THAT? ðŸĪ” ❗❗

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/22/2021 3:02 am

    Quoting Wat2dowithme:
    Posting Videos or Pictures of them Fucking or Getting their dick sucked?? I realize that they have had sex before but who wants to see WHO and HOW? Especially if she's nothing to be bragging about or she's got one fucking her and someone else's dick in her mouth. I've never seen anything like that and thought to myself "OH MY GOD ME PICK ME I WANNA BE NEXT" STANDARDS fortunately have kept me from finding this "SEXY" sorry Guys just MY opinion 🙃
I think you hit the nail on the head — your nail, and THAT'S the only thing that matters.
I have to say that I agree with you.
Thanks for sharing, pop in any time! ❗❗😎


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
5/22/2021 9:02 am

One thing I can't stand about a man is leaving the toilet seat up in the middle of the night.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/22/2021 12:23 pm

    Quoting flannel_light:
    One thing I can't stand about a man is leaving the toilet seat up in the middle of the night.
Hmmm... yeah... I never got THAT one.
I mean I get it ; ya risk falling into the soup.
On the other hand ; dontchu women know where that light switch is? ðŸĪ”

Ever fallen in there? ðŸĪ” ❗ 😎


silk_petal_rose 60F  
2363 posts
5/22/2021 4:16 pm

It is the station I listen to in the a.m.........july my 2nd shot............you?

silky...


Paulxx001 replies on 5/22/2021 5:24 pm:
Either that, or Virgin, or CBC... lol 😂
Yeah, July.
All's well, but bored, like everyone else. It'll be nice when they open things up next week. 👍😊

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/23/2021 8:34 am

    Quoting  :

Hmmm... I can imagine THAT.
Those women obviously aren't shy about who views those pics. Good safety tip! 👍 😊


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/23/2021 8:36 am

    Quoting  :

Notes have been taken! lol 😂 ðŸ˜Ū
Mamm, Miss, Lady, and Hello — are probable alternatives, or are there others? ðŸĪ”


lunchandconvo 53F  
4034 posts
5/27/2021 5:54 pm

THAT is quite the final outfit!
i'm not into crossdressers tho i enjoy trans people...
that ensemble is something else!
very impressive!!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/27/2021 7:04 pm

    Quoting lunchandconvo:
    THAT is quite the final outfit!
    i'm not into crossdressers tho i enjoy trans people...
    that ensemble is something else!
    very impressive!!
Happy to have found it for you.❗😎
I've never slipped rubber on — besides the obvious sheath. You? ðŸĪ”


lunchandconvo 53F  
4034 posts
5/28/2021 8:41 am

i have never worn rubber! except maybe shoes. but even then i prefer leather or fabric as much as possible over vinyl.


Paulxx001 replies on 5/28/2021 3:57 pm:
I'm like you; natural fibre please. lol 😂 ðŸ˜Ū 👍

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/1/2021 5:50 pm

Women say men are not as sexy as he thinks he is. ...ha.. Big fucking deal!

"Sexy" is wildly subjective. What works on one , will not always work on another.

Those broads who called in are merely speaking their own perspective.

- Send dick pics. ... Not recommended, but there are women who like that sort of interaction.
If a man is the type of guy to send these pics, then obviously he he is looking for that woman who gets aroused by such a thing. He's fishing for such a woman.

- Wear socks to bed. (What man thinks that's sexy?)... I'm really sure straight men do not do that to be sexy. More likely he would wear socks to bed due to cold feet, rough feet, weird toe nails, or maybe, "Traction".

- Call middle-aged women 'hot'. (The term ladies prefer, is 'attractive' or 'beautiful'.)... Nonsense! If a middle aged woman is hot, and you perceive her as , "Hot"... then go ahead and tell her she's hot.
If she's attracted to you too, she'll respond favorably. But not telling a woman you just met, "You're hot / attractive / beautiful", is not recommended.

- Wear pants that are too tight. (I can see that.)....That is more gay than straight. So yes, if you're looking to attract women, not gay men, don't do that.

"Just because you buy a woman one fucking drink doesn't mean you own her for the night." .... Men should not be buying strangers [women] drinks, anyway. Save your money to spend on yourself, or save for yourself. If a woman wants to have sex with you, she will.

Oh... one other thing, break the habit of referring to women you don't really know, as, "Ladies"....


Paulxx001 replies on 6/1/2021 7:51 pm:
That radio station's unofficial poll was populated by angry women who drifted off topic to include things that OFFEND them about men.
Offense is a personal choice, isn't it?
Thanks for shedding some of your light on this topic! 👍 😎❗❗

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/7/2021 7:17 pm

Testing, one, two, three ; comments are active again — I think? ðŸĪ” lol 😂
Who knows? 😎❗❗


silk_petal_rose 60F  
2363 posts
6/14/2021 7:15 pm

yes we are moving into the yellow now....and yes I just listen to 92.5 or 106.7 saturday nights.

silky...


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/14/2021 9:50 pm

    Quoting silk_petal_rose:
    yes we are moving into the yellow now....and yes I just listen to 92.5 or 106.7 saturday nights.
And right on time; I think people are getting restless. I'm looking forward to a bit of normal. Happy summer! 👍 😊


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