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My Orgasm Explained Again
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My Orgasm Explained Again I have written about My Orgasms a few time in the past but am still surprised by the number of men who are amazed that my orgasm is so unlike that of a or even from most females. Orgasms are considered by most be height of sexual activity. It is thought be necessary for achieving sexual satisfaction. However, sexual satisfaction can vary, and does I’m told, in men and women. Whereas, I don’t believe any would think of having sex without ejaculating, a female may or may not reach the point of Orgasm during sexual contact. Since I am Transgendered, and therefore somewhere between a male and a female, my Orgasms are also somewhat different from a male and are more akin a female’s Orgasm. It seems that because I still have a Penis, small as it is, men expect that I still ejaculate like they do or that I get sexually aroused if they perform Oral sex on me. Both of these assumptions are totally WRONG. One of the first steps in -Female Transitioning is treatment with Testosterone Blocker to minimize typical male characteristics such as Muscle size, facial and pubic hair, deep voice and the development of Penis and Testes. I have been on varying levels of Testosterone Blocker for 20 years so I don’t have big muscles, facial and pubic hair, a deep voice or Penis that resembles in size that of the typical male or Testicles that produce Sperm. Although I have decided to keep my Penis for personal reasons, it is best described as “non-functional”. Think of it as a movie set in an old western movie. It looks like a real old cowboy town but it really isn’t and no one really lives there. Since I no longer manufacture Sperm (sometimes just a little) I can’t shoot a load like a male. It just isn’t there. Sperm is Manly and I am not Manly anymore. Putting these factors together means I don’t get an Erection and I don’t ejaculate when I Orgasm. Also, I should add others points; 1. My Penis is not very sensitive so I don’t get much pleasure from having someone perform Oral sex on me. 2. I am slow Orgasm. It take much longer than most people thus I often don’t reach a climax before or at the same time as my sexual partner. That is just the way I am. 3. I don’t masturbate my Penis. It doesn’t get hard and I don’t ejaculate so what’s the point. Let me explain what does give me an Orgasm or at the least complete Sexual Satisfaction. Anticipation - Knowing I will be having sex with a quality partner starts increasing my libido. Just the thought that sex is forthcoming gets my imagination running with wonderment of what may be involved. If my anticipation is for several hours or several days my arousal will build similarly. Preparation - Going through all the steps necessary get ready for a date actually increases my sex drive. The knowledge that my make-up, my hair, my under and outer wear will contribute his desire excites . I want be as perfect as I can be. Preliminaries - This may include any number of activities. It could include a nice dinner, pleasant conversation, a couple glasses of wine, soft music and lighting or even touching and kissing. All these can contribute to a proper and conducive atmosphere for romance. Fore - I really don’t like call this stage . This is a serious part of Love Making and can take many forms. warm, naked bodies stimulation each other are what builds the sexual desire needed for an Orgasm. I like it slow, not hurried, and having my breasts fondled and kissed and my ass admired with caresses and more kissing. I also love inspire my partner by handling, kissing and sucking his penis. All his, and my, sexual desires center on his penis. I love watch it become larger, firmer and begin throb with desire. Penetration - When this finally occurs, I love it slow and with plenty of lubrication. I don’t want any discomfort distract from all that has proceed this moment. I want a man slowly and gently enter a little at a time until I have finally taken his entire length and he begins slow rhythmic trusting of his penis in me. Remember, I’m slow so please don’t hurry this part. Orgasm - All that has transpired up this moment are a part of my Orgasm. My mind and body have been focused on this since the thought of this sexual encounter first began. My release is very intense as my mind goes partially blank and my body will first begin vibrate and then become very tense as all my muscles contract. I squeeze his penis with my anal muscles so hard he can’t escape until my Orgasm is complete which can take several long moments. Even when all these steps happen, my Orgasm is not assured but, and this is very important, I can still be extremely sexually satisfied. I have emotionally, mentally and physically don’t everything I can do make it happen but it is not a guarantee that I will have a complete Orgasm. Something may have been rushed, hurried or too short for me to fully reach each and every step in Love Making. I may need to collect more data to understand why this sometimes happens. Now that I have written this, I need to start Preparing for my Boyfriend who I Anticipate will want to make Love this evening. I’ve picked out a nice revealing dress and planned every detail of a Romantic dinner including the Wine. Even if I don’t have an Orgasm tonight, it will be a Satisfying night. Jan  |
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11/21/2019 2:54 pm |
Nice write up and sexy pic and I never been with tv but I would with you looking all sexy like that mmmm xo
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I love her Look
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11/14/2019 8:05 am |
Slow and easy, make it last, I agree with you that this is the best way to make love. I also like when a person knows what he or she likes and is confident enough to go get it. That is very sexy.
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11/11/2019 3:06 pm |
wow all that being said I don't think I could hold out long enough I might need to try several times I am not worried about me cuming but getting you to come would be challenge I really want to do
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You are amazing! You look so sexy in that picture!!
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11/11/2019 5:26 am |
Very interesting and a very sexy pic.
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