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Women and Transsexuals  

JaniceJanes 49T  
707 posts
3/3/2020 11:52 am
Women and Transsexuals

This is a very fascinating subject . Mainly because I had never thought about it until relatively recently.

Within the last year or so I have been contacted by several women proposing “Hook up” and I don’t mean just for coffee. After first ignoring these message I finally got very curious about why women, CIS Females at that, were sending me<b> messages </font></b>so I decided follow up with some of them.

I wasn’t just playing naive when I answered these emails, I truly was without any knowledge of their motives. I didn’t know what expect.

After, sometime several, conversations I have a better understanding of WHY a naturally born woman would be interested in meeting me, a Transsexual. These conclusions are not scientific research but my own observations thru discussions and meetings with some women.

First of all, of those I have talked or met, the majority are married and in a seemingly normal Husband and Wife relationship other than the desire for a sexual relationship outside the marriage. They are more curious than experienced of sex with a Transsexual. This is very similar men I have meet.

The single woman I met were younger and and much more open all and any sexual orientation. They actually seemed be attracted sexual diversity.

Of the married women I talk with, for the most part were very aroused by acts other than intercourse. Kissing, caressing, fondling for example. I just assume these might be missing in their normal sexual activity. Long Foreplay or long periods of erotic stimulation seemed be what they were looking for.

Also, I never had a woman suggest she wanted give Oral sex. They would rather receive Oral sex than perform it with a Transexual. Again, this could be something missing from their regular sex.

Only a very few women even mentioned in the slightest, that she wanted have sex with a Transexual. I think this may be an understanding that most all Transsexuals have got through their Transition, either fully or partially, in order attract men and that having sex with a women would be a step backwards from that objective.

This brings me another point I want make. Most all adult humans can be Passionate. Women seem be able have Passion and COMPASSION much more than men. They want share their feelings but care about the other persons feeling also. It’s not always just about receiving sex but also about giving the other person a true feeling of romance.

Perhaps the most confusing thing about a Female/Transexual relationship is the women I have talked do not appear have Lesbian tendencies or proclivities. Maybe that’s because they do not want admit it much like the men that called themselves STRAIGHT but want have sex with a Transsexual.

As for Couples that have contacted saying they both want have sex with , I place them in a completely different category, mutually watching each other fulfilling some fantasy. In those cases, the woman often wants give Oral sex and the husband want have Anal sex with . I have leave this for another Blog Post until I actually experience this. The only times I met with a couple, it just involved the husband in one way or another.

I admire the women who have opened up share their deepest feeling with . Thank you for helping better understand the sexual complexities of people. We truly all have different desires and different ideas on how satisfy them.

So much more learn and explore,

Jan


Gina_L07 67T
387 posts
4/9/2020 10:25 am

I get a lot of women asking to meet me too. I just told them that I preferred men and never got into a deeper discussion with them. However I did get the initial impression that sex was the main goal. If oral sex is what they want, then I would disappoint them as much as their husbands/bfs/lovers might do. Due to a strict conservative upbringing I never learned to fully satisfy a women orally. I do say to them that I would love to have them as friends to do girly stuff with them. However they seemed to want more. Oh well....stay home, be safe. Ciao.

Gina


cack1111 50M

3/26/2020 10:49 pm

Great pic after interesting thoughts.


pghpa333 66M

3/12/2020 4:17 am

A very interesting take. It's also something that I've given very little thought to. Thanks for your insight and for sharing your experience.


cabernetTSLover 56M
95 posts
3/4/2020 1:48 pm

Another possible point to add why women might be attracted to you is that you are genuinely sexy and women like men are also attracted to that which is pleasing to the eye. Naturally once they get to know you then it goes to the next level, if they want of course.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
3/3/2020 4:17 pm

Love the seamed stockings.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
3/3/2020 3:23 pm

very well put...i love the photo...jan...beautiful...


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
3/3/2020 2:36 pm

You are a very intelligent person. I have never though about Women being in a Female/Transsexual relationship. For me on the outside, it would be very arousing to see or be a part of in a sexual situation. A sexy mind can be so stimulating and to have a sexual relationship with that sexy mind would be very nice. BTW: You have sexy LEGS!!!


HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
3/3/2020 12:47 pm

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