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i applaud for your strength...good luck on your search... 𝕨𝕖𝕝𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕓𝕝𝕠𝕘𝕤 Here is a little trick in blogging on this site. My comment here will serve its purpose, but put the first comment by yourself next time when you post your blog posts,. It will make your blog post to show up in the "Recently Posts". Otherwise, your post will not show up amywhere else, and no one will know you have posted your blogs. So much for writing a blog post, but no one notice, right? This first comment in your blog posts doesn't have to be anything special, people just put "The magic comment", "My obligatory comment", or you can really write what you wanna say, in your first comment, too. There are some wonderful bloggers here, so be sure to go to other bloggers' post, and leave them your comments. It's a good way to mingle and reciprocate! Happy blogging, and let us know if you have any other questions in regards to the blogs, we are happy to assist you.
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Looking for the next chapter in my life...who wants to be in pages ; ) (Image)
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All good points! But be sure to replace men with women, women with men in the above poem for the applicability is the same. Don't ever believe women can not be equally abusive, including physical although these women tend to be experts at manipulating the mind, events and situations to take advantage of the man above referred to as a good man in the eyes of those who question not her motives and accusations.
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i applaud for your strength...good luck on your search... 𝕨𝕖𝕝𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕓𝕝𝕠𝕘𝕤 Here is a little trick in blogging on this site. My comment here will serve its purpose, but put the first comment by yourself next time when you post your blog posts,. It will make your blog post to show up in the "Recently Posts". Otherwise, your post will not show up amywhere else, and no one will know you have posted your blogs. So much for writing a blog post, but no one notice, right? This first comment in your blog posts doesn't have to be anything special, people just put "The magic comment", "My obligatory comment", or you can really write what you wanna say, in your first comment, too. There are some wonderful bloggers here, so be sure to go to other bloggers' post, and leave them your comments. It's a good way to mingle and reciprocate! Happy blogging, and let us know if you have any other questions in regards to the blogs, we are happy to assist you. And, do as I and JPA do, respond by using the "quote" link under user pics. This provides notice to users and brings them back to your blog.  Good Luck! You look great for our age group and will notably get lots of interest from all over the world. 
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7/3/2018 3:54 pm |
You are obviously intelligent and have learned and grown over time into a very interesting woman and someone I really would like to get to know
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7/11/2018 8:28 am |
I had the honor to speak to this nice lady feel bad for her that some guys not all out there are such assholes . I was married once for 13 yrs but she passed away 20yrs ago. never remarried for i had some bad experiences myself so I can understand how this lady feels about making a connection with someone.aka hansome101354
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Thank you hansome 101354 It was a pleasure to talk with you. We all have our struggles and defeats but somehow I feel you and I are stronger because of them
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Sometimes it takes a while to find that diamond in the rough or you might kiss a few frogs before the Prince appears, but appear he will as long as you do not compromise! The same can be said for women on these sites!
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Reading your blog is heartbreaking. Its sad to think that the bar for a woman, any woman, is to not be hurt. This year of #metoo should make all of us rethink how we treat the women in our lives. I wish you the best
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Sorry to hear it happens, and sorry to hear it happened to you
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4/3/2019 10:17 pm |
You rock on sexy lady. Don't let a bad marriage slow you down. How does that 80's song from Mathew Wilder go, "Ain't nothing gonna break my stride, nobody gonna slow me down". I try to look at the positive side. You are now free from that crazy life now so don't look back. Your positive attitude and beautiful figure will bring the best opportunities. If there is anything I can do to ever help out, please feel free to reach out at any time.
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NaughtyNurse126, thank you for posting the poem. Spot on. Believe me, there are good men out there, they are real men, they might not be the smoothest talkers, but watch their actions. Sorry for your experience , congrats you did not let it get you down or become a male gender hater. This speaks highly for you. You will find what you so much desire. You will know when it is right. Be well.
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It is hard to sort....good from bad and even ok from not ok...You seem to know it is work....too bad….finding kind people should be the norm... We appreciate your profile and your blog..S and s
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7/22/2019 9:22 pm |
Excellent post. There are good Men out there. Have fun on AdultFriendFinder!
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well pretty lady, your notebook, should start collecting pages of a better happier life, your a beautiful lady inside and out so don't hide it, let it show, lol I'm looking
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1. Take your time. Your life is your own to live, and you can take as much time as you want, on what you want, who you want, and where, when, and how you want to do it. While the consequences of abuse may impact your ability to act on these things, there is no time limit on healing. 2. Re-draw your boundaries. Boundaries allow you to define your limits—where they begin, where they end, and the terms that apply as you interact with the people around you. Healthy boundaries are established through consistent communication that holds the people involved with accountability, compassion, and understanding. 3. Decision to forgive yourself. What the abuser did to you was wrong. You never deserved it. The guilt, shame, and fear are not where your energy belongs right now, or ever again. Abuse in any form is never your fault. It doesn’t matter who the person was. It doesn’t matter how they got into your life. It doesn’t matter how long the relationship was. It doesn’t matter why you stayed. None of that matters from this point forward, You made it through. You survived. You’re free. You did it. 4. Knowledge is power. Trying to make sense of the abuse, and what to do after, seems like a difficult task on the good days, and entirely impossible on the bad ones. After however long you were forced to only know and understand the world through the abuser’s perspective, it is absolutely normal to experience confusion—even fear—over where to start. Can I trust the next person, does what he/she say for real or have ulterior motives. Surround yourself with good people, positive, fun, stable and try to enjoy life just like when you were a kid, everything was new, fresh and exciting. 5. What now. After an emotionally abusive relationship, the lies that the abuser told you about you may continue to affect the way that you see yourself. It’s your opportunity to take back your story. The undoing of the abuser’s lies and manipulations through your self-actualization can feel like an awakening, but can also be very emotionally difficult to process. Regardless of where you take your story from here, all the choices are yours now. Healing is not linear, and the process can take months, years, or decades. Everyone heals on their own time. Above all, know that you are loved, and that you are not alone.
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9/15/2019 10:35 pm |
Ohhhhh wow - I didn't know even though you mentioned something about it briefly .. Your a beautiful woman - inside and out - I can tell and it didn't take long .. I've heard similar stories and yet it continues to happen - I'm glad you had the courage and strength to get out .. I wish you nothing but the best - you deserve only the best - don't settle for anything less .. It's easy to talk in here and say all the right things but time will tell on who your real friends are .. I hope you are patient and find what your looking for - it is possible but not easy - that I know ttyl ~R
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11/8/2019 7:29 am |
A respectful, mature grown up attitude to a difficult and depressing circumstance of those having experience abuse,
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You are wise to be forgiving and see each person for themselves. It is not easy forgiving when you have been hurt, but hating hurt you more than the other person.
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Almost all men learn how to treat women, from watching how their father treats women. My own father was a kind and decent man, who was always thoughtful and polite around them. He could also make them laugh and seemed to be very popular with them. There were many women at his funeral who spoke very fondly of how much they loved and admired him. I have just tried to do my best to treat women the same way, not always succeeding, but trying my best .
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12/7/2019 2:32 pm |
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm fuck me please
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1/24/2020 8:33 am |
More than beautiful!
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7/18/2020 3:31 pm |
I do apologize for the toads that hurt and were abusive to you, Dear. You did not deserve that, but I glad you are stronger for experience and did not let it deter you too long in regrouping and continue your search for those us that are empathetic to your pain, understand, ready to comfort you as you heal, and allow you to heal. You come across as an attractive, caring, kind, dedicated and loving lady. There are some good men that are empathetic, good, kind, caring, and looking for a long term partner to allow you to lay down on our chest, allow you to be comforted by the sound of our heartbeat, with gentle but firm arms to hold you as you drift off to sleep in our arms and recharge for the next day ahead. This is for now as I understand the long and stressful days you are working during this pandemic. As I have worked in the medical field and in an ICU setting in my past. {{(HUGS)} to help comfort you. Envision as you rest, that you are laying down with your head on my chest listening to my heartbeat. Allow this heartbeat comfort you as you drift off to sleep and recharge your mental batteries during this slumber.
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Very well said, Thanks for sharing that.
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It's a shame that the few ruin it for the many. Better luck on your journey. Oh, and any chance you're a PACU nurse? I need one to perform an Alert & Responsive evaluation on me.   Looking for Mischief
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9/6/2020 5:30 pm |
Well said and words to live by.
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1 post 11/9/2020 12:36 am |
This was really beautiful. I wish more women thought this way, but I understand how a lot of my gender makes that very difficult. Seems Im always going to be apologetic for things Ive never personally done to any women, but they're already jusging me based on my gender. I get sad or indignant....but then I understand that that's how they've felt at times, too. Great peom by the way. Whoever the man in your life was who was abusive, he didn't deserve you. Hopeful I can be worthy of a woman as good and kind-hearted as you, someday. But, if I already am, hopefully she'll tell me in person. When she's ready to. 
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It is a shame that spousal abuse exist . It does happen to be a problem with either the male or the female. I was taught all my life to just walk away and thankfully at the age of 57 I have been able to just walk away. All the best in your future and thank you for the work you do in healthcare ! Much like teachers, health care workers are often hot appreciated as much as they should be !!
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I've never understood why people are abusive mentally or physically . I do know that it can happen with either the male or from his spouse but, it still doesn't make it right . I wish you al the best in your future . Life is too short to endure any type of abuse .
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What a wonderful, refreshing redemption story. Thanks for your candidness. Thanks for sharing your important life lesson. You must already know that you are one of the sexiest of women to be found here on AdultFriendFinder. But you may not know that this blog post establishes you as one of the most beautiful as well. Beauty encompasses not just physical, but spirt and soul as well. Not all Men in my mind
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It is a shame that people are driven to avoid places on this site. They certainly have plenty of legitimate reasons to.In most cases a lot tend to jump right in here before taking a proper amount of time to put anything behind them after a bad break up Some even do it during one. Reading profile still stands as best advice. A lot just want to score. Sadly there are a lot that want to even one too! Using more than all the road!
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12/9/2021 10:10 pm |
We are bombarded by the negative in this country because it gets our attention. I have been that ass of a man and treated women badly. Not proud but have learned. Sorry any woman has to deal with someone who like I was. But there are more goo people than bad. It should be our job to seek out the good in life and make our lives better.
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