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I'm going to be blunt Ok so first thing...men please understand that us women are cautious. We have to be for our own safety. Most of us women have run into bad situations in our lives and we need to feel safe about a meet. Don't pressure, don't be an ass, just recognize this is because of what we've had to deal with. Ask your sister if you don't know what I mean. I do agree though conversation shouldn't go on for months with no meet. That being said, I'm super picky. Of the few I felt a zing to meet, there have been very slim number where I thought "Ok, this might work" and met up for sex. Had sex only to get a ten minute wonder who didn't care if I came or not, have great 5 hour sessions then get bumped because there's a GF in the mix I wasn't even aware of and suddenly he feels guilty for play after two months, or had great three hour afternoon session and he lost interest because I guess he conquered what he wanted and is moving on. THIS right there is exactly what I don't want. That is why I'm so picky....why I try to find a STEADY fwb. I don't want to bed hop. I just want one guy to spoil with my body while he spoils mine and we relish a great sexual<b> release </font></b>together. Explain to me why if you have a woman NOT looking for a relationship, crazy sexual, into wanting to fuck you in a variety of ways with toys or without, and you would be that way.? Wouldn't you want to maybe make sure she got off so you could keep going back to it? Learn a little about her body for repeat fun? I mean what's with the hit and skip? I'm not needy, love to joke, love to flirt, sometimes like to be very dirty and sometimes not, I do get a little greedy wanting sex but if it's good is that a wrong thing?? Maybe sexually I'm too much work for you guys. Maybe because I'm vocal and say what I like/want you find this intimidating? What exactly is the deal here? Selfish selfish selfish.....and frustrating. I'm going to add this in here too. I understand some men my age have problems sustaining a hard on. I get it, I'm very willing to work around it, there are other things to do but when you want me to spend 30 minutes sucking your dick and you cum but then you fail to do anything for me after....That's going to be a hard pass too. I mean I'm incredibly patient in bed, I understand what happens but seriously...step up your fricken game and quit with the me me me crap. If you have a woman there that is that patient and giving....give back damn it. Of the people willing to read this I know it's going to tick some of you off but recognize this is why women tend to say no or we say fuck it and give up.  |
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Speaking for myself I think there is nothing wrong with anything you have said here. This is why I meet in public first. Because Men have also had bad things happen to them too! I have always felt that if you please the woman first, you normally get invited back. For me its been harder to meet on here so if I find someone then I am going to do what it takes to make her happy! It seems that there are two things going on here. The first is guys on here say I want sex. Then when they get it, they walk away from it or do not even show up. Is it that we are afraid of commitment? You seem like such a find on here. I hope you can find a guy.
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Very well said !!! Most men on here should read your post so they do get it. That said they may get it but do not care about the woman's needs only their own..... Thank you for your thoughts JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART
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Thank you ReallyReady46. I'm not looking for the commitment part but what ever it is...they need to fix it. Sorry you had to deal with crap from women. I know it isn't easier for you men.
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It’s understandable to be hesitant and you also have to find someone you connect with... otherwise it won’t be worth it... you sound incredible, sexy, and fun... I hope you find what you are looking for... 😉
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Justlooking I totally agree with you! Thank you Voyeurs...always nice to talk to you. It's rare Author...very rare. Frustrating too
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3/22/2020 9:07 am |
First visit to your blog. I couldn't agree with you more; and in really do feel for women who just want to feel lusted after and appreciated! It's not easy, especially now, to find someone with mutual attraction AND interests. That lives reasonably close!
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We have needs similar to men. To feel desired, to be able to laugh with. I don't necessarily need to do things other than sexual with someone but it would be a bonus if occasionally it could happen. The way my home life is I do most things on my own and get too much indifference in my household. So like many I look elsewhere.
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I'm sorry you're having a hard time finding what you're looking for. It's def not easy and people play games and it sucks
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3/25/2020 8:22 am |
We have needs similar to men. To feel desired, to be able to laugh with. I don't necessarily need to do things other than sexual with someone but it would be a bonus if occasionally it could happen. The way my home life is I do most things on my own and get too much indifference in my household. So like many I look elsewhere.
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Nifty the farthest was an hour and yes but after one time of what I thought was a really fun 3 hour afternooner he dropped contact so I’m pretty sure maybe he conquered what he wanted or simply decided I wasn’t for him. Shame too if you ask me but life, ya know. Travelnot thank you for the note 
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4/9/2020 1:46 pm |
Fun, thanks for the reply. What a waste. I know with the results I haven't been seeing here, there's no drive too long for the right person. A three hour afternoon would be like heaven. I'm not saying I want a lot of sex. I AM saying I want sex!! But NOT just with anyone. I like what I've seen in your blogs and in your profile. I think I would enjoy getting to know you.
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4/12/2020 9:05 am |
As I've aged, I've learned to appreciate the joy of the woman's orgasm. I'm a giver and, as you noted earlier, not always the easiest for men my age to remain hard. There are so many ways to enjoy each other that are not about fucking. I love to give massages with body lotion as living in NE Ohio means dry skin, so it FEELS good. Kissing is paramount; full-mouth, on the arms, arm pits, breasts, ears, fingers, toes....whatever works and raises the breathing. I consider myself to be an oral "specialist" because it's not only the tongue and mouth that does the work, but the fingers finding the G spot or rimming the rectum can provide amazing sensations. And, I find my preferred goal is a 4-1 ratio of women's O's to mine. The more for you , the better. Sadly, the CV BS is making us all house bound, and as I'm also married in a sex-less marriage; it makes it equally frustrating. Yet still, I'm sure chatting further might be in the cards. I'm also on K as pilatesguy2, which is an easier mechanism for conversation and picture sharing. Living nearby in Avon is not a bad thing. Hopefully, we'll chat further. Stay safe. L
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yea i dont get guys that think as long as they get what they want its cool.... duhhhhhhh its not about you guys.....its about her...i mean really guys have any of you ever not got off while with a woman????? its easy for a guy but a woman is a whole different ball game, and dont you want her to WANT you back....think it was you fun i saw post once along time ago went something like"""if you thin k you are done and her legs arent shaking, then you are not done"" sooooooooo true
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Yea that was me that said it. It’s truth
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1 post 6/6/2020 3:21 am |
You have some great points
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....nice post... thoughtful and non judgemental..... online or in the real world... it takes time to develop real chemistry..... but when it happens... cherish it.... and feed it.... you will be glad you did....
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1 post 8/2/2020 8:23 am |
i read your blog with great interest. i find intelligence very sexy.. the mind is the most powerful sex organ and for a man not to recognize this is really disturbing. i prefer a woman who thinks of her body as her temple and i should treat her with respect. i would love to chat more and get to know you. Bobncoh
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1 post 2/10/2021 7:21 pm |
[image] It never ceases to amaze me how so many men fail to understand the basic needs of women for safety, trust, respect, kindness, understanding .... and, well, OK, passion too .... but the passion is usually the very LAST thing that enters into a mutually gratifying relationship. Those of us who really do walk the walk find it difficult to be taken seriously in the vast forest of others who merely have a selfish interest. Just putting it out there ....
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