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What is Real and What Isn't
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What is Real and What Isn't I have lived in Providence now for nearly four years. Before that, two years in Quncy, Ma. And before that, most of my life was spent in San Francisco, my native town. I remember being 28 years old in San Francisco when most of my friends were already in long term relationships. From my point of view few, if any, had the slightest appearance of being worth a part of, the relationships that is. I mean, most of my closest friends (women) were in long term relationships and always seemed to have issues about being in . Issues with her boy friend, issues with her husband, issues with , and yet they still wondered if the relationship was even worth their time. Yet these women were hell spent on staying in the relationship as if it were some kind of last struggle they need desperately overcome. A challenge that must be met. Today, one friend lasts in her marriage. She and her hubby aren't too happy. I have been with women all my life. I mean, I have spent my working hours with women, nearly all of my friends are women. I have a sister and brothers, but my sister and I are closest. I was close to my mother, she was a force in the family. You could compare her to a stereotypical, hard New England woman; one can get through anything suffering from sniffles. A woman can plow the snow from her own driveway because needs for that. I have been a professional hair and makeup artist my entire adult life, since graduation from high school. You definitely could say that I have worked with women my entire adult life. I worked with them and for them. I have worked under women and side-by-side with women, just for them. Prior that, I was in retail management for a men's clothing store, Chess King. And even then I worked under a women. Here in Providence, at this stage in my life, now I fully see the hold women have on so many things in our lives. Women control much more than we are willing to at or admit. We are made from women and come from women. They produce us, They produce life. They control lives and does not. Sure they need sperm, but tha's just a small part in the grand scheme of things. They can get sperm wherever they want. Cheers them, I<b> love </font></b>cum myself...boy do I. Women can choose is born. What an amazing power. But do we really appreciate that, fully ? No, we don't. Should we ? Of course, but we should not vilify them or create unnecessary uncertainty. 's just that I think we need understand the power women have in this world over our reproduction AND the sex. I don't even think the majority of women know how powerful they are; no they don't, otherwise they would be in higher offices. Case-in-point, most women believe in reproductive rights, but just by a slight margin. All women should believe in that. ALL of them. It is their pussy, their body, their everything. They should have the ultimate right choose. I mean, could you imagine telling a man by law he had carry his father's baby ? Come on. Hahahhaha. Not would never happen because of anatomy, but a man would simply tell you to off. I think the most power comes from gay men and trans women. We have our foot in both worlds. Always have. We see things from both sides equally. We've had , since we were infants. Trust me, you would learn quick. I know. I hear what women tell me, I hear what men tell me. I am both. I'm masculine, certainly not femme, but I'm also in the middle, between man, between woman. Trans men and women, in my opinion, are the most powerful of us all. That is if they are in touch with themselves, fully and completely. They live in both worlds and see things more clearly than we do. That is respect and I respect that. I respect that more than I respect a woman, especially a religious Christian woman. I have far more respect for Trans folks. These are people live in both world fluidly. They have a lot say, but so do gay men. Sex is sex, that is unless you want babies. wants babies ? Not me. Ever. And that is because I think, a parent should give up their personal life for their or . They should be no matter what forces in life tries prevent you from doing so. After all, is your . Be , forever...or at least until you die. wants that ? I don't. For those agree with this and practice this, hats off you. Give up your life. More power you. I could never conceive of . I wanted at one point, have a . But then I thought long and hard, which most people don't, by the way, but I thought long and hard. NO ! emphatically NO ! No one, will have my life but me. Simple. I am not willing give my life a human being indefinitely unless I choose , as in my partner in life. But when you have a , is no other choice. I choose not get involved. that. But sex is sex. 's a tool to procreate. If you're not procreating then what is for ? What kind of tool is sex for you ? What do you use sex for ? I use sex for fun. I use sex to bond with my partner. I use sex to alleviate stress, I use sex for curing boredom. I use sex to make other men horny. I use sex to make myself feel better. I use sex to help with loneliness. I use sex for what it is, it's a tool, a tool to feel all those things and in my opinion is nothing wrong with that. Sex happens with two people physically and or emotionally both together or even remotely, thank God for online, live camming. I<b> love </font></b>it. Sex is using photos to jack off to. Sex is getting a blow job, sex is jacking off with a buddy. Sex is the act of manipulating your cock in any way for the purpose of an orgasm. Is it not ? needs a woman ? I don't. needs deal with so much emotional crap when you don't need emotional crap, you just need a friend with. Simple. Sure, you may<b> love </font></b>him, you may even like him, you may want and desire an ongoing thing. And you don't want the emotional crap that comes the table when a woman is in the equation. I don't want that. Ever. Sometimes I need cum. Sometimes I want a man near me help me cum. Sometimes I want a man near me for an indefinite amount of time. Sometimes I want a relationship with a man, and that, I ask, needs a woman and why would we ? We don't. We don't need a woman. I get asked so many times have a three way with a man and his woman. I ask further questions feel things out. I would say the majority, if not all, those requests are from men want have sex with a man but need a woman present for that happen. OH what joy for the woman. I mean, can you imagine, someone asking you be while you have sex ? That's what is expected. hell with that. Enjoy yourself. Enjoy sex. Have sex with you want. the cares, I mean really. is sitting at home thinking about you have sex with ? Please tell me the sanity in this. cares ? Sure may come as a shock at first, but so many things are more shocking in life, and again, really gives two fucks ? I don't know. Get on with your life. Do what you want, have sex with you want. |
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