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Why I'm here  

Hormone_Monstres 41F
17 posts
10/31/2018 10:51 pm
Why I'm here

I'm currently in a relationship and it on tje rocks. To be honest it has been on a downward spiral for more than a year.

We match in almost every way but one...sexually. Mot to mention he lies and steals from me..

Why do I stay? I was willing to say I do, so wouldn't that fall under "for better or worse". Although we havent jumped the broom, I fugure if Im not willing to try and make it through this, what hope did our potential marriage have?

I am angry and frustrated with him and I dont know when I will be able to<b> forgive </font></b>him so sex with him is definitely off the table. I am not going to reward his bad decisions.

Im looking for a discrete NSA lover.

JimmyB7474 59M

11/1/2018 4:35 am

 Lies and stealing are the BIG warning signs that can't be ignored Luv. Settle for better NOT worse! Kick him to the curb. WAY too many guys out here that would appreciate a good woman to have to deal with the likes of that. Jimmy B.
My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
11/1/2018 5:39 am

 I agree with Jimmy... get out and then find solace in another guy


snafu6672 54M

11/1/2018 6:17 am

 Life is short do what’s best for you


luvgluv19 75M

11/1/2018 6:25 am

 Sounds like you two need to sit down and simply have it out if you are feeling uncomfortable in the present situation. Believe me life is too short for any grief that can hopefully be made amends


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
11/1/2018 9:49 am

 Professional marriage counseling can help. However, it is a lot of work for everyone and is without guarantee.

Good luck and welcome to the blogs.
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


rocklinfuntime 53M
20 posts
11/1/2018 4:16 pm

 Find someone who will respect you and don't look back!


FresnoWoman 53F
Ask me for a photo
883 posts
11/2/2018 12:30 pm

 If he's lying to you and stealing from you, that's beyond the pale. Instead of putting energy into looking for a discreet lover, you should work on concrete steps to get out. What's next? Is he going to start hitting you? I hope not. Best of luck to you in your situation.


Linc1912 47M
978 posts
11/2/2018 5:29 pm

 Are we sure the poster is real?!
(Always do your due diligence on here.. )

Whatever you do- make sure you are mentally prepared to take on a NSA lover.
Some of them may not want to hear the WOES you have at home. NSA means you come to fuck and LEAVE.
I was iso a Fwb, and this lady told me she wanted only NSA... so like a VERSTILE man, I took her up on her offer and shit canned my desires.

1-2 months later I noticed after sex she would want to talk n shoot the breeze. So I treated her like she treated me initially and said
"This is suppose to be NSA, not unload your baggage.."
She was so offended that she ended the whole thing.
The nerve of me huh...lol
~Linc was here.~


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