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Are there really any true 'Alpha' males?
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Are there really any true 'Alpha' males? So, a lot of the guys that I chat with on here (and meet up with are married). It just works out that way. They're older and not looking for anything serious, I have daddy issues and love playing the homewrecker role. Of course I don't really wreck homes, it's just hot knowing a guy is<b> cheating </font></b>on his girl with me. There's a good feeling about it (I'm so sexy he's willing to take this risk) and a bad (I'm a shitty person), so it fits right into the whole pleasure pain matrix. Like, I can't feel good without a little shame. It is what it is. And since I'm submissive, I'm always looking for guys who are very dominant. I love when someone just takes control and I'm completely at their mercy. Even the thought of it makes my panties wet. So inevitably we'll be chatting, and they're getting me all worked up talking about the nasty ways they're going to violate me, taking whatever they want, using me, they're an alpha male, yada yada. And then at some point it'll come up that they haven't gotten laid in forever, because their wife just isn't interested, and on the rare occasions they do have sex, she definitely isn't sucking their cock or letting them fuck her in the ass. Now, I'm all about never forcing your fetishes on someone else and always having consent, etc. (although consent can be a little murky, I think it's all about knowing your partner and being on the same page). But when a guy tells me something like that, I can't help but think you're not even the alpha male in your own house. Like i said, I totally understand it's more complicated than that and that isn't how relationships work. I'm definitely not implying a man is weak or sub because he doesn't pin his wife down to the bed and take what he want; in fact, it's the opposite - that's what makes him a decent human being. So it's more of an abstract question. Are there really any "true" alpha males, outside of prison (or those who just haven't been caught yet)? On the flip side, I believe I'm a real sub. Sure, sometimes there's a bit of a game to it, but it's at it's best when it's real, and I'm really fighting against you as hard as I can to try and make you stop whatever it is you're doing, and you're really overpowering me so you can have your way. I've also chatted with my share of married guys who claim to be sub, but won't tell their wives. I find this one so weird, because it seems like they want to go through the motions of being sub, while still dictating control. Like, what are they afraid of? Their wife will yell at them? Humiliate them? Choose not to sleep with them (her right, if she's the dom)? Think they're a weak little bitch and choose to sleep with real men (again, her right)? Ignore them and their pervy little fantasies (probably the most likely outcome, and also the most truly dom)? What do you guys think? Is this relationship dynamic 99% pretend? Have any of you been in a vanilla relationship that suddenly became dom/sub without both of you talking about it first? Did it work out? |
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good thoughts to ponder ~~~
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It's amazing how tricky it is, with all these desires out there, how hard it is for us to find someone that fits us. Even more frightening, your wife might secretly desire to choke on your cock and then have you hold her down and fist her ass, and maybe she just isn't willing to admit it to you. Heck, she might not even be able to admit it to herself. And you'll just never know.
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8/2/2019 8:26 am |
Great question! I am wondering the same thing. ARE there any alpha males around? One difference for me, is that I'm looking for a SINGLE alpha guy, who will treat me like his gurl, behind closed doors. Being curious and asking questions is a good thing!
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2/1/2022 10:39 am |
Well, I am single, and unattached. When a guy calls himself an ALPHA male, it sets an expectation - a collection of expectations - and to be clear about that - the term ALPHA MALE can mean a lot of things. For example: I am successful in my career, rewarded well, accomplished. I am looked to in my career, and in my personal life as a leader. A guy who has his shit together. I am a man of the world. I've walked in the rice terraces of Indonesia, and through the streets of Paris. I've lived in the Irish countryside in the ring of Kerry. As a person raised Christian - I stood at the wailing wall on Israel. I've visited Palestine and been to Russia 9 times. I flew down the Hudson river to Manhattan (before 9/11) at sunset in a two seater airplane. I've hiked in the mountains of Colombia. Do all these things make me an ALPHA male? I cut the umbilical cord for my kids when they were born (all grown up now). I have a history as a great provider to those I love. I'm a guy who does what he says, and says what he does. My promise is like time - you can depend on it. I am steadfast, self contained, book smart and street savvy. I am principled. I don't hurt others, and I take no shit. I respect myself - and expect respect from others. Am I an ALPHA male? You decide. If a guy walks around calling himself and ALPHA male - he's not. An Alpha male doesn't need to announce it to anyone - ever. He is self contained, and opens his heart to a small few. Because let's face it folks, people can be pretty shitty. Physically, I am 6'4" tall, solid (not buff), strong, formidable, 250 lbs. Does THAT make me any more ALPHA than anyone else of smaller, less powerful stature? I don't think so. So, while your question is very much thought provoking, there is no set answer for it.
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