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If you are attracted to older men - TELL THEM!  

poolsider63 69M
2 posts
12/13/2018 10:06 am
If you are attracted to older men - TELL THEM!

If you are attracted to older men - TELL THEM! We really don't wish to appear as perv's
if we approach you.

I you are attracted to mature, really intelligent men great! You are not alone.

If you tend to find them intimidating - don't. They still take their pants off like everyone else.

Yes - I a single/mature/older guy - true. I spent most of my adult life in a socially acceptable monogamous relationship, with an age appropriate woman.

But do not underestimate the fact that I too was once in my twenties. Do not underestimate the things I have learned.

I am blatantly going to copy something I found elsewhere regarding younger women that desire older men. (if you wish to know the source - just message me).

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"I like fucking older men. They know how to do it right. They know all the spots, have learned how to read body language, take time to learn my body and know what gets me all woo woo.

Young men don't do that. They are out to get their nut and then they are out the damn door.

I like it when they put their dicks in my butt and know to go slow and that this isnt a damn porn movie.

Older guys like to cuddle and to snuggle cause they always know that the more cuddling and snuggling and touching there is, the more nookie they will get later.

They like to talk in between..that slow, lazy, satisfied talk where you dont even realize they are in your brain and finding out what makes you tick."

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I to be clear - this commentary does not mean that I not attracted to older or "age appropriate" women. Quite the contrary.

Most if not all of the qualities that experience has brought to the older man, have also been acquired by older women. My ex GF is seventy.

I may be bi curious or bi-lite (I don't even know). Being bi-curious is either a real tun-on for women - or a real turn-off. Which is it?

It is obviously a turn on to gay or bi men. While I may get flirts or views or messages from men, I don't reply. My contact with men has only been with couples.

I do take these flirts or views or messages from men as complements. I guess I comfortable enough in my own skin as to not worry or<b> freak </font></b>about such things.

I have had and enjoyed a few MFM experiences with couples but to my chagrin even fewer FMF. I embrace my inclusion by couples - including 2 women.

Do I have a big cock? No I do not - pretty average I guess, depending on whose study you read. I still confident in myself despite my cock's "averageness".

I NOT average in any other aspect of my being.

I seeking to fill in the blanks of my experiences. I far more open minded and sexual than I ever thought I could be.

I open to discussing many things, but don't expect me to agree to everything.

I really intelligent. Any of you that are sapiophiles could find me attractive to you.

I Do Not Drink Alcohol any longer. Used to waaaaaaaaaaaay too much.

I don't care if you drink - doesn't bother me at all anymore. Just drink until I handsome/cute/funny/sexy and we will be just fine. I will drive us home safely.

Yes, I Know - where is my smile? Everybody knows if your going to attract someone you "gotta at least smile".
My Ideal Person At the end of the day, I seeking a lovely, sexy, adventurous, confident woman for a long term relationship. She may have a kink in her. She may not.

A woman with enough sex appeal and sex drive to be on this site.

I may run a course of FWB or regular meetings for a period of time. That is to be seen.

I don't know when I will find her. It may be in the next email I receive, it may not be for quite a long time.

Durining that time that we have not connected yet, I venturing out to round out my sexual knowledge and experience(s).

I learning some new skills in how to be a good Dadduy and DOM It is a life style choice, that I had never been able to entertain before now.Not there yet - but will be,

I don't know yet what that will end up looking like, but whatever it is, I know that we as a couple will eventually be better together because of it.

She gets me. I get her. It really is that simple.


poolsider63 69M
1 post
12/13/2018 8:04 pm

BiggLala,

Three things.

First: I so appreciate your feedback.

Next: That is the problem. Many do not state their preferences. There are (I am told) a good number of young women that would just as soon keep that "secret" to themselves.

Perhaps to prevent some people from assuming that they are 1) Gold Diggers 2) Littles (they should be proud they are a little) 3) hookers 4) Girls that aren't smart enough to have their own opinions and desires.

Lastly: This was hopefully a gentle reminder for a respondent to express their own opinion on the subject. It was not intended to be a poll to allow me to change my profile to be thought of in a more favorable light.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

12/13/2018 9:03 pm

Truthfully it is not just the older younger dynamic, but all women if they are attracted to a guy should let him know, clearly and directly instead of leaving them to guess, and then wonder why he is not interested.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


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