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Does this comment give you the impression that the commenter approves of sexual violence?  

IVFalternative 52M
244 posts
2/17/2019 10:17 pm
Does this comment give you the impression that the commenter approves of sexual violence?

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IVFalternative 52M
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2/17/2019 10:28 pm

The standard you walk past, is the standard you accept. - Lieutenant General David Lindsay Morrison AO

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Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
2/18/2019 5:34 am

I am sure he has been reported many times over the years. The site continues to do nothing.


IVFalternative replies on 2/18/2019 6:20 am:
Therefore it is reasonable to conclude that the operators of this site find violence against women to be acceptable.

That's something all women on this site should give due consideration.

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/18/2019 6:56 am

IVFalternative replies on 2/18/2019 8:20 am:
Therefore it is reasonable to conclude that the operators of this site find violence against women to be acceptable.

That's something all women on this site should give due consideration.

The situation with this guy, assuming HE is who I think HE is, seems to be similar to what happens in real life. Most/many people don't report the problem - we don't really know if he gets reported. I would presume if a significant number of women bloggers reported him (or anyone like him) they would take some notice. However, another thing to consider is that the members who blog are a very small percentage (less than 5 of the membership here. So even if all the women here reported him it may not be more than a small blip on their screen. It should not be that way but I would imagine it is.

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IVFalternative replies on 2/18/2019 7:13 am:
If they have seen this sort of comment even once and failed to act immediately and decisively then as far as I'm concerned it indicates approval.

The site owners can not have failed to notice the lack of women on here. If they had any desire at all to fix that they would be making an effort to stop behaviours that drive away women.

traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
2/18/2019 4:02 pm

There's one member that stands out to me as who this may be. Have I reported him? No. Have I blocked him from contacting me or commenting on any of my posts? Yes!

And here's the reality of how this affects women...we're used to this. We expect this behavior and then are pleasantly surprised when we don't get it. Yeah...you read that right...we EXPECT THE WORST BEHAVIOR FROM MEN BOTH ON THIS SITE AND IN LIFE IN GENERAL. We assume sexist/misogynistic behavior until proven otherwise. It's a shame we have to go through life like this but..well you get used to it. It becomes just part of your day...protecting yourself against unwanted behavior.

A black commentator was remarking on the response from the black Virginia community vs everyone else. This is in regards to the governor of the state being caught out in black face/klan hood back when he was in med school. Blacks in Virginia still support him because of what he's done in the past to support black communities. The commentator was basically saying "We expect white people to be racist or behave in a racist manner and we know most have some questionable behavior in their past. What we look for is how are you trying to redeem yourself now?" It was their way of explaining why black people are never shocked to learn someone said/did/behaved in a racist way. It's the same with women...we aren't ever shocked to hear a man behaved badly.


IVFalternative replies on 2/18/2019 6:28 pm:
Well said. That doesn't excuse the site management for taking no action IMO.

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