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They Say Women Are Complicated - BS
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Where's HeathenG when you need him ?
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For me it works like this: if I have more than one woman they all treat me like a king. If I commit to one, as soon as she feels secure in the relationship she forgets that she liked me as I was and starts working like crazy to change me. When I don't change she'll take her shit out on me for a while then move on to another guy. I wanted a monogamous relationship, women have trained me out of it. They reward me as a player so that's how I behave. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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It is all too common of a cycle. I'm guessing that once the thrill of a new love fades so does the effort . I work hard once I meet a new love and I too sometimes find things fade out. I find a lot of women here like new and exciting relationships. My goal is to find a friend and lover that can handle the space between us and burn hot when we are together. You seem like a great woman to have that kind of relationship with.. Sometime you have tell you buddies I'm going to miss our poker night to show your lady she is important to you too. I know I have been rewarded in kind for showing this to many of my girlfriends over the years. But, in the end some guys are just stupid
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So you are trying to sell, to men, the concept of having "ONE" woman by using the incentives; He's aging.... His friends are going to die.... His penis is going to stop working .... ...and that is suppose to make us want to hold onto a woman? ..ha.. really?! Women put her friend above relationships with men. In fact, often a woman's close friends know more about her than the man she is in a relationship with. And this is true about men, too. His close buddies are more important than a relationship with a woman....especially when she's telling him, "You need to be with me because your buddies are going to die, you're getting old and your penis is not what it use to be." Go ahead and use your vibrators or whatever other toys you have. Going to the gym , going fishing, playing some poker while drinking some whiskey and smoking a cigar while talking to each other, among men, is much preferable to being with a woman who basically points out he's almost dead. Lets take a look at why you think a man contacts you: You think he wants to meet you for a relationship, because he sends texts , phones you, and takes you to dinner. .... No! He does that because he has erroneously learned, women want that attention before he tells her he wants to grab her by the ankles and split her legs apart. Telling the woman what she needs to hear. Seduce her mind and get the goodies. What women [you] consider , "Class" , is a lie, a show, to get you into bed. He pretends the facade of a man with manners to find your price for sex. In a way, your selling price for access to the fun stuff. Which maybe you reject. But first, you might milk him out of so much money [through dinner, drinks, gifts, movies] , and then maybe decide , "No sex". When really all he should have to do , is tell you, "I'm contacting your for sex". You buck up and go meet him ... If you're into him, you'll oblige. If not? Then you won't oblige. He doesn't need to put in "Effort" to get you naked. .... Because you want to get naked, or you just simply do not want to get naked ...with him! The beautiful truth, which women think is ugly, ...is : Women are for sex and entertainment. ... Many men are afraid to agree to that because he's afraid of angering his limited sources of sex. So he plays the game, and eventually , as you did, the woman gets upset with him for showing less and less attention to her! You want to play, or you don't. ... Don't waste his time..... Don't waste his money.... Don't remind him his friends are dying. Don't remind him he's getting older. Don't remind him his boner is weak. .... That's is one lame ass incentive to choose a woman for a relationship. Oh yeah... and he isn't contacting you for a relationship....he wants to date you [have sex]..... Not plan "Togetherness", months and years down the road....
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7/27/2019 3:04 am |
LoL. This is a Tough subject to just Choose one side. Both can be extremely Complicated.
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Ah I wondered what sparked Heathens blog... now I know!! I have had a few men ghost me, then 6 months later, they want to see me again.... errrrr how do the words "fuck off" sound!! ... I may be cutting off my nose to spite my face, especially if I liked them, but if they ghosted me once.. it's shame on them,... if they ghost me twice it's shame on me. Everyone, men and women, think the grass is always greener on the other side.. then they find out it's not... and the woman who was a bit average looking, but good in bed, and good company, was in fact, far better than the blonde bombshell who opened her legs at the first "Hello"
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1 post 8/8/2019 8:45 pm |
Wish you were in New York state
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