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How to Engage  

Devlynne 47F
93 posts
6/27/2019 4:04 am
How to Engage

I am a person who is very comfortable open and communication is easy for me. I spend a lot of time here on AdultFriendFinder in chatrooms and on im. Whenever I chat with a person I send them a friend request immediately so I do not lose touch with the connection. I usually start with a hello or a compliment on somebody’s pictures. Very often here on AdultFriendFinder I am approached by people in a way is off putting. Even if you are horny it is important to keep in mind not everyone else is. General rule of thumb is to approach people here as you would any stranger in a bar or a party who you would like to get to know better. The best time to do this is when you are not<b> drunk </font></b>or horny as people who are horny can become pushy or easily agitated. What works best in establishing a connection with me is acting interested in me as a person. Phrases like “how was your day?” are engaging. Be prepared to provide information about yourself informs and engages briefly and succinctly. Most women will want to know education, professional and marital status, your interests here, if you have transportation and if you can host. Providing this information at the outset makes the choice easy and saves time. When you are chatting keep your subjects engaged by asking questions. This will move the conversation forward easily. For example if I ask you how your day was and you answer “great” the conversation is likely to end there because any woman on AdultFriendFinder can have multiple chats going at any given time. To keep the conversation going ask questions “my day was great how was yours?” In general I prefer to chat with people for at most twenty minutes before planning to meet in person ideally only once. Others may wish to put more or less time into it depending on their schedule, availability and priorities. However if your desire is to meet planning and being a little strategic in who you approach, the information you provide and the questions you ask can move things along quite quickly given the right person. It pays to be prepared so you can make the best use of your time here and maximize opportunities for success in engaging with others as new opportunities arise.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
6/27/2019 7:28 am

 good advice


Ianpoman 79M  
83 posts
6/27/2019 11:09 am

 Intelligent approach. You've provided a lot of info here. Here are some answers: I like to meet new people even just to correspond. Unable to host or travel more 20 miles or so. Hope you liked my pics, intro and blogs. Like you I do a lot of corresponding here and enjoy chatting on IM for a bit. I definitely liked your pics. BTW I love Vermont and lived there for years!


Devlynne 47F

6/27/2019 12:27 pm

 Friends thanks! ❤️💕✨💋💋💋


OldTatted 64M
Ask me for a photo

6/28/2019 5:23 am

 That's basically how I approach things but it doesn't always have good results. But I'll keep doing it that way up until I leave.


Devlynne replies on 6/28/2019 9:36 am:
Yeah sometimes it can take a lot of work to make the right kind of connection but it’s usually been time well spent for me. Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to comment! ❤️✨

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