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Whats it Worth?
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Whats it Worth? For a good part of recent human history and still in many places sex was forbidden outside of wedlock. Still today most people it seems pursue sexual expression within the confines of a committed relationship of some sort in which substantial investment of a material, physical, emotional and legal value must be ma de. Casual sex is a low , low commitment to the former. Given that sex is not available outside of commitment in many places it is a luxury. Think of the time, and emotional duress that one is spared by forgoing a lengthy courtship and instead meeting for dinner a show or drinks before proceeding to help each other get their needs met. AdultFriendFinder can seem like a view but most people I know here like myself have jobs outside of AdultFriendFinder with friends family and responsibilities. We all join AdultFriendFinder to find something that can enhance our quality of life. What is commitment free sex worth to you? How can you make someone else’s life better if they are to provide you with what you seek here? Relationships in general should be mutual, reciprocal and win win. What takes place here should not be simply construed as an opportunity to get your rocks off. Meeting someone new should be a positive experience. We all have limited time that is precious. What incentives can you provide to make spending time with more desirable instead of a multitude of other choices? What system of rewards can you dream up that expresses your gratitude for someone making themselves physically available to your desires? There are many ways to be generous in your dealings here to make experiences more pleasurable for everyone. Offer to take an interested party out for drinks or dinner. Take them for a ride in the country. Get a nice bottle of wine or champagne or spring for tickets to something fun or special. Pick up the tab on a nice room somewhere. It’s not of necessity but I would consider it best practice to offer special treatment to a person who is willing to take time out of their busy life to provide you with an opportunity for intimacy outside of relationships. You might enjoy yourself more in the process so if you are able why not? |
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For a good part of recent human history and still in many places sex was forbidden outside of wedlock. ... And now, in many places , "Sex" is not forbidden, and doesn't cost anything... unless someone has made a business of "Sex". Still today most people it seems pursue sexual expression within the confines of a committed relationship of some sort .... But you don't have to be committed to each other to get sex. You just invite someone to "Date". Essentially you're saying, "I want to have sex with you". If they accept the "Date", they are essentially saying , "I will have sex with you". ... No costs... nothing. Just two people interested in having sex with each other. in which substantial investment of a material, physical, emotional and legal value must be made. .... Sure, if you're stupid enough to think the only way to get sex is through commitment! ...Also when speaking of "Commitment" to someone? There is no , "Investment"... this is merely and expenditure. Given that sex is not available outside of commitment in many places it is a luxury. .... However, "Sex" IS available outside of commitment, and for some, in great massive quantities. Think of the time, and emotional duress that one is spared by forgoing a lengthy courtship ..... ha...nobody needs a lengthy courtship anymore to get your desires, needs and wants, met. For women these lengthy courtships may feel safer than giving her pussy to a new guy every other weekend. But to a man? Freedom from commitment of courtship is pure utopia. Realistically the only actual reason a man may seek a legal commitment [to risk all his property and savings] is if he wants to have children. IF NOT? Then he shouldn't waste his time with this commitment nonsense. and instead meeting for dinner a show or drinks before proceeding to help each other get their needs met. .... Instead just meet and get naked. No reason to waste time with a dinner, a show, and drinks. Do you want to have sex with that person ? Or not? ...... There is no reason to spend money on the social formalities of dinner, show , drinks. Big waste of time. But if you do? She can pay for her own dinner, her own show tickets , her own drinks. She wants to have sex with you.... you want to have sex with her. Get to it!! We all join AdultFriendFinder to find something that can enhance our quality of life. .... In a manner of speaking , sure. What is commitment free sex worth to you? ... Unless you're a prostitutue selling sex, commitment free sex is free. How can you make someone else’s life better if they are to provide you with what you seek here? .... Which one are you speaking? If X and Y needs , and X and Y finds the answer to their needs, then X and Y are providing to make each others life better. Relationships in general should be mutual, reciprocal and win win. .... Depends on what kind of relationship. Marriage relationships are NOT a win-win. What takes place here should not be simply construed as an opportunity to get your rocks off. ....However, you may absolutely construe what takes place here, as an opportunity to get your rocks off. Meeting someone new should be a positive experience. ... No argument there. Now we just need to hash out what you think, and I think, are positive experiences. We all have limited time that is precious. ... Yes, so don't waste his time and money. ... If you waste his time, then YOU pay for what you do during that time wasted. What incentives can you provide to make spending time with more desirable instead of a multitude of other choices? .... In short, man or woman, should go do their multitude of other choices. Do women offer an incentive? Not really. For women, men can offer some incentives... but most women today have that covered. What system of rewards can you dream up that expresses your gratitude for someone making themselves physically available to your desires? .... You probably are a prostitute. Why does a woman need to be rewarded for having sex? ...She is a prostitute. Generally you don't need to reward anyone for being physically available. You want to do this , or you don't, and if you don't, then you should walk away. There are many ways to be generous in your dealings here to make experiences more pleasurable for everyone. ... If a woman is looking for a man to be "Generous".. she's a prostitute. Offer to take an interested party out for drinks or dinner. Take them for a ride in the country. Get a nice bottle of wine or champagne or spring for tickets to something fun or special. Pick up the tab on a nice room somewhere. ... So a woman is going to offer a man drinks , dinner , ride in the country, tickets for entertainment, pay for a room? .... LOL .. that's funny. If a man does that... the woman is his wife, or a prostitute ....but technically speaking a wife is a form of being a prostitute. So there you go. She'll cash in at the divoce. It’s not of necessity but I would consider it best practice to offer special treatment to a person who is willing to take time out of their busy life to provide you with an opportunity for intimacy outside of relationships. ... Sex for sale. What a business! You might enjoy yourself more in the process so if you are able why not? ... Because it's his money. If you like him alot, and you don't want to be a prosttitute, then you hold hands and pay your equal share.
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