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jda02191 54M
9 posts
8/4/2019 5:54 pm

That kicker makes it sound like you are winning AdultFriendFinder. Congrats!

When you say the weeding out process is getting easier...why is that? Is it that you’ve had more reps and more opportunity to figure out what you really care about and how to identify those things (pro and con)?


New2Midlo 54M
1075 posts
8/4/2019 6:33 pm

Man meets woman.
Man likes woman.
Man:
- sees something shinier - pursues the shininess
or
- is hiding abysmal self-esteem and doesn't think he can 'compete' with the other guys woman is dating - runs away

Event:
Shiny object isn't as shiny as man thought.
or
Man regroups and pulls his self-esteem back together (or tells himself he has)

Man returns to woman, hoping for another chance.

Pretty simple chain of events. Lived both permutations once or twice; took care of the second though.


alsac100 55M
15 posts
8/4/2019 6:48 pm

Sometimes you meet an incorrect person in a wrong place.

But we have to be possitive.. In any place someone is looking for your taste...

I met a wonderful woman, but she was married.

The next time I met with her was divorsing.. wrong time...

I hope sometime we will try another sequence of events.. in the future!


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
8/4/2019 6:52 pm

I'd have issues with even a person who showed up on a date with a plain t-shirt, let alone a Bush/Cheney one. Really? A plain t-shirt? On a date? And a political one at that? It's not like I get super dressed up on a date/meet, but I'll be damned sure not to wear a political t-shirt, or even a sloppy T at that. lol A collared shirt at the bare minimum.

Thoughts from the Garden...


galil3o 63M

8/4/2019 8:17 pm

I never heard that song sorry


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
8/5/2019 3:58 am

I wouldn't go as far as to try and rationalize the guy's behavior , since the commenters before me did it more surgically - and if I had to shoot from the hip here, I'd say he was already playing with more than one

What I'd like to mention though, is the "weeding out" process, as a means of its own, despite the premises, or actually because of the carnavalistic attributes of the site :
It sets the standards for the effort you place / or expect from a consenting adult
- and as you might guess, not exceedingly high

So, that having been said, red flags aren't to be trifled with
- people don't change my lady

Cheers, and keep being yourself

P


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
8/5/2019 10:11 am

"...what’s up, Doc Holliday!..."
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Of course I've seen the movie my lady - prefer it slightly actually to the Kevin Costner one, due to the piece playing on stage when he meets Josie Marcus...
(I may live faraway, and in another culture, but I'm not an unwashed heathen ! )

As for the exclamation, I see your hand and raise you to the level of the Yosemity Sam character - I hope you remember the way he was hushed on the self appreciating tirade by Bugs Bunny

Cheers - P


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
8/5/2019 10:23 am

Wow! I can't believe I haven't seen your videos. Oh wait, I can't as a std member. Darn.
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Respect is a dying concept and courtesy a dying art. I don't think there is value in evaluating his behavior beyond recognizing its lack of courtesy and perhaps self-indulgency. And I suppose all things get easier with practice.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
8/5/2019 2:19 pm

I think the scientific conclusion would be something like "shwing!"

Children are amazing. They get the best and the worse of us in equal doses. I always hope it is more good than bad. My daughter (who's now in her early 20s) and I were talking a few weeks ago. She thank me for being a good dad. Out of the blue. It caught me off-guard and choked me up. I'm thinking now I did alright.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
8/6/2019 10:48 am

It was. I bet you are a great mom (which is super sexy!).

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
8/7/2019 9:29 am

Just goes to show his good judge of character.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


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