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Zero Luck.. Weekend 5  

ZeroSexLife 42M
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10/6/2019 8:23 pm

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10/16/2019 9:42 am

Zero Luck.. Weekend 5


Before we begin this post I've been told a couple dozen times by various people, "This is not how you get laid... (Insert reason here)" multiple times now. Honestly I don't care, keep your comments to your self. My reasoning? If a woman doesn't like what I have to say or how I say it, then she doesn't need to waste either of our time. I post rants here for a reason, to get my frustrations of my chest and after blocking nearly 250+ Fake profiles I severely doubt there's any real women on here within driving distance. All of which have had either pictures I've seen multiple times, a title I've seen multiple times, a personal description I've seen multiple times, OR a combination of these items. This is why I've decided not to renew my . Too many fakes, no action.

Now for the real deal... my 5th weekend after creating this profile. At least I think it's the 5th weekend.

As mentioned previously I had to work Sat. which severely limited my chances of getting and hooking up with any woman/women.

Though I did make it to my regular bar downtown.

Compared to my first visit it was dead inside. A few couples and groups all of which were mixed /female. There were no options for even a brief conversation let alone anything beyond that.

Now I should mention this is a Speakeasy cocktail bar. I've made a goal here to try every single drink with the purpose of chatting up a lady about what drinks she might like. So far I've had the first 6 on the list, just going down the list one by one every night they are open.

I looked around a while after ordering my drink and decided there wasn't any chances here considering.

So I left that bar and headed down to the Karaoke Bar a few blocks down.

Once inside I see a very similar scene, lots of mixed groups and a few guys in military clothing... which as a Vet made no sense to . Had it beat into my head that you don't go drinking in uniform. I bite my tongue and let it slide... after all a veteran now and never had any authority to begin with. Thank you all ASSHOLES that voted in that dumb ass Obama. Might still be in if not for his Force Reduction. Though let's not focus on that, it's a whole other frustration in the past 20 years that goes into problems that I'd rather not get into.

At one point a lady got up and sang "Torn" by Natalie Imbruglia. This lady wasn't anything special to write home about, but she was cutie in her own way. I took note of her... until I noticed a ring on her finger. Dang it.

Well as the night progressed an awkward thing happened. This same lady very awkwardly sat directly in front of me. Please note that her and her friends were sitting at a table far off to my side. Hmmm... well it was awkward for me because first I had already noticed the ring and second it was clear to me that she wanted some attention. Again RING ON FINGER!! That's a no go for me. Sorry not touching a married woman... though I had no reason to believe she was in fact married other than the ring.

To add on to this if she was in fact trying to approach then why not turn and say ANYTHING?? I didn't care mostly because of the ring, but it did make laugh pretty hard. After a minute she pulled her phone and was scrolling through stuff. I may notice details like her ring, earrings, and hair berates... though invading your privacy by looking at your phone is not something I will do.

After putting her phone away she leaned back a bit closer to me... again THE RING. Made me laugh and wonder what she wants... if she's there "for me" then why not say something. The ring at this point was a constant warning sign of so much as saying hello.

Instead I sat there enjoying the really bad singing of the drunk military guys. It was Hilariously bad. No, I haven't tried it myself... not yet at least. I do have a song in mind though.

After a few minutes I got up to go to the bathroom. When I came back there was now no room to sit where I was... figures.

I found a new seat against the wall up in front of where her and her friends were.

Now then I don't like certain styles of music... I can't sand it at all. When ever these types of songs come on you can clearly see no longer having fun. I've tried to start turning my attention towards their screens and see what games are on. I don't remember what was on but I do remember seeing one of her friends pull her back to the bar and give her tips on how to sit at the bar as if to appear attractive. Which again made me laugh.

My attention flipped back and forth from whatever game was on and whatever song was attempted to be sung by whomever.

At this point I did notice she had changed how she was seated with her friends. Until this point she had been seated facing the stage like everyone else at the bar. Now... oh ... now she was seated facing the wall... which is in general the direction I was from her.

Through all of this her friends are getting up on stage and singing various types of love songs.

With only about two hours left before the bar closes that morning I went outside to my vapor and to see if she'd attempt again somewhere that's easier to talk.

She didn't and after an hour I left. The bar only had about 45 minutes left to be open anyway.

Sunday night... or tonight as it's still Sunday while I type this.

No bars are ever full on Sunday's around here. Especially considering there was some kind of concert going on that I was unaware of until much later when I happened to walk close enough to hear it.

I had gone earlier tonight to my regular bar, still pursuing my goal of trying every cocktail they had to offer.

usual it was dead. Maybe of us inside, four of which are bartenders. I ordered my next drink on the list, a Chai and Bourbon mix, this by far had the strongest taste of all the drinks. In fact I can still taste it on my tongue. Not much going on in there, an older couple sitting the bar was celebrating their anniversary... guessing twentieth, couldn't quite hear what they said but I did hear someone mention "twentieth" after they left. One of the bartenders who was off tonight came in with her boyfriend in tow and another couple. Nobody to talk to outside of the one bartender whom I've spoken to on several occasions.

She's a whiskey , found that tonight. However, she does claim to have a boyfriend and we all know about hitting on your bartender. I try to keep it casual with her but I think she's sensed something off me... no idea what. I know my aura is intense at times but in what way is not very clear... at least to me.

I know this because there was a night this past week when I went there and she stayed clear of me for some reason. No idea why.

Finishing my drink and seeing there was nobody there and potentially nobody was going to be there I left... headed back down to the Karaoke bar again.

Very small crowd this time... with very few women. All of which were there with a guy.

I enjoyed listening to most of the songs that were sung... or more correctly attempted to sung. I did go up and finally to see if they had the song I was thinking about trying to sing. Please note I already know just as bad as everyone that I think is bad, hence why I haven't committed to it yet. Though now that I know they have my song I wish to sing I may just do it in the future... and onward.

That song for anyone wondering is "Take Home Tonight" by Eddie . Dual purpose first off it clearly states what I want and second it's an 80s song, the era of love songs.

Zero Luck.

To get back on my frustration, when I went to vape Saturday there was a of guys and a couple of girls talking about how many sexual acts they've had ON A WHIM!! One guy was talking about how he meet a girl and was hitting her up when a guy WITH HIS SISTER offered him his sister in order to get with the girl he was chatting with. Afterwards he then had sex with the previous girl!!!

These stories went on and on... much like what my coworkers constantly talk to me about.

How is that even possible?? I mean this isn't hours, days, weeks, months, or years of hitting on a girl... we are talking minutes later she's naked and he's balls deep in her.

I have never understood how someone has that kind of pull. I've tried EVERYTHING!! Except for just reaching down a woman's pants and grabbing her pussy.

I mean I can count on one hand how many times I've gotten close enough to someone to kiss them. I can't even begin to imagine pulling her straps off her shoulders to cup one or both breasts.

I mean this is insane. At this point in life this kind of act should have happened already. Yet here I am constantly going alone to bars and<b> sleeping </font></b>alone.

As I've mentioned this tension inside from a lack of sexual activity has started causing my body heat to be at a new level. I mean at 60 degrees earlier today I was sweating like a .

This bullshit of not getting laid ever has to stop eventually. Right?

Stepping back from that though. If you read everything curious about any input on the lady from the Karaoke Bar. What you think she might have been doing, what I should have done instead, or if I was right in not doing anything to concerning a potentially married woman?

415choc 50F

10/15/2019 8:31 pm

I think you were right in your thought that she wanted some attention, it's likely she wanted yours since she positioned her directly in front of you and you being the only spectator at the time. Then she did it again when she positioned herself facing the wall. I'm sure she noticed you looking at her, for many of us women just having a guy interested (even if it's from a distance) makes us feel sexy. Whether we go to bed with him or not just his interest is satisfying. It appeared she waiting on you. You wondered "why not turn and say anything?" Well from a woman's point of view, I never expected her to say anything. Naturally men like to chase women and women like being pursued by men (Of course it doesn't work like this all the time, I'm just speaking in general). Many of us don't usually initiate anything from conversation to sex ( again I'm speaking in general, knowing there are some women that have no qualms about being the initiator). Anyway, in my opinion she wanted you to want her and to be absolutely sure you were interested she probably expected you to say something. She certainly noticed when you left the bar and likely interpreted your stepping outside as your disinterest. With all that said, I I must say, you have my respect by not compromising your values. You noticed her ring and refused to cross that boundary. Very impressive.


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