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Fun play ideas  

girluvzworld 52M/56F
13 posts
9/28/2019 12:03 pm
Fun play ideas


Have him dress up in your lacy lingerie and pleasure him through the material. Tell him he is not allowed to make a mess in your expensive panties, or else!

Naughty Shopping Trip:
For humiliation fans, I recommend promising them an orgasm (or some other reward) on completion of a naughty, but humiliating shopping trip. Your partner is required to go into a store and make some purchases. Your list could include some of the following:
A jar of chocolate spread. A Cucumber. A box of condoms. Squirty cream. A banana. Lubricant. Ice Cubes. 1 large carrot. Strawberries. A porn Magazine. Syrup. Ice Cream.
Your partner must for all items together (ask for the receipt). As an added bonus, you could ask them to ask the checkout person a question, or make conversation in some w

• Teasing Tips...
Tell your partner that they will be permitted to orgasm later that night, but only if they edge once every hour until then. (If separated, ask them to send you pictorial proof)
• Sweet Frustration...
Explain to your partner that they are permitted to have one orgasm within the next days (vary this time to suit). They now have a choice to make; they could take the orgasm now and be forced to suffer 29 days without, or they could wait, essentially denying themselves until later, to avoid suffering that long delay.

• Time is of the Essence
Explain to your partner that for every day they go without orgasm, you will add 1 second to their timer. (You can vary these times to suit) After days, they will have earned seconds on the clock. This time is converted into the of seconds they are allowed to masturbate. Allow your partner to in their time whenever they please, but if they do not reach orgasm in the time allowed, then they miss out and the clock will be reset.

• Teasing Tip...
Roll the dice to determine how many orgasms you must give your partner, before being allowed to orgasm yourself.
• Sweet Frustration...
him a hollow strap-on and get him to fuck you with it. The psychological thrill of thrusting inside you, while not being able to feel a thing, is a frustratingly exciting tease.

• Orgasm Denial For Humiliation Fans...
Drop your partner off in town, or at work and let them know they are not allowed back in the house until they have proof that they masturbated or had an orgasm while out. You could ask for a picture, or check their underwear for ‘proof’.

• Orgasm Denial For Humiliation Fans...
yourself some realistic looking sex toys and use them in front of your partner (or have your partner use them on you) while they are kept in chastity or denial. If they are into humiliation play, make them feel useless describing how much pleasure this toy gives you. Discuss how much bigger/tighter/harder it feels, compared to them.

• Orgasm Denial For Humiliation Fans...
yourself some realistic looking sex toys and use them in front of your partner (or have your partner use them on you) while they are kept in chastity or denial. If they are into humiliation play, make them feel useless describing how much pleasure this toy gives you. Discuss how much bigger/tighter/harder it feels, compared to them.

• Teasing Tips...
Have your partner write you a letter to earn their next orgasm. Topic ideas include:
1) Explain why you think you deserve an orgasm tonight/this week.
2) Write down your naughtiest fantasy
3) Explain why you enjoy orgasm denial, or why you are grateful I control your orgasms.
4) Tell me in detail about your most memorable orgasm.
As an added bonus, these topics will have your partner thinking deeply about sex, orgasms, control and you, which will fire up their arousal all the more.

• Orgasm Denial For Humiliation Fans...
Give your partner permission to orgasm, but only allow them to do this while masturbating to porn that they would find humiliating or a major turn off. (An example would be to ask a straight to watch -on- porn) If he reaches orgasm, tease him, if not, make him wait until next time.

Sweet Frustration...
If your partner wears a chastity device, place the key into a large bottle of water and freeze it the day before they are due for release. When the time comes, hand the frozen bottle over and tell them that they can let themselves out, just as soon as the ice melts and the key has been freed (You can melt the ice in hot water should you need the key urgently)

• Sweet Frustration...
Place your partner’s permission to orgasm onto something they cannot control. For example:
“You can orgasm when it next snows”
“I will let you orgasm if X wins the (insert sport here)”
“You can orgasm when the phone rings next”

• Sweet Frustration...
Allow your partner to reach orgasm, but demand that they stimulate themselves with their weaker hand.

• Sweet Frustration...
Give your partner permission to masturbate to orgasm, but before they attempt to do so, use a numbing cream, condoms or ice water to numb their sensitivity. (You can make it more fun applying the ice every minute) Sit back and watch them struggle to reach orgasm.

• Sweet Frustration...
Explain to your partner that if they do orgasm without permission, you will not stop stimulating them. This is known as ‘post orgasm torture’ and for a very good reason. Once we reach orgasm, the clitoris and glans of the penis becomes highly sensitive and it feels quite uncomfortable to continue stimulation at this point. Threaten them with this and watch them try that much harder to behave.

• Working For Orgasms
Make your partner work for their pleasure allowing them to earn points, which can later be cashed in for rewards. You can assign points to almost anything you wish, from household chores to worshipping you (providing a massage or giving you an orgasm).
You can allow your partner to cash in their points for pleasure (like oral sex or an orgasm) letting them know how many points each pleasurable act will them. Alternatively you can convert points into time (For example: 1 point equals one second of stimulation). The latter is a great way to ensure that your partner is denying themselves. They will want to refrain from cashing in their points too quickly and potentially being left wanting when the timer runs out.

• The Lucky Dip (Are You Feeling Lucky?)
Cut a sheet of paper into 8 pieces and use these to write down 8 different tease and denial activities. Example:
"Tonight I will edge you with my hand for minutes. You are not allowed to orgasm."
It is up to you to decide the ratio of good, bad and frustrating activities and it is okay to write out duplicate ideas. Once you have them written out, fold the pieces of paper and place them in a bowl. Each night, allow your partner to choose one piece of paper and that shall be their fate for the evening.
Tossing The... Coin.
Tossing a coin is a game of chance. The odds are 50/50 and you can use a simple coin toss to decide any outcome you wish, up to and including the opportunity to have an orgasm that nigh

• Teasing Tip...
Give your partner oral sex, but deny them permission to orgasm. They must tell you to stop when they are close. They are allowed to ask you to stop 5 times, after which, they will receive no more stimulation that night.
Teasing Tips...
Prostate milking can be used to pleasure, subjugate and/or even humiliate males during longer periods of orgasm denial. Being forced to ‘ejaculate’ without feeling the pleasure of orgasm can produce powerful psychological feelings of submission and/or denial.
Remember, prostate stimulation and prostate milking will feel unique to each man. Some may find that their sexual arousal has lowered, while others experience it as a huge tease that just heightens their arousal. Some males can even have prostate orgasms. It really will depend on his frame of mind (What he thinks and feels about prostate play

• Teasing Tips...
To discourage a male from masturbating and give him a painful reminder of your ownership and control over his pleasure, I recommend investing in a CBT device called Mikes Spikes, or Kali's Teeth. Such devices cause pain when<b> erect </font></b>and make it difficult for him to masturbate or receive pleasure. I only recommend these to males who enjoy a little CBT (Cock and ball torture).

• Sweet Frustration...
Build up the intensity of your tease and denial session making your partner wear a butt plug, or vibrating love egg, in public.

• Sweet Frustration...
While watching a movie together, tell your partner you will stimulate them for 10 seconds, every time a certain thing happens on screen. (Examples: Every time you see someone wearing red or every time someone says the word “fuck”). You can make the action as probable or as unlikely as you wish.

• Orgasm Denial For Humiliation Fans...
Tell your partner that if they orgasm without permission, they must clean up all the mess with their tongue/mouth.

• Orgasm Denial For Humiliation Fans...
Give your partner permission to orgasm, but tell them they are not allowed to use their hands, or any sex toys to get there. Watch and giggle as they attempt to hump inanimate objects.

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