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Why group sex doesn't usually work out.
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Why group sex doesn't usually work out. About four days ago I had a friend of mine message me and he wanted try and put together a group night at his new apartment. Now this is going sound strange some but with my recent, deep thinking way, decision put more thought into who I am as a sexual being I jumped at the chance. I was at his place four a little over twenty four hours and several event's and realizations flooded my mind through that time. I quite literally had a revelation of sorts about myself and sexual identity in general. I think I have to start with who I now understand myself to be sexually after this last year of exploration and discovery. Let's start with the box of bi sexual or<b> straight. </font></b>I don't see myself as either. Bi sexual means I like to have sex with men or women. In my case the gender doesn't really into choosing a sexual partner. I love smooth soft body's with gentle curves. I don't dig body hair regardless of gender. The only other physical quality I take notice of is the ass. Yeah there are ass men out there but for some reason it's almost fetish level for me and if you go back to my like of smooth and soft you know gender doesn't figure into it. Here is the kicker on the ass issue. Regardless of the gender of the person I am with I want and almost crave my ass to be, for the lack of better terms, worshiped and for that reason I don't feel I am a bottom and because gender doesn't matter to me top doesn't fit either. You might now say then you are a versatile. Maybe but maybe not. I would rather say that in a sexual encounter I would like to have both happen if I am honest and I really could care less about the term anyway. The other interesting thing about me is I like being smooth myself. I wonder often if it's because that is what I like in my partners but that's not that important. I'm not feminine and I don't really care to cross dress. For some time I thought because I wanted to be smooth I had to cross dress but through months of meditation and lot's of reflection on why I tried it so often wasn't because I wanted to be a girl or seen as a girl. A good part of it is I just like how I look smooth in general and how I feel. The other part was my need to have my ass noticed and worshiped so better packaging was key but honestly after really thinking on it that doesn't really matter. So recap. I don't find a particular gender more appealing than another as long as they are smooth with feminine curves. I am a country boy with a beard but shave my body smooth because I like how I look and feel without body hair. It brought me to the revelation that I am what some call a unicorn of sorts. If I go down the road of group sex if all parties are silky smooth with feminine appeal I can flow in all directions and positions. Now back to the recent time at my friends new apartment. it didn't work for me. The biggest reason was me and him had different tastes in partners. I don't like manly men with body hair and that narrows who I would feel myself with sexually. More importantly, if you are into the regular mans man type of guy you have tons of options. After that twenty four hour period it really hit home on why more times than not ways and or group settings don't usually work out for all parties. I've had several failures through the that I had tried set up with either female partners I have been in a swinging lifestyle with or with a guy I was intimate with. The one's that did work involved a smooth feminine guy with a wife or girlfriend that also simply liked sex regardless of gender. My moment of sexual zen is licking some good pussy orgasm while my ass is worked over and that just happens be the one thing that seems nearly impossible set up ahead of time. The thing is for a group setting be a great time for all parties involved involves many variables. More time's than not if you go over people someone will be left out and unsatisfied. If a way doesn't go well then you didn't fully communicate with your partner in your search find a third that works for you both. |
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