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Sexless Marriages Sexless Marriages How do you or I or anyone survive a sexless marriage? is cheating and going on AdultFriendFinder the solution? When counseling and<b> multiple </font></b>talks do nothing change the libido or attitudes of the low libido partner. What is one do? You do not want leave your partner, but they are never satisfying needs you have. What is the logical next step divorce? just cause they are not as horny as you? is it a good reason or not? I am struggling with this and a lot more... everyday... what are your thoughts, feelings and experiences??? |
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Evidently you are not the only person who is dealing with this problem since I saw that there are over 12 thousand views to the topic and I am one more. I guess misery does love company because here I am. I'm in the process of getting out of my sexless marriage and getting my second divorce. That is not the reason why I decided to go this route but it damn sure played a part in my decision process. I don't know what advice I can give you to make your situation better but I can tell you what I tried and failed with. I tried talking with her and asking if I could do or say anything to get her aroused, which was met with quot; I'm not comfortable talking about this with you " hell, I married you and I am the guy who has licked your asshole, if you don't feel comfortable talking about it with me, who would you be comfortable with? I took her to the adult toy store and I spent $80 on a vibrator for her and $15 for a masturbation sleeve for myself and the vibrator has been used 3 times but the sleeve is worn out! I tried being spontaneous, I tried planning, I went down on her, I asked her to go down on me, I asked her about her sexual history and to my surprise she told me the truth and said yes when I asked if she had ever had a threesome. I thought I was on to something so I continued and she was younger but legal and it was with two guys, I said cool! She had one cock in her mouth and one in her pussy and I said cool! She said that they both ended up cumming in her pussy and I said cool! I didn't ask so I could hold it against her, I asked in hopes that she would share the details of her experience with me, ( not names or anything like that because I don't need to know who it was nor do I care who it was. What I did want to know is: did she enjoy it, how did it all come to happen, did she do it again, would she like to try it again with me, all good questions I thought but she didn't want to share anymore about it with me, ( not even to tell me anything about it while I played with her or myself, nothing, not a word! And I was extremely worked up just thinking about her having two guys fucking her and her having a cock in her mouth and one in her pussy at the same time but as obvious as it was, I ended up having to Jack off alone while I thought about it and I almost wish she would have lied to me and just said no when I asked if she had ever had a threesome because the way it was left, it felt like another part of her that I could not have and I already had enough of that. I don't know if I will ever know what caused the sex to stop but it hasn't been from the lack of trying or asking for it or what I could do for her to help her get into the mood or over whatever was causing her to not want to have sex and I tried for years without any luck. It sure did not make things any easier that she would constantly walk around the house completely naked! It was not intentional ( I don't think) but it was very much like torture for me to see what I could not have being displayed right in front of me! And she would get mad when It finally got to me and I would stare at her naked body and start to get Jack off. What was I supposed to do, go about my business like she was not even there?at some point, I could have done that but not after the second year of not having sex! I was jacking off long before we were married and I am sure I will continue to do so long after we divorce! I sure would like to understand what happened to cause this problem, I know what caused the others. I like to think that I tried everything I could have but somehow, it is probably my fault... seems to be the standard answer for anything else.! And yes I am bitter, wouldn't you be? I don't know if I helped with the topic here but I hope I did not cause a negative effect on it
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