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sugarNspiceX 45F
19 posts
4/28/2020 10:51 am
Marriage


Hey!
Welcome! Hope y'all enjoy reading my thoughts and learning a bit about and my journey!

One of the things I get asked about the time is my marriage, and my husband. So I'm gonna start there. My husband and I have been married for 9 years. We have very different backgrounds. This is my second marriage and his first. He is 9 years older than me. He was a wild one in his 20's, I was a wife and a mother in mine.

In '97 I graduated high school, had a baby, and got married. In that order. We went on have 2 more and divorced after 10 years. Until my divorce,he was the only man I had ever had sex with. After that there were three men, none noteworthy, none long term. Then I met my current husband. So there was my number, 5! I can tell you their names, and a little about each of them. My husband couldn't even tell you how many women he's slept with, let alone their names, lol! So yeah, very different backgrounds.

I recently told hubby I felt as if I had missed out on a lot. For the last 20+ years everything I have done, has been for someone else. I want to experience new things. We have very different sex drives and desires. He is actually content without sex, and on the occasions we do have sex, it's pretty much the same thing every time. So after many discussions he agreed that if this is something I need to do for me, he will accept it. So, yes he really does know, but no he doesn't really like it. Our rules are simple. No playing in our town, or with anyone from here. Condoms must always be used. He wants to have a general idea of where I am. And I have one weekend every month to myself.

I am very happy in my marriage, I just want to explore a little and experiment. I don't want to change my situation or yours. I would like to be friends with the guy I'm fucking, I want a connection. I want to be able to enjoy spending time together, eating out, ziplining, I don't care just having fun together, along with lots of great sex! But after the weekend I'm going back to my life. I'll still chat with you, but I won't be yours again till next month. While we're together I'm yours, but only for that weekend. That's kind of what I expect in return. The only time I expect you to be mine, is the weekend we are together. I really don't care what, or who you do the rest of the time.

One last little thing.....but very important. If you are married, that's fine, I mean I am. However your spouse MUST know. Mine does, and I expect the same. If your wife isn't aware, do not even contact me! I want no part of a secret. I am open, and honest and I expect the same!

As always, any questions just ask! Hope y'all have a great day! Good luck in your quest for sexual fulfillment!

Kisses!!!!

Cum2mama357 65M/60F

4/28/2020 4:02 pm

I'm glad you have an understanding husband. Wishing you success on this site.


gentlelovrjust4u 66M  
195 posts
4/28/2020 4:19 pm

I am in just about the same situation, however, being a male, most ladies still consider the fact that I am married makes me a cheater and will have nothing to do with me. There really does seen to be a double standard on here when it comes to married men versus married ladies. I am happy for you that you and your husband have worked it out and I am sure that you will receive hundreds of responses. Stay safe


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/28/2020 4:55 pm

Wow... That's a pretty open relationship.
Good for you and good luck in your quest. 👍
If I were a husband... well...
Well... your husband has an open mind. 🍷🍷😎


Hawkfan533333 34M
688 posts
4/28/2020 7:18 pm

I half to give props to your hubby, it couldn't have been easy for him. I think this is a great thing your doing, maybe more married couples should have something similar to this.

Feel free to message my private mailbox


johnnydyno1 65M
2 posts
8/1/2020 10:25 am

I would be very much into talking with you sometime soon. I like the thing you have with your hubby , I would welcome a little time to chat with you .Please let me know if you would like to talk ? If you see this 4134828 please get with me . Thank you.


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