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Learning as I go  

sugarNspiceX 44F
19 posts
5/5/2020 8:42 am
Learning as I go


Hey!
Welcome! Hope y'all enjoy reading my thoughts and learning a bit about and my journey!

This has and continues to be quite a journey for me. It started with the simple idea of sexual exploration, but has become more about self discovery.

When I initially signed up, my marriage was not in the best place. We were not on the same page, hell I'm not sure we were reading the same book. I finally got the nerve to approach him about the possibility of me sleeping with someone else. It was not received well at first. After many discussions he agreed, and so this journey began.

However my marriage also began to change. Signing up on a hook up site right as a pandemic hits is a unique experience to say the least. I signed up, connected with someone, and then we were given a stay at home order. Put a stop that pretty quick. It also gave my husband and I a lot of time together. We had grown apart. He is self employed, and one of the things I admire about him is his focus and determination. Over the past couple of years his focus shifted to his business, and I kind of got pushed aside. No matter how many times we talked about it, nothing changed. Then a few things happened....I signed up here and began talking to different guys, he had to stop working, I met up with someone, and the lockdown started. He told me he had time to think and realized that he had lost sight of what was important. We are now working through some things, and it's getting better. He said he wants me to continue on this path for now, because he understands it is something I need to do for me. His hope of course is that it is temporary, and I will not make this a permanent lifestyle choice.

Now I find that I am not looking for a hook up as much. I do enjoy talking to new people and getting to know them. There are several guys on here that I talk to regularly, some about life in general, some about this site, some to share fantasies, and so forth. So even though I thought of deleting my account (for the second time) I have decided to remain. So if you would like to get to know me, or want to vent/discuss the site, hit me up. I would love to chat. That being said, if I'm not interested in your message, or we don't click...……..you won't hear back from me. I am no longer going to explain why I don't want to talk either.

So, there you have it! As life changes, so do our wants, needs, and desires. I am still figuring things out, and learning as I go...….I hope that never changes!

As always, any questions just ask! Hope y'all have a great day! Good luck in your quest for sexual fulfillment!

Kisses!!!!

Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/5/2020 12:02 pm

Ya know... I have to say that your husband, might be a better man than me.
I'd be going a touch nuts . As open minded as I am about so many things - relationships is NOT one of them; especially if a ring had been welded to a pair of our fingers.
Good luck ? Have fun?
Even as I say that I'd be cringing - if I had ever had to say that to HER.


Cum_Happy 110M
2824 posts
5/5/2020 12:42 pm

Hello, welcome to Blogs.

How do you feel about the whole cuckold syndrome or lifestyle?
Does any aspect of having sex with others while your husband is aware, excite you?

Curious Pervs want to know, so fess up please.

Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/5/2020 1:51 pm

Just to be clear...
I think it's GREAT, that you guys have such an open relationship... and I've read your previous posts where you described everything going on. So... . I understand.
I admire his dedication to help resolve things between you two.
If it keeps your marriage together... it's better than the alternative - of sadness, regrets and dissolution !


Hrnygy79 60M

5/5/2020 2:02 pm

I admit a few years ago I would have been bothered if my wife woukd have done what you have done. Now I wish she would find herself a friend to hook up with. I think that there comes a time in a woman's life when she needs to do some expliring, if for no other reason than to remind herself that she is beautiful and sensual.... or to at least find out that she can enjoy sex for pleasure alone. There is a difference between love and sexual pleasure. Best to you in your search!


gmariuse 69M

5/5/2020 3:02 pm

Sex just for sex is something that always interested me. After a divorce and remarrying the perfect match ,and then her death,I've been trying sex just for sex. It's a learning experience and extremely interesting. The people who claim to be open to sex just for sex are few and far between. Even if it starts that way ,the emotions are difficult to fight sometimes . If it's on you then a broken heart ,on them you break a heart. Rare to find a prostitute that can rid themselves of emotional bonds and carry on business . Anyway,kind of wondered if any thoughts like this are on other minds. Have a great day.


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