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Thursday Morning Thoughts  

Cinnamonblue 54F
3 posts
10/22/2020 7:05 am
Thursday Morning Thoughts


Is it possible to desensitize your clit? I wonder that as I am charging my vibrator for the fourth time this week. If it is possible, then I am in trouble. I probably should lay off the vibrator because I have yet to find a tongue with that kind of vibrating power and I prefer the feel of a tongue on my small juicy clit.

I've only had one woman go down on me. My FWB set it up. I was blindfolded and never saw her. I can say that a woman going down on me was definitely a different feeling than a man. I can't explain it, maybe a softer tongue, she knew a woman's body and where to find the clit, believe me men, not all men know where the clit is. I didn't cum with her, but almost came when my FWB started<b> fucking </font></b>her hard from behind and she was licking my front to back. God, it was so hot. Imaging his big cock slamming into her and her ass jiggling and head was bobbing between my legs. I definitely want to give oral to a woman sometime. I think I would be good at it.

Now, I'm looking for ways to reverse the desensitizing of the clitoris. I am rubbing essential oils on her. I don't think this will work as, it feels so<b> fucking </font></b>good rubbing the oils that now I'm just longing for the vibrator even more. UGH, what is a girl to do?

Have a happy Thursday. Kisses CinnamonBlue

I'll keep you posted with my success or failure. If you have any suggestions, let me know.

forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
10/22/2020 9:06 am

Nerves can become used to certain stimuli so it is important to change up from time to time. Other factors include our health and such things as medications. However, how our bodies respond or what they crave changes over time and that has more to do with sensitivies. Best thing is to experiment as to what feels good and try not to pressure yourself into responding any one way.

Welcome to the blogs. Good hunting.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


HornyDick2081 38M
4 posts
10/22/2020 11:16 am

WOW.. my DICK likes to charge a hot sexy pussy every morning... cummmmm


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
10/22/2020 12:00 pm

There is concurrence among the medical community that even *heavy* use of a vibrator does NOT cause any more than temporary numbness. Should you lose *sensations*, give your toys a day or two of rest. If that doesn't get your sexy-time back on track, consider there may be deeper physical and/or psychological issues involved.

Stress and depression (we are in a Pandemic, after all!) are often at the heart of these problems. As we all (presumably) know, significant components of our orgasms originate in the brain. Consequently, worrying about our climaxes (or lack thereof) can exacerbate sexual frustrations.

To that effect, rest, exercise, hydration and nutrition will reinforce your mind's natural ability to relax and elevate your spirits. Specific *nutritional* recommendations include B-complex vitamins and full-spectrum CBD. Both are excellent for reducing stress and anxiety.

Physically, it is possible to acquire a mild neuropathy. Absent a specific health issue, the same recommendations given above apply.

Also appreciate that our age, the body responds to *therapy* a bit more slowly than it did a couple of decades ago. Be patient. That said, if you encounter numbness that persists past a week of *self-help*, a visit to your OB-GYN (just to cover your bases) is advised.

In sum, there are no restrictions for indulging your pleasure principle to your libido's content. Staying proactive on all of the above will minimize any consequences associated with irrational exuberance.

Enjoy!


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