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Your Partner Expressed Interest In Rear Entry Now What?  

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1/16/2021 2:41 pm
Your Partner Expressed Interest In Rear Entry Now What?

Your Partner Expressed Interest In Rear Entry
Now What?


All types of rear entry and play is increasing in popularity,
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It almost seems bound to happen with the
increased interest in anal sex and all of the exposure on internet porn.
Your partner gets up the nerve to say “I want to try anal penetration“.

If this rear entry inquiry is a surprise and you aren’t ready,
you just say you want time to think about it.



You know the topic of butt play will come up,
don’t make a big deal about it coming up. If somebody tried using the rear entry before on you and you didn’t like it, don’t let it taint the experience for your current partner. It is likely your previous partner didn’t do the proper preparation and wasn’t gentle and considerate.

A better choice for everyone for new experiences and new opportunities with your partner, is to be open to trying new things. Do everything the right way, with kindness, consideration for your mate and open conversation.

An approach you likely haven’t considered for
the question of anal:


Your partner says they want to try anal penetration, and you say
YES…
But, Lets Go Slow…
And let’s try putting it in you first.

This surprising turn may put the brakes
on the whole rear entry idea quickly.

They may not be interested in being the receiver.
It is easy to reply that if that if they don’t want to “take one up the rear for the team“, why should you? The other surprising scenario would be, their enthusiastic eagerness to comply with the rear entry experiment. You must be prepared to follow through if this turn comes into play, once you have offered it up.

Now in hindsight you are ready to move forward with ass-play, take it slow. It is best to have planed ahead so that both partners have had a chance to go #2, so that it isn’t part of the experience and nobody is surprised. It is best to start in the shower with a mild hypo-allergenic soap such as Dove – Sensitive Skin. Scented or harsh soaps can cause irritation to sensitive areas. Like any foreplay, don’t race to the finish line.

Spend lots of time sudsing up the back and buns, giving a lot of sensual massaging. For this first venture into rear entry only a finger should be used for penetration. Trim long or rough finger nails. No hurry for penetration either. Tickle, tease and massage the anus, playing with just the opening for a long time, paying attention to your partners reaction and level of enjoyment.

Water isn’t enough lube for the anus, you may want to have lube available in the shower. Keep the floor from being to slippery with a bath mat. Move forward slowly inserting one finger a little bit, pulling it out and repeating. Be prepared to move back a step or stop if your partner asks you not to move forward at this point.

You may personally wish to move forward
and receive play at the level your partners does,
but that is up to you.


Be sure to follow up on your commitment
if your partner fulfills their end.


Clues Of Intimate Interest



Depending on how open your conversations are with your partner,
it may be awkward for them to bring up their interest in assplay.

Watch for subtle clues (or not so subtle) such as
rubbing the butt while clothed,
or moving closer to the anus
while caressing/ kissing/ nibbling, or licking.

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