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Early thoughts  

Hereiam980 48M
1 posts
2/9/2021 11:35 am
Early thoughts


Okay, so I have been on here for a few days now and what are my main thoughts so far?
* Wow, there are a lot of accounts trying to get you to go elsewhere aren’t there?
* Note for people who get the system to send ‘icebreaker’ messages to everyone when they join: some of these people will reply, don’t get all offended if they aren’t what you are looking for if you haven’t restricted who gets the ‘icebreaker’!
* No, I don’t want to give you , you, to you or be dominated you. I haven’t got enough as it is, if I wanted to for what we are all looking for on here I would have moved to Amsterdam years ago.
* No, seriously, I don’t want to give you my .
* ‘Instant messaging’ is a lie, no one replies instantly and most don’t send messages at all.
* I have no idea how to write messages to profiles I like - I have tried humour,<b> dirty </font></b>talk, friendly approaches and everything in between and they all feel awkward. Might if people replied!
* ‘Aldershot’ is in a lot of different places in the UK.
* Honestly, I really don’t want to you.
* The people setting up accounts don’t think you will notice pictures of the same woman on four different accounts, all ‘confirmed’ in the same city.

Come on, there must be some real accounts somewhere, right? People actually on here for real, maybe even ones who might like me, right? Right?

lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
2/10/2021 11:16 am

Firstly, welcome to the blogs, it's always good to see someone new who can write well!

In my experience, the site is riddled with flakes......Despite Various Inc's denials, some are bots generated by this site in an effort to get people (mainly men) to subscribe, others are bots from other sites trying to tempt you else where, and others are scammers acting alone or on behalf of some shady group. It can be fraught, and can even lead to serious loss if people are vulnerable to it. You seem to have it sussed!

On the other hand, there are a few genuine people who will interact and even meet. I guess the trick is to separate the wheat from the chaff, as the saying goes.

Lastly, if you're going to blog here regularly, which would be great as you're clearly articulate and obviously have a valuable contribution to make, may I offer a couple of pointers?

- there's a curious word glitch which causes certain words and letters to be removed from your posts, often rendering the prose un-readable. The Site Support team have explained that it's a side effect of screening software which is intended to delete offensive words and letter combinations. They accept that it has gone wrong somewhere, but as with most glitches here they seem unable to resolve it. Most bloggers simply c&p their post into the first comment before the letter thieves get a chance to spoil it.

- when you put a post up, if you add the first comment your post will appear on the 'recent posts' list on the blog front page, and so it will reach a wider audience.

There are several other glitches which affect the blogs, such as delayed posting of comments, so don't be surprised if it doesn't quite go to plan.

Otherwise, the blogs offer a diverse community which spans the globe, so it can be really good fun, some of the conversations to be had are fabulous, some of the comedy can be side-splitting. It's also a good way to 'meet' people online, and depending on location that can translate into a face to face meeting.

I hope that helps It would be great to see you post again.

All the best.

McLindo.


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