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moha440 50M
260 posts
9/12/2021 6:04 pm

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I like you so much I want to suck the whole bod

BiggLala 49F  
30107 posts
9/12/2021 6:45 pm

What do you mean when you say NSA? Perhaps that is the first tip...define ALL acronyms you use. For example, to me NSA means two people meet one time for sex, and will never meet again...ever. You create "strings" once you have an ongoing arrangement.

Anyway...I'm going to guess by NSA, you mean "don't catch feelings" (just say that and drop the acronym). You help avoid catching feelings by limiting the amount of interaction you have with each other. You understand that the arrangement is NOT exclusive, both of you are free to see/have sex with other people. It's best to avoid spending the night with each other (if you must, do so on rare occasions), and limit the cuddling. Don't discuss each other's dating life or ask opinions about each others relationships with members of the opposite sex. Don't use pet names with one another, and don't buy gifts for special occasions.

I'm sure there's more, but that's all I can think of right now. This is just my thoughts since you asked. Yours and others mileage may vary.

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mufdiver69er2 61M  
1753 posts
9/12/2021 7:02 pm

for what its worth..i think anyone i had an extensive series of hookups and didnt end up feeling even a little something..would make me both sad and scared..only sociopaths have no true feelings..

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OldStandardDudeX 69M  
113 posts
9/12/2021 8:37 pm

I think the whole NSA /FWB is only short term.....we all really want that "One" that provides all that we need. So, the NSA /FWB situation, if it is really good, makes us want the whole thing, all the time.....and if both partners are in sync, and openly discuss their feelings, wants and needs, it's all cool.

But usually, those partners are not in sync, and don't openly express their longer term wants and needs......

But hey, what do I know?....

Heathen_G 62M
7962 posts
9/12/2021 8:57 pm

Not possible. Eventually one or both of either of you gets "Feelings" for the other. Especially if the sex is really good.

The only way something like this might work, is if you find a man who is doing a lot of dating. In other words, "Not dependent on you for sex". He has his own, "Little Black Book" , to draw from.

WyoCowboy7751 68M
2234 posts
9/13/2021 5:57 am

F : Friend, in regard to male & female, a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual relations: WB ( with benefits), is adding the sexual relations as a benefit to being more than just friends !! NSA, No Strings Attached, relates to not looking for long term or marriage, when it's over it's over !! Just My Thought on it!🤠

New2Midlo 51M  
913 posts
9/13/2021 5:57 pm

Ideally, you'd find someone who possesses a 'cardinal flaw', from a relationship perspective. A trait that would be a hard stop. For example, one of my FWB's was seemingly humorless, another admitted to being an emotional mess. Unfortunately, both developed feelings for me, partially because I'm a halfway decent catch but also due to my affinity for seduction.

The love of my life, Lala, has an excellent point about cuddle avoidance as a tool for keeping feelings at bay. But do you really want a stunt cock who doesn't perform after care?

Ooh Ooh, another tool for avoiding the feeling thing! Keep the sex completely vanilla. No matter how much you may want to be tied up, spanked, and used, don't do it with a FWB. Engaging in those activities and being pushed by a partner tends to lead to you trusting them and trust almost inevitably leads to icky feelings.

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