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80sbaby71 49F
7245 posts
9/8/2021 6:47 pm
Let’s go!

Yeah…I couldn’t come up with a title. So spank me! 😜

I have several blogs running through my head. So picking one is a little tricky. But one thing I do know, I’m starting fresh. I’m trying to learn from a friend to start looking at the positive in my life and stop griping!

Ok….so let’s go!

I’m a lucky girl. I first got on AdultFriendFinder after my first marriage was ending. Actually a person put me on a different site and a guy contacted me and told me that I didn’t belong on THAT site. 😳 So…I was introduced to AdultFriendFinder.

I was shy. I was very naive to the sexual world. Hell, I’m still shy! And I’m still naive about this sexual world! I’m lucky because I met some AMAZING people! I found friends. I found some lovers…..🥰 Damn….I found some very hot lovers! I told you I’m a lucky girl. And funny thing is….I still have some of these people in my life. And yes, some of them were my<b> lovers. </font></b>And I still love them.

So, I found love on AdultFriendFinder. I found my husband. I love him. Yes, I said love. Yes, I am now divorced from him. Like, it was final last week. Yes, I still love him. But, we are not a couple. We have parted. And I’m lucky. I am a new person because of him. I’m a lucky girl, no matter how much it hurt. Now….I’m back on AdultFriendFinder.

I’m a lucky girl. I’m ok. I’m not looking for love. I have that. I have friends. I have family. I’m a lucky girl! So, this wasn’t the blog I was going to make, lol. But I think maybe it’s the one I was supposed to make.

I am a lucky girl. I love you. I love my friends. I love my lovers…don’t have any right now. That’s another blog 🤭 I don’t think I would change anything! I’m a lucky girl. And you know what? I know I’m a lucky girl because of Pony …..😘🤩

CleavageFan4U 64M  
68272 posts
9/8/2021 8:03 pm

ohhh, I dunno - "spank me" sounds like a good title to me - as well as a fun way to start something new.

I've suspected Pony is a real sweetheart for some time now. Thanks for confirming it.

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80sbaby71 replies on 9/10/2021 4:52 pm:
Interesting....I just had a friend text me that I needed a spanking!

And yes Pony is an amazing person

Kanking15 52M
15 posts
9/8/2021 8:23 pm

That's very cute pic I like it

80sbaby71 replies on 9/10/2021 4:53 pm:
Thank you! I am lucky. I have alot to make up for, but I love these people.

Kanking15 52M
15 posts
9/8/2021 8:26 pm

To love and be loved and to lucky. You hit the lottery

author51 58F  
125824 posts
9/8/2021 11:20 pm

Both you and Pony are lucky to have each other.. Good luck in this new chapter and Pony is right on staying positive. Good things happen when you look on the bright side of life...xoxo

You can never have enough JOY in your life...xoxo


80sbaby71 replies on 9/10/2021 4:54 pm:
She is a very smart cookie! In bed.....

spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39268 posts
9/9/2021 2:23 am

It's good to feel lucky!

80sbaby71 replies on 9/10/2021 4:54 pm:
I like being "lucky".....

69ereatwetpussy 59M
6171 posts
9/9/2021 4:58 am

Enjoy yourself
Enjoy your friends each one is different
Enjoy your lovers have as many as you want
Life is short
You know what marriage is all about
Figure out if it for you again or not
For me if you want different partner it's not.
You my be lucky but I think it just you
Your a lovely loving person true and true.

I was wondering the other day about you and Pony she not mention you
In her blogs.

80sbaby71 replies on 9/10/2021 4:58 pm:
I plan on not taking anything for granted. I am not looking for a husband. Not now.....and probably not ever again. I am happy just to be me for now.

As for Pony & I..... I made alot of mistakes. I have a lot of making up to do. She is an amazing person and I hurt her. Whether it was intentional or not, I hurt her.

scoupe42 58M  
12797 posts
9/9/2021 5:09 am

That a great feeling to have!

80sbaby71 replies on 9/10/2021 4:58 pm:
yes, I agree

citizen4722 63M  
73443 posts
9/9/2021 7:34 am

It's great that you can still be friends with some of your ex-lovers. You're lucky to have PonyGirl in your life.

80sbaby71 replies on 9/10/2021 5:00 pm:
Well, some of my lovers were friends first. And no matter what, friendship is so much more important than the lover part. BUT.... damn were some of them AMAZING lovers!

PonyGirl1965 55F
19947 posts
9/10/2021 9:47 pm

You are blessed. And greatly loved.

And I'm sorry. I despise your ex for his abuse of you and your daughter. He is a bad man.
You tried to love him into being a good whole person but he doesn't want to be good. He enjoys hurting people and making everyone around him miserable.
I'm sorry. I can't pretend he was a good person. God wants me to love others - I fail with your ex.

justskin1 69M
12792 posts
9/10/2021 10:18 pm

Would love to spank you. Hope I don't need to wear clothes when doing it.
You sound like your life is settling down and you are moving into a good positive outlook and a greater sense of you own worth. No doubt Ponygirl was a big help. Such friends are hard to find so you are very lucky there.
May your friends all be so supportive and you get all the sexy loving you may need and eventually someone special that will love you for what you like best about yourself. I got very lucky and found that someone for me.
Big hugs to you. Hope you don't mind that I am naked right now.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.

69ereatwetpussy 59M
6171 posts
9/11/2021 3:20 pm

Its up to you to figure that out .
I did not know there was trouble from a person that helped you and want the best for you .
I just seen her comments and not only anything about you or your marriage.
One thing I do know no man should ever threat a woman or there family in a manner to hurt them.
If you think you can change him stop right now
Unless he wants to help himself first.
I've had family members that lived this way for years and it was not good for her or the kids.
If you gone back to him, I don't see you patching things up with Pony.
This just my opinion from a stranger.
Hope things work out for you and your kids.

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