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How I ended up on AFF  

Allowedtoplay101 54M  
10 posts
3/18/2018 7:51 am
How I ended up on AFF


I've always been attracted to people, not gender, although, growing up in small town Nebraska was not conducive to being open about it. I remember in 7th grade showering and another boy had a hard on, I felt a sensation, then again, in 9th grade, reading a porn book out loud (boys do this stuff) and looking up to a friend (who was quite developed for his age) who had his hard, thick cock about a foot from my mouth, nothing happened, but I did want it. I went to the military out of high school, even 30 some years ago, there was a lot of stuff going on that I was very naive about. I think back now at all the times I could have explored, but it was grounds for dismissal from the military, so I followed the rules. Shortly before the end of my enlistment, I met my wife (yeah, she still puts up with me all these years later). So, we lived our lives as people normally do, raising our , getting together with friends and such, just a regular family. She learned I was bisexual shortly after the berth of our first , really, so did I. I was used to having sex with a lot of women in the military, then when I got married, sex was very regular, so I was content. So, with the berth of our first , the sex disappeared. No way would my character allow me to cheat I'm a Cancer. I had always enjoyed fingering myself while I masturbated, so I bought my first dildo, I found something that was missing in my life, and discovered in myself feelings that were always there, a lot of memories and thoughts came rushing back, I knew for a fact at that point I was not heterosexual. My wife, although not wild about it, would fuck me in the ass, we called it "the treatment." We later found the proper term was "pegging" after watching the movie A Good Old Fashion Orgy. The years go by, our grow and move away. Just us, we have always had a good sex life, I introduced my wife to vibrators and dildoes, she quite enjoys masturbating now. Again, move along to 2018, she tells me she wants to start having sex (we talk openly with each other) with a friend and said she thought I should explore my bisexual desires. So, she started her relationship. I found The Denver Swim Club (it's a gay bathhouse) online and decided that was my path to exploration. I go to DSC, I went early, before it was busy, just to get comfortable and get the feel of the place, it felt quite natural to walk around naked with other men, something I actually missed from growing up playing sports, then again, showering in the military. It felt good! A gentleman (we'll call him M) walked by and said if I want a back rub, come find him, he'll be in the pool. I approached M, late 50's, very lean, fit, shaved body, and accepted his offer. We went to a room (there are multiple rooms, and unlimited condoms), this is my first time ever with a man, so I played with his cock, his 6" cock stood tall, he put a condom on and had me lay down on my belly, he started massaging, caressing, kissing, licking in ways that I had never experienced, it felt quite natural. As he worked his was up, starting at my calves, up my inner thighs, my buttocks, my lower back, the back of my neck, he really knew what he was doing, then as he was on top of me kissing my neck, he slid his hard cock into me, again, this felt so natural to me, it was just normal. Well, for about half an hour and multiple positions, I had my first sexual experience with another man, I would highly recommend it if you so desire, life is to short not to give things a try. So, I stayed a couple more hours, and had few more men, although not as good as M, showered, and went back to my wife. Like I told my wife, it felt so natural to me, I don't feel any different, I love having sex with her, and hopefully, other women, and now more men.
So, ladies, and straight couples, don't be concerned about my being bisexual, I won't attack you or make you feel uncomfortable about it, I won't bring it up if you don't. I'm here on AdultFriendFinder for more sexual experiences (my wife will join in eventually) and, hopefully, meet some good friends(with little secrets) along the way...............t(Y)

gowandahotwife 62M/51F  
139 posts
6/6/2018 12:27 pm

Lovely story. Getting a massage from a friend is how I had my first bi-sexual experience also. My wife and I both enjoy cock...especially together!!


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