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AmberCucksJoey 39M/36F
9 posts
6/21/2021 5:01 am
What i'm looking for... And what I am getting...

I have to say, I thought this would be easier. lol When I was single, while I wasn't a slut, It certainly was not hard to get a guys interest... Get asked on a date... or even get laid. Most of the men I met back then, wanted EXACTLY what I am looking for now. A bit of romance, a few simple dates / drinks out with me (some to show me off) and well, the potential of getting in my panties afterward.

I don't pretend to be a perfect , far from it. But, I am certainly not hard on the eyes either. So why is it so hard to fine a BF on the side or FWB on here (Or anywhere online)?

What I am looking for: A nice guy, who wants to chat online and eventually on the phone... Go out some, maybe dancing, drinks, dinners, cuddling at your place and watching a movie, etc. With almost Guaranteed night of passion after. (And after the first date, if we both had fun, then GUARANTEED passion, on a regular basis.

The best part? Because I am married and in love with my husband, their are no strings attached! Not asking for love... Not asking for commitment... Not asking for babies... Just someone to have a fun time with and tons of great sex.

What I have been getting:

Hi, want to fuck? I don't have a place, but you can suck me and fuck me in my car. (Ummm no.)

Hi, Can you send me naughty photos to jack off to? (Ummm no.)

We can meet, but it has to be alone, I'm a remote location, in the middle of the night. (Ummm no.)

I love 200 miles away, but I can get us a hotel many times a week. Are you a guaranteed fuck when I get there? (Ummm no.)

I saw your large penis requirements, I know thats your fantasy, but will you make an exception for a smaller guy? (Ummm no.)

Can I just fuck your husband while you watch us? (Ummm no.)

Ok so let me spell it out, and my requirements

I am not desperate for a cock. I wont just fuck anyone that messages me, cause i just have to have cock in me so bad, that I don't need to have standards. Your simple message asking to fuck along with your cock pic, does very little for me, and most likely wont get any reply at all.

1. I am looking for a nice looking, clean cut man... That has a job, car and is self confident in himself.

2. You MUST live within a to 20 minute drive from Kent, Ohio, and wants to date / fuck several times a week!

3. You MUST have your own place, where we can not only go for sex, but also hang out, talk, watch movies, etc.

4. You MUST want to have a friendship / relationship with me, OUTSIDE of the bedroom as well.

5. You MUST be well endowed (At least 8 inches and thick). Sorry, but I have my husband at home who can satisfy me just fine with his smaller cock.

6. If you are married, she must be 0% ok with our relationship and willing to personally, face to face, confirm it.

7. Preferred that you be fixed (Not required) and definitely 0% disease free.

8. Condoms are a MUST the first few times we are together until their is trust between us. Then we can go without.

9. My husband WILL be there the first few times we get together. As time goes on, and we know each other, I DO play alone. But for safety, he WILL be there in the beginning.

He may watch, or may just wait in the other room or in the car. It will OUR HIS choice, not yours. Again, this is only the first few times we meet.

. I do like great, long, hard pounding in the bedroom. While I am open to explore new things, I do NOT like pain, temporary or permanent marks or ANY type of bathroom or age play. DON'T EVEN ASK.

. I am subvisible in bed for sure. That means I like a man who will take control of the situation. I don't want to be in charge or have to initiate things. That being said, i don't need to be collared, tied up, put in a cage, spanked or beaten, etc. I just love a man who takes charge.

So, do I have specific demands / requirements? You bet I do! So if you don't qualify or are unwilling to meet these requirements, its simple... I'm not the right girl for you!

But if you do, lets talk and get ready for an awesome, mutually satisfying, no strings relationship!


letsphuckawhile 56M  
4 posts
6/26/2021 9:27 am

very nice blog
is refreshing to see someone lay it all out there
sometimes great things can be so hard to find
but when you find that one that clicks, it makes it all worth it


BuckingFored 46M
11 posts
6/30/2021 10:28 pm

Best of luck.


AinOH21 35M
16 posts
7/12/2021 6:11 am

You sound absolutely phenomenal. The perfect situation for a guy that is fortunate enough to live close to you. Damn distance. Best of luck in your search. Some lucky guy is going to hit the jackpot with you.


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