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The fine art of Age shaving  

AnewWoman 62F  
260 posts
5/21/2018 5:36 am
The fine art of Age shaving

Personally I don't see any reason to dramatically show ones age different than the actual age other than maybe being discreet as to hide one's identity. But dang, some of the age ranges people put out there. Recently when I told a 24 year old profile I preferred others closer to my age, he quickly told me he was actually 42. That's a whopping 18 year spread. Another case is a man who appeared he could be my father said he was my age. My guess is most age liars subtract on the average 10 years off of their actual age.
So do you lie about your age and by how much? What about some of the stories you've been told in regards to false ages given.
No I don't lie about my age
subtract less than 2 years
subtract 3-5 years
subtract 5-10
subtract more than 10
add less than 2 years
add 3-5 years
add 5-10 years
add more than 10

redrockrascal 62M
21697 posts
5/21/2018 9:36 am

The biggest reason to put an age (birth date and year) other than your actual one is the site's "data retention issues". When your card info is already at risk here why give away further identity info to make it easier to access an account?

My actual age is off by, at most, 3 years. When I actually meet women from here I tell them my actual age. I has yet to really matter.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.

justskin1 68M
11757 posts
5/21/2018 9:47 am

I don't lie about my age but do understand fudging a bit for data misdirection.
While I admit I am not good at guessing a woman's age some of the women here look a lot older than the age listed. I figure tis better to have someone think "You look young for age". than "You sure look old for your age."

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.

s2ndegree 61M  
9731 posts
5/21/2018 10:06 am

If it wasn't anything more than just a number.
This question wouldn't need to be asked nor would
it be such a deal breaker in profiles.

Using more than all the road!

lookheresnow 35M  
372 posts
5/21/2018 3:22 pm

Being discrete and being within a year of your age is one thing but that big of a gap is wr

Yours_4A_knight 55M
1396 posts
5/21/2018 3:56 pm

I see no reason to be anything but truthfully being that I am not going to meet anyone anyway.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

sphxdiver 70M  
21067 posts
5/21/2018 7:31 pm

Actual real age is 68, why lie about it ?

As you stated in your post, sooner or later the truth is going to come out, and when it does, it won't be pretty !!!

makeusqwirt357 33M
47 posts
5/22/2018 3:49 am

no need to The fine art of Age shaving

allnitelong2063 56M
220 posts
5/22/2018 5:45 am

No lies here

jisselin1966 54M
213 posts
5/22/2018 6:50 am

I’m very confortable with my age which is almost 52 ! No reason to lie about it .

CD2ServeU 67T

5/22/2018 6:57 am

Why lie? It won't change the level of visual attraction, or chemical attraction, or performance, or anything.

As far as hiding who you are, people who know you (if they are on this site) will recognize you anyway, and know that you are a liar too.

Greyhawk47 50M

5/22/2018 8:32 am

I don’t lie about my age. It’s going to come out in the end so it’s better to be honest and up front.

Sunaj2017 46F

5/22/2018 9:11 am

Lying only does yourself a disservice.

SummerDances 44M
23 posts
5/22/2018 10:20 am

I never saw the point of telling someone my incorrect age, unless it was a telemarketer.

LadyTeddieBear 63F  
1131 posts
5/22/2018 8:36 pm

I am a proud 60 year old woman soon to be 61 years old .


natureboythk9 41M
22 posts
5/23/2018 5:17 am

2 years cause of data breaches either way

Hotbodman_4play 56M
478 posts
5/23/2018 6:10 pm

I could careless. It doesn't make my attraction to someone here any different no matter the age they put up there.

Mrfun85x 35M
23 posts
5/24/2018 8:50 am

Just a number, don't make much difference.

DevotionalMode 57F  
22 posts
5/26/2018 12:55 am

Always try to tell the truth, as I have a terrible memory to remember lies lol

ProfessorNaught 107M
1199 posts
5/27/2018 4:32 pm

For many there is no reason but some find it necessary to obfuscate their identity. Considering the internet data collection/retention machine vs. privacy, I'm surprised anyone list any identifying information at all. Especially when the terms of use says they (site owners) can use that information at will for any purpose.

LAxoxguy 41M  
23 posts
5/27/2018 11:05 pm

I do not mind if people lie about their age, but some take this a bit too far. I think lying more than 5 or occasionally ten years can get quite ridiculous. Meeting up with people who could be the parents of the person in the photo they sent can feel uncomfortable.

EuphoricFantasy2 51M/46F
5 posts
5/28/2018 7:36 am

Sorry, but what does that have to do with the art of shaving?


DiscreetAffairPA 44M
212 posts
5/29/2018 12:29 pm

I use my actual age, but not my real date of birth. Only because I don't want this website to have any actual identifying information - an AdultFriendFinder data breach isn't something I want to worry about.

ibottomutop 65M
37 posts
5/29/2018 9:21 pm

why lie about your age. its only a number and most often with a higher number you know more about what your doing

mpman1947 73M
14 posts
5/30/2018 10:19 am

I'm 71 yr old retired, widowed male. I never lie about my age, I see no reason too.

Pntyme2 47M

6/3/2018 2:10 am

The older the better....

1seeking1 55F
3243 posts
9/11/2018 3:44 pm

I stick to the truth easier to remember. Was meeting a e2 year old he kept saying age is just a number. Thinknthat is the name of the blog I wrote about it. I well we met and he is older then me and could barely make it up the stairs where the coffee was. I asked why his response women did not want to meet old men. Was a very quick coffee and suggested he start telling truth.

Paulxx001 63M
16772 posts
9/27/2018 8:20 am

Yep. No reason to lie. Why bother?

skuden2 58M
1039 posts
10/24/2018 9:42 am

Nope ☝️

StrongBlakDick4U 40M
263 posts
12/17/2018 7:26 pm

Happy birthday, or Happy Belated birthday to you. I appreciate the question. I remember telling a lady when I was about 13 or 15 that age is a matter of mind. If you don't mind. It don't matter.

Paulxx001 63M
16772 posts
12/27/2018 3:26 am

I don't really see the point in lying. I'm looking for someone within 10 to 15 years of my age. I think a woman I'd be meeting, would be annoyed if I showed up, and she was expecting someone in their 40's no? What do you think? 🤔

1126258 53M

1/16/2019 12:44 pm

I lie because I am soooooo sick of these people who are out of shape, and have themselves buried at 40 yo. FUCK ALL THAT! I have always been told to grow up and my answer has always been Fuck you and that and I will stick to my guns. I'm in shape and everything works well because I take care of myself. I have never given a fuck about what society has to say and still don't.

Dtts43rt35 62M
8750 posts
6/6/2019 10:50 am

Always say real age!

Rio flows in its bed and goes around with its waters!

fashionablegma 77F
8054 posts
6/13/2019 11:03 pm

Why lie as soon you will get found out,and,that is no way to start a relationship,i like guys to be open and honest as I am,well there is wishing on my part

needsomefun21515 54M  
204 posts
9/23/2019 12:42 pm

Why start things out with a lie. They will find out soon enough if they are real about meeting you

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