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Will a new partner make you a better lover?  

AnewWoman 61F  
172 posts
1/20/2019 9:21 am
Will a new partner make you a better lover?

There seems to be a lot of married folks here on AdultFriendFinder and without being judgmental I'd like to know if finding a new partner for sex has made you a better lover? This can go for singles as well who change partners. Supporting comments are always welcome. Let me add based on your most recent change or addition of partners because I'm sure those with many have seen varying results.
Man: Became a better lover because of new partner
Man: No change with new partner
Man: New partner became a better lover because of me
Woman: Became a better lover because of new partner
Woman: No Change with new partner
Woman: New partner became a better lover because of me


Paulxx001 63M
16702 posts
1/20/2019 6:20 pm

A lot of married folks?
Hmmm.. I don't know about that.. That's what you're seeing? 😱
I'm not.. Lol... 😘🤔


sphxdiver 70M  
21075 posts
1/20/2019 7:22 pm

It's like everything else, TIME !!!

nothing is going to be perfect right off the bat, again, everything takes time.


cockinhand4uNow 56M
1371 posts
2/7/2019 7:06 am

Well for me I wanted to see what it was like to have sex with a man. So did that make me a better lover to my wife. Probably not. It did answer some of the questions that I had and I guess that makes me better. Selfish, but I told her about it prior.


ludwig202 68M
11827 posts
4/2/2019 6:38 pm

hello invite me as a friend thank you
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I always want to be with you.
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Thank


bombon_ok 54M

5/14/2019 4:41 pm

I think that becoming a better lover is mostly associated with your relationship with yourself and having a high degree of curiosity - to the degree that someone else may inspire that then being with them can help make a person better. But, most of that should start with yourself. just my 2 cents!


AnewWoman replies on 5/14/2019 6:18 pm:
Hmm, sounds very plausible.

NioNBi 59M/37F  
26 posts
5/21/2019 7:06 pm

Well, I have had hundreds of short term lovers though I have had only three serious lovers in my life for the past 40 years. I was on a hectic journey for finding a better woman or two in my life on a long term basis because I was looking for at least an average great lover in those hundreds of women.

But it was very hard to be found a great lover as most of the women were adornment in their attitudes and life perception. Hence, out of those hundreds of women I have found only three women who was prepared to change both socially and sexually without worshiping any unrealistic and biased limitation.

My wife was the best out of all three women and so that I made her a much neutral and great lover who learnt and knows well to mixed and mingle with any person both socially and sexually by maintaining our personal image, family dignity and life prestige.

Yes, sometime you may be surprised to hear, if I tell you that I have now found a great wife, lover, friend, sister, mother, aunt and a grandmother. Besides, now she has develop a great therapist in her as my sole assistant and ready to soft swap / soft swing with few exclusive people only those who match our overall caliber traits for mutual pleasure.

THE SECRET: I strongly trust that love is a degree of the way of our neutral life and the personal excellence of altruistic sharing our overall capabilities without undue expectation and living closer to nature as much as we can sacredly yet in a tantric way. Try it out - you too can feel the difference. Truly, it will not be easy to tongue! But don't give up.


Dtts43rt35 61M
7682 posts
6/6/2019 10:54 am

Pleasure is a way to be well with your partner!

Rio flows in its bed and goes around with its waters!


fashionablegma 77F
7725 posts
6/13/2019 10:54 pm

Oh he definitely has controlled himself better,as he use to ejaculate rather too quickly for my liking,though I put that down to me being irresisitable


Leegs2012 47M
54559 posts
7/20/2019 8:26 am

Me and my Girlfriend Swing. We need to have sex with other people. It spices things up between us. We are swingers. It's not for everyone, but our feeling is that you can't have Sex with the same person over and over throughout the years. Just out thoughts.
Great post!!


Paulxx001 63M
16702 posts
8/7/2019 6:17 am

Better lover? 🤔
Well... I'm learning some new tricks... and finding out what might please different people... so that's better. 👍😊
Each woman is unique. Don't you think? They're definitely not ALL alike! 🔥😙


Beppino72 100M

8/23/2019 9:15 am

In my younger days (after Vietnam) I had many several sex partners. I think having multiple partners did make me a better lover because it made me pay attention to the unique likes and dislikes of each of them. I get as much pleasure out of giving as receiving. When I have been married I really did not want any other sex partner. That is until now. My current wife and I have not had sex in 4 or 5 years.


letsgettogeth119 60M

10/25/2019 8:53 pm

I don't believe it made me a better lover. With the person I was with the sex was real hot. Even when I had sex with someone else, it was just for sex.


ludwig202 68M
11827 posts
1/26/2020 2:23 pm

good girl thanks


Koffla 64M
55792 posts
1/27/2020 10:03 pm


No partner at this time, but there is always room for learning and improvement.


stringtime666 59M
730 posts
2/20/2020 12:24 pm

I think yes, but also that you have more sex again


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easyrider4008 63M
1427 posts
3/5/2020 1:49 pm

How about we both became better lovers when we got together?


NJGUY08090 53M
3270 posts
4/3/2020 5:46 pm

The new partner is always exciting so it may seem to be better.. I think it depends. I have a few friends that when we get together we just click. Over the years I've gotten better and I'm working hard to improve my game so I get invited back to play again.


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