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Posted:Jul 18, 2015 3:54 pm
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2015 9:36 pm

I have not been on this site a terribly long time, but I did find out something rather interesting. In my last blog post "Finding what you aren't looking for", I mentioned the fact that I had found someone that I get along with rather well quite accidentally, and it turned into a mutually exclusive agreement that evolved into an actual relationship. So here I am some time later(A year and 6 months), and I have noticed that there are a lot of people that like to hate you here for being happy. While I couldn't give a crap less if they are unhappy, it just astounds me that people are unhappy when people actually find something or someone that fulfills their needs. Worse yet is when people deliberately try to drive a wedge between you and your other by being asshats. While I am perfectly comfortable with the both of us continuing to be on the site and chatting with our friends, I find myself coming here less and less because I get tired of the pettiness. Long story short, if you are unhappy with your circumstances then do something to change them. Realize like I did, that it isn't always the other person that has the problem, sometimes its you. When you can admit that to yourself, then you can work on fixing the issue or improving your circumstances. Am I perfect, hell no, but I don't resent other people for being happy either. I will never be perfect, and neither will she, but we keep each other on an even keel so to speak. Now I must admit that some people are just terminally miserable assholes, and that will never change, but they end up on the ignore list, and voila! Problem solved! Now on the flip side of the same coin, I have made some very good friends on this site that I know and trust. Some are nice enough to impart wisdom in the face of my ignorance, and others just give me crap about it. Each and every one of them are fun to hang out with, although some I wish that we could see more often. I guess the moral of the story is, if someone is happy then be happy for them. If you can't do that, don't be two faced, or just keep your mouth closed until you have something nice to say. I know everyone has heard that at least once from their parents, you would think that it would have stuck. Anyhow, enough griping. Happy hunting to one and all. I hope that what you seek finds you or vice versa....
Finding what you aren't looking for
Posted:Nov 28, 2014 1:23 pm
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2015 9:37 pm

So I had every intention of not getting into any kind of commitment when I started out on this site. Been there and heard that before right? So the last thing I was expecting to find was someone that piqued my interest enough to be willing to go with a mutually exclusive agreement. So this all started after a meet and greet and by all accounts nobody really goes to hook up at so to speak. At least that was what I was told anyhow. Now as a sidebar, I was relatively new to the site and had not had much experience with it. It was also my first meet and greet as well. Nothing like fresh meat huh? lol. Well, as it happens I met a rather interesting person of the female persuasion that I thought well enough to invite over to the house later on. As luck would have it we spent a lot of time talking that night before actually getting down to business. The second date went about the same with her spending the weekend, but as luck would have it there was a family dinner that popped up out of nowhere. I really didn't want to be a tool so I asked her if she wanted to tag along as a "friend". Oddly enough, she fit right in to the mixed bag of nuts that is my family. Not long after that I met her family, and with the exception of her younger sister we got along really well. Now here we are nearly a year later, and now she is sitting on the couch talking to her mother while I write this post. I guess when it comes to this site, you have to expect the unexpected. Needless to say, be careful, these things have a habit of sneaking up on you.
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