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Cyber sex vs Erotic stories  

BendMeOver278 29F  
1610 posts
7/2/2019 3:08 pm
Cyber sex vs Erotic stories

Let's just say that visual porn is off the table, I am curious if people enjoy cyber sex or erotic stories more.

I can get the appeal, I think, for either one.

I am thinking that people who enjoy cyber sex like that there is someone on the other side of those words. They like the interaction and possibly the customization? Maybe doing it over with someone multiple times can also give a second nature feeling to writing what you and the other person may want.

I am thinking that people who enjoy erotic stories enjoy the fact that they can for things that they enjoy and not worry about what someone else is looking for. They can also read their hearts content and not have wait for any replies.

Curious of opinions!
Which do you enjoy more?
Is my reasoning off?
I enjoy erotic stories more.
I enjoy cyber sex more.
I enjoy both 100% equally.
I do not enjoy either.
Other


BendMeOver278 29F  
2758 posts
7/2/2019 3:09 pm

My preference is for the erotic stories.
I like not having to wait on someone else and I enjoy just reading what is written and not worrying about explaining my thoughts or what I would do. I can just enjoy and I am able to more freely loose myself in an orgasm.


tubesteak66 54M  
645 posts
7/2/2019 3:20 pm

Cyber sex is great but you need the other party to be on the same page. It's hard to find but very satisfying when you find someone that can meet or exceed your imagination & creativity.


BendMeOver278 replies on 7/2/2019 3:30 pm:
I agree, maybe more fun with a fwb or someone you actually have or will sleep with. I assume more knowledge of the other person, the more fun you can have online.

idblueswoman 62F  
772 posts
7/2/2019 3:27 pm

I find both equally boring. 20 yrs ago erotic cyber was fun. I personally don't find the erotic stories here erotic at all. Just my 2 cents.


BendMeOver278 replies on 7/2/2019 3:32 pm:
I agree. I find it a struggle to find stories sometimes on this site. There is a particular fetish that I find all over the AdultFriendFinder erotic stories that is always a mood killer for me.

Kanatacock 50M
164 posts
7/2/2019 3:36 pm

I definitely find the cyber sex to be far more satisfying. Besides being my kink it involves 2 people exploring a sexually charged situation where they don't necessarily act as they would with current partners. Its a virtual world where you get to explore your sexual nature without causing harm to anyone(provided its mutual and consensual)


funsnellvillecpl 63M/51F  
2603 posts
7/2/2019 3:56 pm

like erotic stories more


AyneAlAngus 55M

7/2/2019 4:09 pm

Erotic stories accompanied by hot illustrations!


citizen4722 62M  
68489 posts
7/2/2019 4:11 pm

I still enjoy both but I do tend to read more now...


PAWAPh 44M
13608 posts
7/2/2019 4:12 pm

*Voted*

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ChrisOnHere801 44M
29 posts
7/2/2019 4:14 pm

I think both can be equally arousing and satisfying. However, I understand your reasoning for preferring erotic stories. Finding a person who is into the conversation and narrative to the extent that you are can be a challenge for cybersex. It tends to work better when you have some established relationship with the other person, or you are both turned on by a particular kink.


Wonder167 53F

7/2/2019 4:27 pm

I am not into cyber sex anymore. There was a time, I'd play that game, but it no longer appeals to me. Perhaps, as you mentioned, if it was with someone I've been intimate with, but now it's like play acting for adults. Has no meaning. I don't read many erotic stories, but that would be my preference if it were good quality.


Tmptrzz 58F
87135 posts
7/2/2019 4:32 pm

Great question hun and it's so hard to choose just one..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


justaguyinalaska 54M  
719 posts
7/2/2019 4:35 pm

I celebrate their differences and the complementary needs they serve.

Like visual porn, erotic stories seek to inspire and animate our imaginations by asking us to suspend our preconceived notions and *submit* to the storyteller- who promises to navigate us to a climatic bliss. As the pilot commands us from the flight-deck: "Sit back, relax and enjoy the flight." Other than turning pages or scrolling a screen, your hand(s) are free to focus on self-pleasure

Cyber-porn can/should be interactive. Ideally, two creative minds (with good typing or verbal skills) are riffing off each other. There is a requisite input of energy that can elevate the sexual tension, but also exhaust. The *rewards* here can be a bit more elusive, but the *journey* has a unique physicality you don't feel reading someone else's fantasies.


shark15001 59M
21 posts
7/2/2019 5:31 pm

Both have their place in different situations


CleavageFan4U 63M  
63181 posts
7/2/2019 6:37 pm

Cyber sex is fun, but hopefully it's just really foreplay.

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GimmeAThrill 51M
24486 posts
7/2/2019 8:43 pm

Does nobody do phone sex anymore?

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Shots30 44M  
2300 posts
7/3/2019 4:08 am

I am not a big fan of either, but I do enjoy reading more than I do the cyber sex. Both are fun, but not my regular thing. Not sure exactly what I would do if visual porn was completely gone. LOL

Cheers!


DoctorBooty 39M  
6377 posts
7/3/2019 5:23 am

I've written a lot of stories in my blog, some fiction, some real. I enjoy writing out things as they happened or as I wish them to happen. I don't do it quite as much as I used to, because I am spending more time chatting directly with women and cybering/sexting with the ones that will drive over here once I get them so horny they cant stand it.

But I enjoy both equally.


RobK2006 53M
5590 posts
7/3/2019 6:07 am

I voted for cybersex because I can get REALLY horny chatting with women. But I also love reading erotica here. I love getting to read about what really turns women on.


proteus_2a 54M
7927 posts
7/3/2019 8:43 am

Cyber as a form of foreplay or teasing can be fun my lady
- although the two parties should be attuned to their needs and mood

(Not an small feat, I'm afraid)

As for erotic stories, very few allure me, in the blogs mainly

Cheers - P


caleliyan 57M
16 posts
7/3/2019 8:34 pm

I like both! All depends! But i prefer "real"! By the way, nice view in you profile photo! Kisses!


freespirit11501 50M
1318 posts
7/5/2019 12:18 pm

My preference would be the erotic story. There are some people that when they write, they can paint such a detailed picture that I can see myself as one of the players in the piece. That to me is truly erotic. I write out my experiences in my blog and I try to capture all the little details of how I was feeling at the moment and I hope that the reader can feel that as well.

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TJAY762 43M
118 posts
7/9/2019 12:09 pm

id say the cyber....and if all goes well hot phone is way better....the interaction and ability to talk sex free open and uninhibitedly with a woman is extremely sexy.


Afarmerguy1 44M
16 posts
7/11/2019 10:40 am

They both have their time and place


Funpleaser70 49M

7/13/2019 6:49 pm

Cyber sex doesn’t do anything for me


Chuckk48 64M
1321 posts
7/13/2019 8:58 pm

Actually truth be known I enjoy writing erotic stories more than reading them When you write you can lose yourself in the story, make it exactly what you want it to be. I have tried cyber sex but I found it to be repetitive. Once you do it that's it. Frankly I think the optimum is a cross between cyber and writing. Writing a story with someone allows you to think about what you say, where you're going with the story line while you still have the interaction of cyber.


sexy_notes_4u 54M
88 posts
7/14/2019 6:20 am

I enjoy both. Cybersex is good when we are both turned on and trying to get each other off. I enjoy seeing her immediate reactions and then the virtual orgasm. With certain friends you can tell when they orgasm (besides them telling you) because their chat slightly changes.

With erotic stories, I think of 2 different types. 1 - Stories that the writer is communicating through their own experiences (true stories are hotter). 2 - Stories that put the reader in the narrative. The writer describes sexual acts on you (the reader).

I've experienced a combination where I'm emailing a friend and we are exchanging back and forth scenarios of what we're doing to each other. We go at our own pace but still get some "immediate" interaction/reaction to our exchanges.


Acquaman2019 44M
25 posts
7/22/2019 2:58 pm

i like to mix. i like to write erotic stories bi imagination when i'm chatting with a girl


Lostent61 41M
28 posts
7/24/2019 4:48 pm

Depends on the other person, if it someone that I know or have had spent time with cyber is better for me. I, however, really enjoy stories because you don't have to worry about being completely on the same page as the author to enjoy it.


BungalowBill1965 55M
24 posts
7/26/2019 7:21 am

I guess it depends on the mood you're in at the moment


rm_1littlehose 58M
452 posts
7/26/2019 1:45 pm

I voted equally. I too, do mot find many stories erotic, just sexual in nature. Some are more like a fiction story than a real experience. Just my 2 cents.
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nostalgic68 61M
377 posts
7/29/2019 2:12 pm

I write or have written, erotic romance stories and have a few posted here. My enjoyment is in the original writing of them. Not a big fan of reading what other write though there are some, like Nickelson Baker's early stuff, that I found interesting. I liked Vladimir Nabokov's "Lolita." I don't remember much of the story itself. What I remember was how great of a writer he was.

Totally don't get into cybersex. Perhaps that is because at my age, it only feeds the frustration. I want real touch and be touched.


The2ofus007 53M/52F  
47 posts
8/2/2019 1:20 am

I like stories more


jrtex12 48M
17 posts
8/5/2019 7:47 am

i love the erotic stories. they get me so hard.


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