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BiF4Fun81 39F  
20 posts
1/9/2017 10:42 am
Young men...


I get asked very often on this site if I 'actually meet'. I do! I've been on this site for a long time - nearly a decade and have met probably close to two dozen people. Some made it to the bedroom, others did not. Lately I've chatted with a lot of local young men (young being under 25 years old). I've found that they're all talk, no action. Once I find that there is good chemistry, and they start talking about coming over for a meet, discussing all the things we will do (sometimes in explicit detail, lol) I started putting it RIGHT out there when I'm interested, by saying 'come over' and giving them my address. Not one of them says 'ok!'. It's always lame last-minute excuses - I'm nervous, I'm tired, I'm too stoned, I forgot I have to be somewhere, or last night "Make me cum on cam , then I'll come over"... Waaait... what?! They'll continue to chat online hemming and hawing and lamenting their decisions. Total waste of my time!! I used to not be so discriminatory towards younger men on here, but I think I'm done! They all say "don't judge me because I'm young".... There's a reason y'all are being judged! Anyone else experience this?

forgotforgetting 54M
7246 posts
1/9/2017 12:03 pm

Some of it is likely stage fright but a lot may have to do with a lack of experience with a confident woman who knows her own mind.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


brandygirasol 51T  
674 posts
1/9/2017 1:17 pm

AGREED ... Sorry But I've Also Found That Most Men Under 30 Are Sooooo Immature And Into BS ... Sometimes Guys Over 30 As Well Unfortunately!


Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
1/9/2017 1:45 pm

I get asked very often on this site if I 'actually meet'. ... The key word is "Meet".

Lately I've chatted with a lot of local young men (young being under 25 years old). .... So no , or very little, sex experience in life.

I've found that they're all talk, no action. ... Well sure, they're inexperienced.

Once I find that there is good chemistry, and they start talking about coming over for a meet, ..... You really haven't found any chemistry yet, at this point. And when they start mentioning coming over for a meet, you take control, and tell them, "Let's meet somewhere public close by first". This is where you find chemistry, or the lack of it.

discussing all the things we will do (sometimes in explicit detail, lol) I started putting it RIGHT out there when I'm interested, ... Sure, and then they ejaculate while listening to you, and forget about you. Mission accomplished.

by saying 'come over' and giving them my address. ... Don't do that. Meet them in public first.

Not one of them says 'ok!'. It's always lame last-minute excuses - I'm nervous, I'm tired, I'm too stoned, I forgot I have to be somewhere, or last night "Make me cum on cam , then I'll come over"... Waaait... what?! ... You're wasting too much time chatting or talking on a phone. Before going into great sexual detail with them, meet publically first.

They'll continue to chat online hemming and hawing and lamenting their decisions. ... So move on at the first hint they're back peddling.

Total waste of my time!! ... Partly your fault, too.


I used to not be so discriminatory towards younger men on here, but I think I'm done! ... No. You can still do this, just be smarter about how you do this.

They all say "don't judge me because I'm young".... There's a reason y'all are being judged! .... You're suppose to be the elder of those situations, so go about it as if you know what you're doing. Don't insult them. This is all new to most of them.

Anyone else experience this? .... I meet with women in their 20s , from another site, every now and then, and we always meet publically, and I exercise patience with them. Try that, with these young males.


BiggLala 48F  
28942 posts
1/9/2017 8:45 pm

I've only had that problem with a few of the younger guys I've talked to. I quickly began to see the signs and stopped all interaction when it appears they're not serious. Otherwise, I've met several young guys that followed through with meeting and I had 'fun' with a few of them.

Gotta say, I agree with Heathen's advice on this one.

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s2ndegree 61M  
9731 posts
1/11/2017 9:21 am

Young being an understatement here.
Sounds like they haven't learned how to
Prioritize all their options.Yet!

Using more than all the road!


Exploringcpl3000 57M/56F  
32 posts
1/16/2017 5:45 pm

I agree with the others...moreso I think you may intimidate them......speaking from a mans point of view the younger women are much the same, more interested in their cell phones and "likes" in their FB account......you are an extremly desireable woman BTW.

Lixxx, Paul.


Hunkz57 63M
1 post
1/28/2017 6:47 pm

Invite me over and see what happens


maturecutsey 50F

1/30/2017 5:34 pm

Interesting. I have always found that it is the younger guys that are most reliable and eager to meet in person.


bande6365 55M/57F  
134 posts
9/8/2017 9:48 pm

yep pretty much


redsox0412 34M
1 post
11/6/2017 9:57 am

Add me hun. I'll come over lol


DustyMarbles 70M
14 posts
12/6/2017 4:27 am

Take away a younger persons social media and their lost. I think that younger persons are some what intimidated by your beauty and attributes. When offered the opportunity to put up or shut up their insecurity smacks them right in the face.


Iwanaliku2 58M  
65 posts
12/27/2017 1:17 pm

Maybe the "not playing alone" part scares them off... sometimes you just have to trust people...


dannyd655 55M  
34 posts
1/7/2018 6:59 pm

I wish I lived closer! You would see how charming and nice I am and hopefully get extended the invite.


younghungstud699 29M
2 posts
8/29/2018 3:52 pm

you just need to find the right guy that's all.


SionapRhys 67M  
13 posts
9/22/2018 11:23 am

Way too far away to actually meet, but if you were to tell me to come, I would, just when and where. Actually, come to think of it, I have a lot of leave, and my response would be the same with just a tad delay on the ETA.


boatcar42 61M  
9 posts
1/1/2019 8:18 pm

Nope!
Not once did you ever say to me" come over" , then give me your address.
I mean not once!, so, this has never happened to me.
But i sure wish it had!
I would..


ludwig202 68M
11898 posts
1/23/2019 5:05 pm

Hello.
You are a beautiful woman,
I am happy, you are attractive
and simply desirable.
thank you.


JamesS498 35M  
9 posts
10/29/2019 7:46 pm

Is it still happening? I'm in Boston but make it to Providence now and then, and would also happily get a hotel room halfway if we chat and click

I'd love to chat and see if we're into each other!


gramp4u 71M  
26 posts
7/19/2020 4:28 pm

I would think the major factor in play is your husband. Most young men would be very uncomfortable performing in front of a woman's husband! I, on the other hand, would have no problem fucking you dry! >>!


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