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Heavenly thoughts on a Monday  

BiSussi 61F
677 posts
9/20/2021 6:10 am

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Heavenly thoughts on a Monday


Does it start with the voice, the scent, the looks, the walk, the thoughts, the surrounding, is it love, sex or is it all or some of it, I wonder often as of late. Is the goal of finding heaven on earth a mute exercise or can it be found in our sometimes cruel world?

When I was a , high school, college years, full of energy a day went by so quickly, always filled with bliss and the next day promised to be even better. No troubles at home, in school or with friends except some jealousies here and there. The quest of finding heaven on earth didn’t really enter my mind at all. Friends, candy cotton or doctor play just came natural, my first boyfriend, was not infatuation, it was true love. Kissing, touching, making him make cotton candy, was incredibly fulfilling. I suppose I felt like I was in heaven.

Losing my virginity was a bless never experienced before, certainly heaven looked differently to me! Intimacy had become a must, feeling the hands of my boyfriend, experiencing skin to skin contact while making love in the missionary style with a lot of eye contact, receiving his seed in my womb, not only made me explode, but also complete. Made me feel I am in heaven.

I was adored, I was admired, I was on cloud 9 without noticing that some men have different needs to get to heaven. Is it natural instinct, is it self-centered thinking, upbringing or nature? Whatever it is, my experience with a neglected husband crashed heaven for me. I loved him, he claimed he loved me, but after I gave myself to him, he went home to his wife without even giving me a goodbye kiss. Only to call me a few days later to tell me how much he loved me and he got to see me and show me his love again. I was crashed, I was hurt, I was in pain and he talks about love when all he wanted was sex.

It took some time to get over it, yes, physical needs, sexual desires appeared deep inside me from time to time, but not even enough to have the desire to masturbate. Love doesn’t require intercourse, love is not monogamous, and love is not limited to one gender, but it is the door to heaven at least to me. With love and giving it time, I found my way back to intimacy and to heaven.

Men are not all the same, we just need to figure out which ones are not for us and with the right man or men, any touch, kiss, sexual position is a step to nirvana. While I could not imagine I would ever agree to anal, I learned that it can lead to elation, if you love the man and he loves you. Anal in connection with a DP results in ecstasy, with the right men it just happens; when love is involved it takes me to heaven.

Most men just want sex, while I very much appreciate missionary, mermaid, nirvana & DP positions, may it be in the bed, at the beach or any other place. Touching, cuddling, kissing prior, during and after love making are the ingredients for me to go to heaven and stay there for a long time. Reaching the nirvana level for any woman or teenage girl is my great wish today, because it is so different than were you can end up at the best with sex. It is just heavenly!

Have men manipulated us females, is it society or was it the pill who allowed us woman to accept men to give us one or more orgasm and live us feel empty just a few minutes or hours later? Is it not love what makes any position or almost any position special, allows cervical stimulation and actually provides incredible orgasms, heavenly bliss? Making love to me is to bless your partner, at least for ourselves for the rest of our life.

Is intimacy controlled by nature or is it a combination between our brain, emotions and nature, I wonder today. Sex is for now, love and making is forever. Love only knows a beginning, but never an end, only sex does!

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BiSussi 61F
1199 posts
9/20/2021 6:17 am

Do you think women would be less assertive when it comes to sex today, accepting a quick fix, if it wouldn’t be for the invention of the pill? Can sex create ecstasy, of course it can, had to watch Jutta and her girlfriend way too often having sex, only to see them come back a short time later for another fix.

With my first married man it was all about sex for him, it turned out, I was crashed, hurt and felt more than used. Thank God not all married men are like him, there are married and single men who are a JOY. who value us women for the way we are and not just when they need a release, a quick fix in other words SEX.
Does sex provide long lasting bliss in your opinion or allows a woman to reach the level of NIRVANA?
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Love doesn’t discriminate, nor do I Married or single, you love me & I fall in love with you, I shall do anything 4 YOU It is not about 88b size it is all about LOVE What is Your position on DP Very young and steel hard is what I desire, but twenties and early thirties will not be refused when love is part of it


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Wifefucker23 29M
9 posts
9/20/2021 6:40 am

Very nice I liked everything about this article


BiSussi replies on 9/20/2021 2:01 pm:
Thank you for your comment
It feels wonderful when a man understands what matters to most of us women.
We for sure could have an interesting talk over coffee I suppose
What do you think, shall we meet up when I am near you on business?

citizen4722 63M  
73564 posts
9/20/2021 7:20 am

There is definitely more than just a subtle change between sex and love-making.


BiSussi replies on 9/20/2021 2:07 pm:
It is too bad, that most men just want sex, don't understand the difference of the fine tunes, between the music women make when having sex and when making love.
Thank you for commenting

author51 58F  
126305 posts
9/20/2021 7:37 am

Sex for me is so much more than about sex. It encompasses a lot of different levels of intimacy, trust, honesty, communication and friendship. I have yet to reach long lasting bliss just through sex only. That would be only a quick fix. As for Nirvanna through orgasm.. Nirvanna for me is reached when I orgasm with only that one special lover I desire.. Love may not be monogamous as we have so many varying types of love. For our children, family and friends. When one like myself only needs or wants one lover, then it becomes Monogamous with that person..

You can never have enough JOY in your life...xoxo

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Leegs2012 48M
87158 posts
9/20/2021 9:22 am

Words well written for a all around relationship. Yes, is the short term, and love can be forever.


BiSussi replies on 9/20/2021 2:17 pm:
It looks like you feel just the way I do, THANK YOU!!!
It makes me sad, when I see men play the LOVE GAME, when I can see clearly that they only want SEX from the female.
It makes me feel worse when I see a woman like Jutta, using young men as human toys, making them believe women just need a \8 and a few ...\8 to be in heaven
Changing these men for a long time, if not forever, eliminating those men from the pool of valuable men

BiSussi 61F
1199 posts
9/20/2021 1:57 pm

    Quoting author51:
    Sex for me is so much more than about sex. It encompasses a lot of different levels of intimacy, trust, honesty, communication and friendship. I have yet to reach long lasting bliss just through sex only. That would be only a quick fix. As for Nirvanna through orgasm.. Nirvanna for me is reached when I orgasm with only that one special lover I desire.. Love may not be monogamous as we have so many varying types of love. For our children, family and friends. When one like myself only needs or wants one lover, then it becomes Monogamous with that person..
Thank you Joy:
It is always a JOY to read your posts, always a JOY to read about your point of view, even though you believe in single monogamous relationships while I find a woman may very well be in love with more than one man at any given time.
What would life be without JOY, what would life be without . . . . . . . .


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Erogedyne 69M
954 posts
9/24/2021 5:36 am

It's all about finding your niche & then finding others who desire the same sort of niche. You hint at that in your post, and it seems that you have idenitified yours and actively seek it already.

Love seems to be a combination of prioritized physical & emotional needs being filled. Sometimes, one person will fill them all, sometimes it takes multiple people to satisfy those needs. No one way is right for everyone. We are, after all, unique individuals!

I enjoyed your approach to the issue in this post! It was thoughtful & insightful. Thank you for sharing!


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