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BlondeWifeMom37 44F
224 posts
5/25/2014 6:55 am
Cold Sex


Time and time again I am asked what it is that drove me to be a card holder in the Naughty Mommy Club. the question comes from everyone... men, couples, other women, the saints, the sinners, even the ones who truly don't give shit, but just want to know my story. The classic why.

Like all marriages, there are several reasons. It's a conglomeration of multiple issues. But set them all aside because I have to be cut throat honest here. I can live with all the stupid things and indifference's. But what I cannot live without is PASSIONATE SEX. Being touched, kissed, or even talked to. There comes a point in your life when you make a decision. Am I going to settle and go through the rest of my life being passive and accepting. Or am I going to grab the bull by the horns and hang the fuck on! It's a choice, not a life sentence.

First, I want to clear up that this is not something that changed over the years which I know is so often the case. I married my best friend. NOT my lover. In my defense I was just to young to know the difference between comfort and passion. I don't care what anyone says, you cant start a fire without a spark. -Bruce Springsteen knows what I am talking about It's sad to think if I had never taken the giant leap and ventured out, I would not know one of life's greatest gifts. Not to mention the freedom of exploring whats inside of each and every one of our very own Pandora's boxes.

You all know what I am talking about.... The kind of heat that could ignite an entire national forest in an instant Cause a flashover that incinerate's everything within its radius. The kind where just a look or graze of the skin sends your sexual arousal meter banging against the max bar. The temperature in the room just escalated to extreme degrees and the only way to put out this inferno is just to give in to the desire. There are no rules or boundaries.

Tell me how a woman like me, who is the most sensual of creatures; intense, creative and insatiable can survive without the most vital of natural pleasures? How I sustained for as many years as I did is beyond reason to me now. Thankfully, I am a very positive person and look forward... never back. I live with no regrets, life is about choices and I am full aware of all the ones I make. Life is to be lived and enjoyed. We learn from the past and grow into the future.

The term "COLD SEX" is the best way I can describe my sex life at home. There is no heat. There is no touching, kissing, playfulness. Preheat is only an option on my shimmering stainless oven in the kitchen. My bedroom has no clue what the word FUN is. Seriously, if there wasn't duct work venting into it, it would be the coldest room in the whole house! How many of you can honestly say you know what sex is like with no kissing and touching. To think it is actually possible. But reality is, you only need to insert tab A into slot B to make the technical function of sex happen. That little 3X2 triangle between my legs is the only section of skin that is desired or needed for the act to happen. The act itself is typically run like some Olympic sprint. Barely reason to break a sweat. Pathetically not enough time, energy or purpose to own any of those numerous orgasms I have each week. Confession 8... I have faked more orgasms with my husband than I have actually ever had.

I am certain most of the men may find that confession offensive. But it is my reality. Plus, I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for the deep freeze in my sex life. I also wouldn't have had the opportunity to meet so many incredible people and been given the chance to see life with my eyes wide shut.

FunSeeker_04 42M

11/6/2018 4:02 am

"How many of you can honestly say you know what sex is like with no kissing and touching."

It is not only women that experience this in the bedroom. Aside from the normal kisses good night, good bye, welcome home, travel safe etc.... there are none. I can completely relate to your "Cold Sex" blog, just from the male side.

I feel the "Pre-heat" part is usually the most intimate and stimulating part of having sex. Exploring, caressing, tasting.........everything has its part in an amazing experience.

I am new to your blog and starting from the beginning, thank you for sharing.


1bighammer1000 55M
3432 posts
5/25/2014 7:06 am

I understand what You are saying completely. There is a difference between a best friend and someone who just sets the sparks off. If a person is lucky they can be one in the same.

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