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BlondeWifeMom37 44F
224 posts
9/13/2014 11:22 am
Height... Does it really matter?

Height.. Does it really matter?

For me yes. I am a big girl. NOW when I say that, I don't mean a coke machine with a head on it. I am TALL! over 5’9. Heel me up a couple inches and I can easily be 6’. On top of that I am a farm girl, so thick, lots of muscle and now some padding from living life. So when you factor my height against my curves, which I carry very well, I am definitely HWP-height weight proportionate.

Now, if I am in heels and standing six foot tall, I do not feel sexy with a man who is 5’6 and barely 150 pounds soaking wet. The logistics of it all just don’t compute in my head. The concept of bending over to kiss my man (or the man I’m with), my arms being over his shoulders and wrapped around him like i'm a giant would without a doubt make me feel like an Amazon.

Many shorter men tell me how it doesn't matter when you’re in bed.. Ok, that's a fair statement. I would agree to some extent. But only in a few areas. The key ones that are important to me, way out weigh the “you can’t tell i’m shorter when we are laying next to each other” mentality.

For example. How can a man bend me over anything when I am barefoot, let alone with heels on and it logistically even line up. Is there going to be a step stool handy? Or a chair? What about shower sex?? not even an option.. seriously. Especially if the man does not have much of a build. How do small men even man handle women my size? If I squeeze my thighs i’d be afraid to hurt him.

That brings us back to my long legs again… I want a body to wrap them around. Something to ride. I want to feel what I am riding. I like a man who is physically tougher and capable of manipulating my body in a hands-on manner. I want a long body to lay up alongside my legs when they are stretched upward. Or a face that meets mine when I am riding, not lost down in my tits. I want to feel hands that match the man grabbing my hips as he pounds me from behind. I want to feel feminine and like a woman.

Those two are really the key words here. Tall women do not typically feel feminine or womanly when we overshadow the man we are with. We like to feel encompassed and protected. So in that instant when we look at a man or he tells us how tall he is, we have an innate sense that goes back from the beginning of time. Our primal instincts direct us towards the right mate. The appropriate fit for our body.

What about personalty, connection, interests, attraction… Yes, I am not denying that those factors can complicate what is typically a no brainer decision. But realistically long term… it makes it complicated. I will confess to wearing flats when I am with or meeting a man I know is likely not taller or lying about his height. I personally DO NOT like being taller than the man I am with. The problem being, is that I want to wear heels though.. they make me feel sexy.

The only double standard in this I have found for me is men who are physically built. At least my height or still taller, but maybe not over 6’. Their bodies still over power mine. I still feel safe and engulfed when wrapped up in them. But I don't want to be in the Popeye/Olive Oyl scenario either.

I find it bizarre that men are so turned on by being with taller women. Yes I know, to each their own.. That is not my point here. Just bringing up the age old debate of whether or not height really matters. In the end.. for me.. my personal preference if you are going to grant me my wish, I would ask for a man over 6’1. Because for me, YES height really does matter.

sensualmaninmn 59M  
519 posts
1/19/2020 4:19 pm

I agree totally, for something long term, height does matter. Long time ago I was with a woman that is 6'1", and our bodies... well, it wasn't the right fit. Not too long ago I was with a woman just an inch or two shorter than me. From the first kiss to being able to easily and naturally cup her ass with my hands, our bodies melded and writhed together perfect rhythm. Same thing when she wrapped her legs around me.

Han54boat 67M
11667 posts
9/13/2014 2:46 pm

This is different than the usually age thing.
I understand your post on wanting a tall man. It is what fits you well and what you desire. People should not judge you for your desire and wants.

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marlon0063 57M
59 posts
9/13/2014 12:44 pm

perfect body ...beauty tits

spunkycumfun 60M/65F  
36127 posts
9/13/2014 12:37 pm

Height's not that important to me.

RobK2006 53M
5577 posts
9/13/2014 11:50 am

I actually have a thing for taller women; I never fail to notice them and to feel sexually interested.

getlucky2132 41M
4958 posts
9/13/2014 11:49 am

I bet your legs are great That said, I'm really attracted to taller women than myself, and I'm 6' tall. I guess the logistics part can be a pain, however, remember this, a lot of guys are usually with women shorter than them. I have, my shortest gf was just under 5' tall, and it wasn't all that bad, accommodation of the factors is key here The biggest woman I was with was 6' 4" and she weighed 200 lb's and carried it very well. I get what ya say on the HWP, I'm like that I was once just rip as hell and then weighed 180 lb's, now its around 215, but due to my larger body structure it "spreads" out well across, I'm I don't have a beer gut or anything....yet

As a side-note don't let height keep ya from thinking he's "small," I have a relative who's 5'3" and has a 15" dick What he does with it is beyond me

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khuz69 51M
76 posts
9/13/2014 11:30 am

You're right, the instinct is hard wired in- dimorphism is a self perpetuating cycle. I'm 5'6", so that leaves maybe 25% of Minnesota girls below my height. Hey but that's still a lot of girls, right?!

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