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Sometimes I Wonder  

Blueyedguy823 53M  
260 posts
6/8/2020 6:32 am
Sometimes I Wonder


There are a lot of mysteries life online. Especially here.

I wonder how many pictures of wives there are on here without her actually knowing.

I wonder exactly what percentage of female profiles on here are legit.

I wonder how many couple profiles there are where the husband is really the only one using it. (I know there are a few where maybe she lost interest in swinging... Or maybe where he lost interest)

I wonder how many people are where their profile says they are.

I wonder how many people are surprised find out that they are AdultFriendFinder not the site they signed .

I wonder how many women who say they are bi-curious actually find a woman with. (Same for the men)

Blueyedguy823 53M  
490 posts
6/8/2020 6:34 am

Maybe I'm just too analytical. A lot of my job is looking at stats, ratios, scoring performance. I hate to say it carries over into my AdultFriendFinder life too!


dogslife2live01 68M
1974 posts
6/8/2020 6:58 am

i am here for the blogs...
so i don't wonder who is doing who or why nor do i care if someone is getting to much and the other none.
and when the blogs go
so shall i
bonne chance

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/8/2020 7:00 am:
Anymore, I'm primarily here for the blogs too! I actually find more interaction.

author51 57F  
95969 posts
6/8/2020 7:11 am

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    i am here for the blogs...
    so i don't wonder who is doing who or why nor do i care if someone is getting to much and the other none.
    and when the blogs go
    so shall i
    bonne chance
There is way more interaction on blogs than just profiles.I met my last two lovers here through my blog..There are a lot of fakes, scammers and other things on profiles only.I find the real ones here are the bloggers, both male and female...Good post..xoxo

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/8/2020 7:36 am:
Thanks for sharing, Auther51! I always look forward to reading what you have to say!

1seeking1 55F
3121 posts
6/8/2020 7:14 am

Yes lots of mysteries, deceit, adultery here. The only way to truly know if they are real is to meet in person. Then you get the no shows and the ones who I can not recognize from their outdated pic. Not meeting new people during pandemic that's for sure. Best of luck, I enjoy the blogs, some amazing bloggers here.


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/8/2020 7:37 am:
I like the blogs too, 1seeking1. Seems to be the most authentic way to share.

Blueyedguy823 53M  
490 posts
6/8/2020 7:40 am

I also wonder why a bunch of words that I type in blogs are missing.


Granny872 67F  
2398 posts
6/8/2020 9:06 am

Several men have admitted to me that they were older than their profile stated, as much as 20 years older. They claim they falsify because 'women won't chat with anyone under 50.' IDK about that, but if you admit to be 20 years older than your profile says you are, it's for darn sure I'm not going to meet you in person (liar, liar, pants of fire.)

As for endowment ...hmmm ... if a man claimed that he was SuperDick, then showed up only packing SuperPeanut, I might pack up and leave. I'm not a size freak, but again, liar liar, pants on fire.


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/8/2020 11:21 am:
It's hard to hide those 20 years when you meet.

keithcancook 63M
18277 posts
6/8/2020 9:28 am

Your wonderings have crossed my mind as well. But, only briefly. I long ago determined that blogging is why I come here.

And why I keep coming back.

blog on!


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/8/2020 11:22 am:
Its good to know I'm not alone! Thanks for your comment!

lust4life59 61F  
456 posts
6/9/2020 7:01 pm

I just wonder at times what I'm doing on here, never mind anyone else lol


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/15/2020 9:51 am:
Me too, Lust4... Me too.

secret_lade 46F
3878 posts
6/12/2020 4:01 pm

I wonder a lot myself....


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/15/2020 9:54 am:
And I kind of wonder about you, secret_lade. I wonder what is the secret? Why are your pictures all about your toes? Why am I oddly attracted to your toes? Why am I asking all these questions? I wonder...

missthee 54F  
4230 posts
6/16/2020 8:25 am

Yup, too many fakes, too many exaggerations, too many liars.
That's why I stick to the blogs.
Trouble is, most of the newer members log in via smartphone and they are not aware of the blogs.


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/18/2020 6:51 am:
missthee, I agree about how more and more are logging in via smartphone. They should come up with a really good app. It would be a hit.

sonic_n_sideshow 47M/49F
15113 posts
6/24/2020 8:08 am

I wonder that too. I haven't been in the blogs for about 4 or 5 years, but back when I was here a lot I found the people here were actually legit and many quite lovely. We used to meet up at blogger bashes and felt very connected.

I have since found a site that kind of focuses more on real events and interactions (Munches and such) and find more value there as I prefer face to face with people and knowing they are legit.

I am a celebration of willful chaos and a hugger.


Blueyedguy823 replies on 6/24/2020 8:19 am:
I agree 100%. Thanks for your comment!

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