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Bonem91 30M
10 posts
8/8/2021 3:38 pm
Dick Profile Pic.


To all those ladies who have the joy of being met by dick profile pics when receiving an initial enquiry by all us males...
Can you please tell us males your real thoughts upon receiving this when it is the profile photo?
Does it spark your immediate interest? Does it arouse your curiosity as to the intelligence or intellect of the person behind the profile?
Do you even care? I mean, does it influence whether you will go on to read the message or does it stop you there and then?
Are you getting out a ruler and finding some idea how to measure the size by some clever three point trigonometry reference ?
I know that I have to remain obscured on here for obvious reasons, both professional and personal, but I have not yet resorted to a cock pic. Should I?
I can understand if a dialogue has commenced and then exchanging photos etc but does a dick profile pic open the door?
I suppose they must be successful or else they would not be there right? So tell us ladies what you really think.

agelesssexylegs 78F
1022 posts
8/8/2021 10:09 pm

Well it would have to be exceptional,though most who do have one as a main profile picture i find both think and talk through it,i much prefer an erotic teasing picture,maybe of it showing the outline,showing what are his favourite underwear choice or certain angles taken of his hot tight taut physique if he does not want to show his face,if after chatting a while i may ask rather than be shown a lollipop


Bonem91 replies on 8/9/2021 3:42 pm:
I agree with the tend to talk or think through it. That certainly made me laugh. Clearly you have been "exposed" not through choice on numerous occasions. This is exactly why I wrote this. I, for all my shortcomings or failings in my personality, (none by the way😉) did not want to be perceived in such a way. You have made a really good point regarding the teasing anticipatory aspect and therefore may consider this as a possible profile pic if viewed as a tasteful and acceptable class alternative. After all, I am here to engage orally and physically but if the oral doesn't begin because the profile pic is a big no no. I have little hope of grabbing anyone's attention to maybe proceed to actual conversation and maybe physical contact. Thanks for taking the time to read and replying. Much appreciated. I'm relatively new on here and I have enjoyed my first real exchange.

Brownie202 64F  
2563 posts
8/9/2021 4:26 am

A dick picture shuts the door. Yes this is a sex site but doesn't mean I want to see strange dicks staring at me. It's amazing how many men send one but want a face picture.

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Bonem91 replies on 8/9/2021 10:38 pm:
Hello. That was genuinely my reasoning and my hesitation/reluctance to doing exactly that. I know why I have joined this site. But I am more than just my other brain which takes over when the going gets hot from the brain which is ordinarily in charge.
I do care what people think of me and about me. Maybe I'm overthinking this. I want to meet and talk to people on here and exchange ideas and have fun along the way. Sure I can send messages which, as everyone knows, is very hit and miss at even being read never mind replied to. So as I slowly get to understanding this new method of interacting my introductory statement and my " profile pic" needs to reflect me in the best light as opposed to "Do you want some of this?"
Thanks for taking the time to read my blog and your post.

WyoCowboy7751 68M
2266 posts
8/9/2021 5:43 am

My Intent is too , Spark Interest


ltrskr 73M  
5026 posts
8/9/2021 6:10 am

Hmmmm, Last time I sent a dick pick......
She said...."Ain't no big thang!" LMAO.....


AnewWoman 63F
266 posts
8/9/2021 10:53 am

I think the dick main profile pics simply say you are ultimately after your own personal satisfaction and it really doesn't matter what satisfaction the other person ends up receiving.


Bonem91 replies on 8/13/2021 6:27 am:
Hello AnewWoman,

It is a fine line between showing how manly, or alpha you are, and appear just as you say. "This is all about the spreading of my seed as often and wherever I want." I suppose some women must like that approach and it must work for these men in some instances. I, however, would like to chat and know the person beforehand to see if there is a connection. Is the profile pic (if not a face for privacy reasons) a deciding factor? Do you go on and read them? Those dic pic types seem to come across as "I"m over shortly so be ready for whatever I give you and be grateful".
That is a gross simplification and generalization but maybe that's my perception. I want to chat, make friends and let people know that I am a nice guy. Dic pic is definitely out for me unless requested later in personal conversation.
Thanks for reading and posting.

BiggLala 49F  
30119 posts
8/9/2021 7:54 pm

does a dick profile pic open the door?
-Nope, pretty much closes it for me. It's not that I am against dick pics; I wanna see it AFTER I'm interested in HIM. It's that I've learned that dudes who lead with dick pics aren't looking for the same situation I am. They JUST want sex, nothing else. This is my opinion based on my experiences here (yes, I've met men in the past who lead with dick pics...I don't anymore).

The bottom line is that you can post the pics you want to post. Just understand that you might not get the attention you want from your target audience. More than likely, you'll get more views and attention from other men (gay/bi men). Yes, there are women who like dick pics, but I think they're in the minority.

Think to yourself what is the better strategy for attracting who you want. If posting/sending dick pics works and yields you the results you seek? Go for it!!!

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Bonem91 replies on 8/10/2021 6:18 am:
Hello BiggLaLa,
The idea of using a dick profile pic is so alien to me. I was asking you ladies what your genuine thoughts were on it. I certainly wasn't going to contemplate going down that route. As I am new this whole notion of interaction to meeting/chatting, I was wondering if I was in the minority of not thinking of using such a pic as there were so many on here. I was asking to see if that was considered the "norm". But you are absolutely right about my target audience and their perceptions.
Thanks for posting. BTW Loved your blog on retail customers and people who work with the public. Absolutely hilarious but spot on. 🤣

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