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Brandoncielo75 45M  
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10/4/2020 1:30 pm
A little more about me...

In my profile I wanted keep it brief, but I just realized there is a blog portion in the profile as well, yay! I love write, so hopefully this will give you a bit of insight into who I am.

First off , I'm amazed how "bot" infested AdultFriendFinder has become. I would say that a good 85% of the messages I receive are from bots wanting me sign for their web cam site, or some other BS. It's super annoying, and I hope that AdultFriendFinder figures out how combat this.

I've been on and off this site for over years, under multiple profile names. Back in my 30's, during my first marriage, this became a source of meeting some really amazing women. I got married waaaaay too young, at 18, to my 2nd girlfriend. She was highly religious, a massive prude, and the most judgmental person I've ever been around. Because of my stupidity of thinking I couldn't do any better, I stuck with her and ended up marrying this person. Being young and dumb, really set me back and didn't allow me have that "" time that a good percentage of people get in during their crazy<b> college </font></b>years. I try not dwell the past, as the past shapes the person you are today. Plus, I wouldn't have the two amazing I have in my life right now, from my first marriage, if I didn't walk through this shadow of death of a failed marriage.

After leaving my first wife after many years, and continuing be a committed father to both of my from my first marriage, I met an amazing woman. We started our life together, and are still deeply in love to this day after 9 years. We also have one together, which now brings the count to three. That's where my road of bringing into the world ends, after having a vasectomy 3 years ago.

So, why am I here when I am so deeply in love right? To put it simply, stages in a relationship change over time, and we are both well aware of it. At first it's pure sex, lust, and everything associated with that stage. We still make love, and try to meet each other's needs...but there is something to be said for the excitement of something new and the lustfulness that comes with it. We both understand that. She is concentrating on finishing a grad program, as well as running a business, and being a mom and step mom. That takes most of her time, which doesn't leave a lot of time for the physical side of our relationship. She is not open playing with anyone but me, and won't entertain the idea of bringing another woman into the situation for threesomes, etc. She doesn't want to know about what I do, as long as I'm safe and don't bring anything back to her that could cause issues. We are committed to one another, and look forward to our life together. This is just a time in my life where I get the hall pass to play, on the down low, until she says stop.

With that being said, my goal is find someone that is in a sexually unfulfilled marriage, just like me. I am not looking for one night stands by any means, and if that's your preference...that doesn't align with my thought process. I have honed my skill set in the bedroom over the last 25 years, to the point where I feel extremely confident in bringing an extreme amount of pleasure to the right woman. I am looking for an ongoing affair with one woman, who is very sensual, and uninhibited.

Let me be clear on what I'm NOT into. I AM NOT INTO PAIN! I AM NOT INTO ANAL!
I am not into guys, unless it's being part of a couple situation where we are pleasuring his woman together, but not touching each other.

I love a woman with confidence and intelligence. It's nice to hold a conversation with someone that can hold one. I love sarcastic humor and I definitely do not take things too serious. There should be no drama involved, as I don't want to deal with a jealous husband or boyfriend, etc.

I've done this before, successfully. I do what I need to do to keep things on the down low, and you should too. This isn't my first rodeo, so to speak, and finding a woman that is like minded seems extremely difficult to locate.

I drive all over SoCal for my career, so I'm between San Diego and LA a lot, so finding someone local is not absolutely necessary. My availability is better during the day for the most part, as I have family responsibilities at night. I look forward hearing from the "REAL" woman this site that this book I just wrote matches up with.

If any of this makes sense, makes you think, or makes you want to reach out...please do so anytime. I'm very open to meeting people, hanging out, and seeing where things go. There is never any pressure with me, so let's go have a beer and hang out and see what happens.

Hope you find what you are looking for and happy hunting!

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