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CCcouple25m27f 40M/40F
252 posts
6/2/2008 8:54 pm

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I AM A BBW, Deal with It

For those of you who are in the dark as to what BBW stands for, it means BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN.

There are all kinds of BBWs out there from the slightly chubby to what some call the SSBBW (Super Sized BBW). I know everyone has their own tastes and preferences. To each their own, as they say.

I have to declare that I am a bit steamed to have read a recent posting on a BBW forum where the men talked about being ashamed. These men are confessing that they are ashamed to be seen with a thicker woman.

*insert outraged expression here*

So basically we are ok to fuck, but when the chips are down and your buddies are around we are there for you to talk trash about.

I am a BBW, I stand 5'4 and currently weigh in at 240 pounds. I have a 40ddd bra size and a 54 inch hip measurement. If you cant tell, thats a lot of boobs and ass!

I know I am a big gal. I love my curves! Hell I probably play with my tits more often than Cowboy does. I think I am attractive. I carry myself with confidence and can be a horrid flirt. When I go to parties, there are several who pay attention to me and give me every hint they would love to play with me and more.

But it has come to my attention, that there are some "closet" chubby chasers around. These are the guys who will come to a party or even just hook up for a night with a big gal then talk shit behind the girls back after the fact. Sadly we may have some of those here in Corpus.

Has the media finally brainwashed Americans? Did the repetition of skeletons with skin pulled taught over their frames finally replace what in the past was considered the epitome of art?
When I can count a girls ribs from across the room, all I can think is "Get that woman a steak, some fries and a shake!"

For our closet Chubby chasers, go ahead and keep dreaming. When you can wake up and be a mature person who does not let society and the media form your opinions for you... then we will talk.

To me a BBW is generally more vibrant, more sexually open, more pleasure oriented, witty, feminine, just more everything. And to me More is always Better. Granted I can also say, there is a line I wont cross. I have told Cowboy that if I ever get to where I cannot function in my daily life due to my size, he is to put me out of my misery.

I have a challenge for you all. Talk to a BBW and make her smile. I garauntee you will love how her face lights up. To all my BBW who read this, know you are beautiful and any man, woman, whoever should be THRILLED to have you by their side.

XoXoXo
~Nina


Rikk0Shay 56M

6/2/2008 9:25 pm

I think it's just peer pressure. I outgrew that in high school.


ga_girl78 41F
428 posts
6/2/2008 10:02 pm

I just wanted to comment, and tell you I enjoyed your post. I have also run into a few closet chubby chasers myself, but the older I get the more I realize that men do love my body. A man once told me that I was so damn fuckable but not datable...his exact words...because I wouldn't fit it with his friends. He loved having sex with bigger women, but could never see himself dating one. THAT hurt and took me some time to get over, and I don't even think he realized what he had said. Anyway, I think the world is changing, slowly but surely, and we BBW should be ruling it pretty soon, lol.

Southern girls make better lovers.


GonzoCplCCTX 54M/56F
7 posts
6/3/2008 8:04 am

I was taught something very important by my father. He said son I am going to tell you how it is.
Beautiful women come in all shapes,sizes,colors,and ages, I have found this to be very true. What makes a woman sexy and alluring is not the way she looks it is the way she carries herself . It is a womans self confidence that makes her sexy if she has self confidence everything else falls into place. If anybody can't see past looks they are the one with the problem. Ohh well I have ranted enough. That is just my two cents worth.
Gonzo
From Gonzo & Kristina


lindaliscious4u 50F

6/7/2008 12:42 pm

Everyone is beautiful~in their own way, except of course for the miserable motherfuckers who aren't...I have been in the company of the "beautiful people", the ones who have to keep looking in the mirror for reassurance that yes they look good, but there is no depth to this person. If they ever made a reference to my size or any other womans size, I simply walk away, looking back no more, erase them from my circle of friends. I can honestly say I feel truly blessed now in this point in my life, finally accepting me for me..no longer loathing myself and I not hating me and the world but actually hearting everybody who is good to me..I can be a miserable fuck to them who are assholes but they do not exist to me. You keep on being your beautiful self and live life, put these losers in the persona non grata file...you are a BBW~beautifully blessed woman. I know there are going to be some losers reading this comment and your posts, Nina, thinking in their little craniums (sans the gray matter),negative thoughts,with all sorts of shit spewing out of their upper oriface known as a mouth, but to them I say this, you protesth too much, if you are a closet bbw lover, then just do us all a favor and stay in the closet, go somewhere and die..no one needs you.


aff_fun_guy 57M
41 posts
6/12/2008 2:50 am

I find beauty in all women and enjoy the company of women in and out of the bedroom. How can anyone be ashamed of being with a person who can excite them sexually? Beauty comes in all shapes, sizes and colors. I love and respect all women. What would we do without you lovely, lovely beings? I love them all! I can honestly say that BBWs have so much more to love!


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