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Does IM work for you?  

61 posts
9/22/2019 9:06 am
Does IM work for you?

Does IM work for you?
Yes all the time
No never
Hit and miss

99 posts
9/22/2019 9:06 am

Kik is best I’m cjdou there

GrassLakeMike 68M
60 posts
9/22/2019 9:26 am

I never know if it will work or not. When I find someone I really want to chat with it doesn't work Grrrr

Lasttry731 41M
75 posts
9/22/2019 9:32 am

Sometimes. I've talked to people that said they have tried to contact me but never got a notification. vice versa on my chat sends.

AzRedhead1 63M/61F
6 posts
9/22/2019 9:38 am

It drops conversations and locks up a lot

iwant2learnit 49M  
544 posts
9/22/2019 10:01 am

If the IM was essential to life, like oxygen, we'd all be dead.

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robdoggie57 62M  
37 posts
9/22/2019 10:06 am

Very frustrating, especially when you pay for this crap!

12714 posts
9/22/2019 10:34 am



2Saltie2 26F

9/22/2019 10:57 am

Works great for me when I am not ignoring the damn thing. I have in my profile I don't use it but still get some. If I answer it I might say something like read my profile or since a paying member you should read my profile. Even have said on a a few occasions since you can read my profile you must of sent me this by mistake. Hope you can catch who you meant it for. A recent one was from a young one . My answer was omg you are only 22. Every answer shows as sent. I then close the im.

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jimmyyybackdoor 62M
20 posts
9/22/2019 2:32 pm

It is no longer effective for non-paying member, since the 3 free messages were taken away.

north120 46M
27 posts
9/22/2019 7:50 pm

It sucks most of the time

MyPlayBed80x120 58M
42 posts
9/22/2019 8:16 pm

I've seen 3 versions of the IM since being on the site and each time they come out with a new version it gets worse. This latest version is totally unusable on my smartphone.

Maxbillion87 33M  
49 posts
9/22/2019 11:31 pm

Only works like half the time

allnitelong2063 56M
218 posts
9/23/2019 4:25 am

It sucks all the time!

jerseygal69 26F
1 post
9/23/2019 1:51 pm

I can't send pic through the IM.

Troilism 62M/59F

9/23/2019 6:27 pm

If I log into the internet using Internet Explorer it doesn't work. If I log into the internet using Google Chrome it works fine every time.

YourGoodLukCharm 61M
38 posts
9/24/2019 12:47 am

The IM over time has steadily gotten worse & each supposed upgrade is worse with less features Last upgrade we lost the ability to hover over the profile pic & it would enlarge as well as give the persons mini profile. Also they no longer tell you how many miles away the person is. I often like to scroll out about 700miles away from where I live because I own a rental house there & like to keep up with a few gals from that area. Now I might be able to scroll once, maybe twice & then it starts skipping the entire region & jumps out further. No action by AdultFriendFinder after several e-mails on this corruption. Liked it much better when you could scroll continuously at speed without having to constantly hit the "view more members" at the bottom of the page. Hard to chat with someone that's not local because of this. Hate paying points, which you seemingly can no longer earn to have a chat with someone. This site was based on interaction & now that they have tried to monetize every aspect of it, it's no longer worth the price of admission for what you get, as we have lost so many things that made the site function so much better in the past. You want me to upgrade to Gold? Why should I again when basic problems aren't fixed & so many privileges have been removed. Remember the basic tenants of a successful business, our success as basic or Gold members should guarantee your success. Screw us & your platform withers away. I would certainly like to know how a "chat" can be considered a "chat" when it's only "delivered" but not "read" by another as a chat by definition is a conversation between 2 or more people, not a one way dialogue with yourself? Anybody got an answer for that? I also feel after being a member for more than 10yrs that cell phones have ruined IM chat & etiquette because people are distracted by their devices & can't stay focused & the chat process isn't fast enough. At least we shouldn't be docked points for unanswered attempts at conversation. And on the subject of points, how the hell does one earn them anymore!? Logging in/out doesn't work. No points for commenting on blogs, videos, liking a photo. W.T.F.! Want me to be involved with the site, reward me for my efforts if you're going to have a stupid points system. I've always felt the points thing & buzzmode toys were very discrimenatory towards men as women aren't as visual & don't watch cams as often nor do the toys which cost far to much work all that well for men either. Let people cam for the fun of it, like before, not to be cam whores that are trying to make some points for money upon which the house takes a share. It's awful compared to what used to be & personally when it comes down to it I'd much rather go to a real strip club in the flesh for my money, then a virtual one. Two of the other things that I miss on this site are being able to search by zipcode which was convenient for road trips & more recently the loss in search of being able to filter out members in your area that haven't been active in more than a week or two. My area has very few actives for the IM & camming. Maybe they are still available by e-mail but you can't do that as a std. member & I also feel that if a paying member sends you an e-mail you should be able to answer it, even if you can't send e-mails out as a std. member unless once again you pay extra as a gold member to have std. contacts. If you're Gold you should be unlimited. I could go on about more things that we've lost over the years. I've had a lot of fun here, had some great dates & FWB's in that time, & am still dating a couple, but we all agree the site seems past it's prime & needs some major renovation's & house cleaning to become relevant again. It's why I've remained a std. member for so long after being gold, as there has got to be a better site with more value for the bucks I spend.

nu2cincy 53M
1 post
9/24/2019 3:10 am

i think AdultFriendFinder screws us daily

Ronbin32 27M
48 posts
9/24/2019 4:02 am

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99 posts
9/24/2019 3:44 pm

IS there a better site?

rm_1littlehose 58M
442 posts
9/24/2019 5:11 pm

Yup it sucks. This site sucks as a whole thanks to all the changes made.

newtothisfu66 26M
1 post
9/25/2019 4:49 pm

Works for only a few messages. Switching to other apps works.

olderboy48 70M
65 posts
9/26/2019 9:44 am

I guess it all depends on the individuals. Some people prefer to find out about you a little bit before trying a meet and greet. Some just use it to trolll folks.

bwc4ladyznodudes 40M
18 posts
9/27/2019 5:01 pm

Kick is definitely the best. The im here is hokey...

StormchaserSTL 36M  
15 posts
9/28/2019 12:54 pm

This IM sucks 95% of the time

attygurl_27 64T
49 posts
9/28/2019 2:10 pm

I have found that although it's sort of hit and miss it's much more hit than miss.

ready7go 67M
20 posts
9/28/2019 10:18 pm

Most of the software here does not work very well. I'm surprised fixes don't ever seem to be forthcoming.

analslut2bused 42M
19 posts
9/28/2019 11:18 pm

it never works for me

smokeyjohnson54 59M
31 posts
9/29/2019 6:20 am

Works when it wants too. Im not a paid member so it costs me 10 tokens to find out if its gonna work. I dont use it

serghe6619 53M
37 posts
9/29/2019 9:14 am

Moving to Ash Mad soon.They take, take, take.

whatfun39 42M
35 posts
9/30/2019 10:46 am

Kik is now dead so...…

AZBiGuy480 57M  
27 posts
9/30/2019 1:47 pm

On my PC NO On my cell Phone YES

Love2eatpussy404 35M
6 posts
10/22/2019 12:04 pm

It works sometimes but im the same i use kik

author51 57F  
95891 posts
11/11/2019 10:04 am

I don't IM at all so do not know on this one.....

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99 posts
11/11/2019 10:17 am

I’d like to add some joy to yours 😉

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