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Bondage: who’s in control?  

CarpeJamie 51M
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9/4/2021 10:09 am
Bondage: who’s in control?


I’m no expert by any stretch of the imagination. But my foray into bondage was a long time ago with a University sweetheart. I was asking a female AdultFriendFinder member about her interest in bondage. She told me that she’s not into it … she prefers to be in control. This sparked a lively convo in the chat room and made me think back to my experience with bondage and had control. I started being bonded first. I wriggled and giggled and tickled inside as my gf kissed me, licked me and<b> touched </font></b>me slowly in all the right places. I became harder and harder as her breath fell upon my chilled naked body. I was titillated; I was horny; I wanted caress her, I wanted enter her and thrust with great passion. But ugh I couldn’t move my arms. I couldn’t reciprocate the intense feelings I was having. I was excited and helpless, vulnerable and loving it. was in control? I felt she was … but, the more I responded her touch, her stimulation, the more she continued and pleasured me … , , !

As much as I wanted climax, we were not yet ready for us finish. My gf slid of the bonds from my wrists and began fastening them hers. I completed the bondage and then was my turn pleasure her. I began kissing her on the nape of the neck, working my way her earlobe. Gently pulling and briefly sucking with my lips. She responded with a slight moan. My lips softly met hers and our tongues<b> touched </font></b>ever so briefly. I was really excited, I hoped she was equally. I looked down and saw her nipples enlarged, hard. Was is the coolness of the air in the room? Or the heat of our experimentation with bondage? The pressure was mounting in my head. OMG what do I do next? How do I ensure that she is loving this as I was. I continued to kiss her working my way down from her lips to her breast. Caressing her with my lips and my tongue. She was vulnerable lying on the bed, waiting for my next move. is in control I wonder. Do I move down her lady bits? Do I linger at her breasts? Do I lick the whip cream from her navel? I certainly was unencumbered do what ever I wanted (with her consent of course) I wasn’t shackled the bed at this time yet I felt less in control than when I was bound. I wanted excite her, I wanted please her I wanted her wriggle, and giggle and tickle inside in anticipation of climax. Ohhhhh the pressure …

I was being controlled by my gf even though I was physically free. In bondage, is in control? Is control even a thing?


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9/4/2021 10:52 pm

Sounds like a night I had with a lover about 4 years ago but with silk scarves instead. I am not into any hard core tight rope bondage but I am handcuffs and ties or scarves.. As for control I think it is mutual when it comes to being all tied up Hun. Great story.....xoxo

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CarpeJamie replies on 9/5/2021 7:56 am:
I am excited to hear that my writing resonated with you. I know it wasn't clear in the text; but we indeed did use silk scarves. I'm inclined to agree with you that it is a give and take in terms of control and loss of it. I think that may be the excitement of it all--the tension from the ying and the yang.

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