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For the warrior out there, wherever you are.
Posted:Apr 13, 2020 2:21 am
Last Updated:Aug 2, 2020 3:32 pm
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Written by Kate Rose, 2015

You don't need a man, you need a goddamned warrior.

To my sweet wild woman, I know why it hasn’t worked out with anyone else—you don’t need a man, but a goddamn warrior.

You are the strength of Turkish coffee at sunrise darlin’ and don’t try to pretend that you’re not.

You are one of the wild ones, and no matter how you tried to hide that fact, you can’t be anything other than what you are—and that’s okay. You are just as you are supposed to be, magnificently wild in all of your chaotic beauty.

I know you’ve had your heart broken and I know that you don’t understand why it always seems to never work out, but I’ve finally figured it out:

You don’t need a man, you need a goddamn warrior.

It doesn’t matter if this warrior drives a Jeep or a shiny sports car, and it won’t matter if he wears silk or cotton—it will not even matter if he works in a high-rise, or on the night shift.

What is going to matter is that when it comes to taking bets on your heart, he is going to be high stakes—all the way.

This warrior of yours will crave your strength, and your intensity. He’s going to look at you and not see something to tame, but something to just fuckin’ admire. This warrior of yours won’t be someone that you can manipulate or play with as you have in the past, so honey, don’t even try—and trust me, you’re going to love him even more because of it.

Because you aren’t just a woman, you’re a goddamn goddess.

Your fierceness is going to bring him to his knees every single time he looks into your gorgeous eyes, but the difference is, unlike the others, he isn’t going to be scared off. No, this time, you will have finally met your match—because a simple man for you just won’t do.

You need someone to match the fire in your eyes with his own. Not only that, my little wild thing, but this warrior of yours is going to want to encourage the flames instead of trying to douse them with his own insecurities.

Because for you, a warrior is the only man who will ever live in the wild with you.

He may not have to slay any dragons to earn your love, but he would still walk through fire if it meant seeing that amazing smile that you hold in reserve for only him.

This is the thing, free spirit, this warrior you seek….he’s seeking you too.

For he’s had failed relationships that have left him wondering if maybe he was meant to be alone for the rest of his journey—and you’re going to change all of that for him. You both have been travelling along on your separate journeys and have been doing an okay job at it, but that's about to change too.

Because baby, when you and this warrior of yours meet and collide—it’s going to be a love set on fire.

Don’t try to run this time—I know your heart has been broken before, and that you’re not used to things working out, but this time it’s different. Give yourself time to see that.

This warrior of yours needs to see that it’s possible for someone to see all of his wild, and still be there when he craves his freedom and ventures off into this world for a bit. You won’t always need to follow him, just as he won’t always follow you. Let yourself stay wild, even when all you want to do is curl up in that spot along his side and forget the rest of the world exists.

Let yourself still wander naked under the full moon, and drink moonshine with the stars. Let yourself feel the pull of the wind on your heart, and the sun toward a new journey. Because this warrior is going to love you because of your wild—and he’ll want you to keep it.

You’ll be in this together now, this amazing, crazy, chaotic, wonderfully heartbreaking life—because it takes a warrior to love a goddess. And it takes a goddess to show a warrior what real love is.

So pack up your insecurities and your ideas about picket fences, because that was never you anyway. You were born knowing that you were destined for more, and now is the time for you to see what all those dreams look like.

There is no stopping a love like this, so promise me you’ll hold out just a little bit longer.

Have a little bit of hope, and always give love just one more try, because I promise you my sweet wild woman—the love that you seek is seeking you as well.
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Sext me like you love me, Stay away from me like you hate me
Posted:Mar 18, 2020 9:52 pm
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2020 2:29 am
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There's really nothing like a crisis and some time off to make people extra horny. It also makes us extra caring and helpful, and makes some of us extra selfish and ignorant.

I get that, you're bored, you're jerking off, you're horny AF, you're maybe lonely too, that's OK to admit. Maybe you're feeling anxious and super stressed...those things can make us horny too. Did you cry yet at all this news coming out every day? I did. Let's just admit that sometimes this is going to get to us. Sometimes we'll feel angry, anxious, scared, tired, cynical, and apathetic, then paranoid again. Some people will panic, and some will thrive in the excitement of uncertainty.

All of that's OK, and express that, and it's OK to connect with people online and share all sorts of dirty thoughts.

What's NOT OK is asking people to hook up right now. That is a risk none of us can afford you taking right now. That puts you and them and everyone you both come in contact with later all at risk. You must cut that shit out right now. When a man asks me too hook up it feels like he just asked me to kill my gramma..and that is NOT a sexy feeling at all.

Try to remember that others on here are real people, we have or had jobs, some of us will strugle a lot more. We have families, some of them may not do well. We have friends and goals and plans and investments that have shrank and jobs that are even overrun or laying off. Cut eachother some slack but please try talking to eachother on here like they are real people, because they are (except the bots).

Some thoughtful caring and consideration would really go a long way right now. Why not be the nice yet sexy caring guy who just checks in and asks about her day, maybe she'll enjoy some dirty talk too when she stops worrying about everything she has to deal with tomorrow. But please...do NOT be so rude or selfish as to ask she take that big of a risk on you right now. If you respect her now, perhaps this will pay off big time for you later when she's available to do so again. Wouldn't sex from a grateful woman who finds your maturity to be hot and sexy AF be way better? Try it out ...maybe you'll like the benefits that come with being a true friend.
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Clean
Posted:Feb 23, 2020 5:48 pm
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2020 12:17 am
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Number thirty on my FAQ blog is question that comes up often when I get close to meeting a guy. "Are you clean?" He asks...usually right before or worse AFTER being with me.

Well guys...you're really pissing me off and showing a huge lack of respect when you act this way. In fact as of now this is a HUGE deal breaker for me. Why? Because you are asking in the wrong way at the wrong time and for the WRONG reasons.

Am I clean? Why yes, I shower daily and right before and after sex. Don't you?

Ohhhh you meant have I been tested for STIs. Yes, I get tested per the usual recommendations for MY health and well being. Have you? Can you list off exactly what you were tested for? Can you provide documentation? Can you provide proof of who you've had sex with or not have sex with and provide documentation on their health as well? Hmmmm ok so what is "clean" exactly?

If you ask me if I'm "clean" and all I say is "yes..for sure I'm clean", so you take my word for that and then want to fuck without a condom...THIS is your version of safe sex? So any woman you ask if she's clean you're going to screw without a condom....have we got this right? Now who's the risky one?

Before you start grilling me like I'm the high risk offender you'd better take one hard look in the mirror buddy. This reeks of the old sexist misogyny we've seen for decades and I will NOT be having that attitude near me thanks very much.

Following this I say if he has any concerns about health he should absolutely be wearing a condom. (DUH) Let's be very honest, we should all be using condoms if we are having casual sex. If we do not, then WE are assuming all the risks associated with that, and I don't give a fuck who says they are "clean" or not, it's a risk, period.

Oh, and if you're new to me and we're using condoms (as we should be), then I'm not sucking your bare cock either, think about it!

The problem with you guys asking if I'm "clean" at the last minute (or heaven forbid after), is that you really aren't thinking for a second about me and my safety. It's so clearly insulting, and that's going to be the biggest turn off of all and I'm going to tell you to go away. If you can't have a mature and respectful discussion about testing and safe sex with me BEFORE you're about to fuck me then you aren't grown up enough to fuck me. End of story.

Newflash, people LIE. Who's really going to say in the heat of the moment that no, actually they have a disease? How many of them would even know for sure? Lots of diseases really have no symptoms, at least not right away. So really, what do you know? Ok she was clean last week and fucked a new guy this week, then you come along, so...clean or not?

Use a condom dummy. It's simple. NO ONE likes condoms, WE KNOW. But it literally takes you 2 minutes to cum without one and mayyybe 5 with one, you're still going to have a great hot time, so maybe just grow up and put the condom on already and save everyone a lot of regret and nuisance later.

Normally asking if I'm clean is just code for "I don't want to wear a condom", so let's be clear that I recommend that you use condoms, everyone recommends condoms. Bring your own condoms. No one likes condoms...that's a fact. But it's the only way you're going to reduce the risk, so if you're asking me that question, use a condom. I do what I can to reduce risk and protect my health, but I do take accountability and responsibility for my choices and I will deal with any consequences should I be that unfortunate. That's what grown ups do.

As they say if you can't take the heat get of the kitchen. Educate yourself, protect yourself, and if you don't want the risk, stay home!
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