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Chloe4Fun 27F
187 posts
5/13/2017 12:55 pm
Anal Fascination

Once and once only have I ventured and explored this region.

The guy concerned at the time was my boyfriend, and although on the larger size of my preference was very respectful of me. We did our research, so being green can count towards the experience.


I just don't see the fascination in it if I am totally honest. I have spoken to a few guys and its an ass thing. but I love doggystyle. is that not enough??

Thoughts please guys

albertakeley0 40M

5/13/2017 1:26 pm

The fascination with the ass itself makes perfect sense to me as I find it is often the most visibly alluring part of they way a woman moves. That being said, its the perspective that I really enjoy so doggystyle is absolutely enough. I do like to squeeze a sexy pair of buns and that would be more difficult to pass up in my opinion.

76 posts
5/13/2017 1:38 pm

To be honest Chloe not every one likes anal some don't like dogging ,group sex etc its personal perefence its what ever you like and our in to that is the main thing, and that is something guys should understand but unfortunitley a lot of guys watch porn and just assume that because girls do it on their and then assume girls on a site for sex will do it because they have seen it in porn, its not how it works its called a porn trend and porn fetish women a lot of have sexual fantasies based on porn trends which i could go into if you wish to chat some time think you might find some of it interesting.

the guys who know how things work out here will chat to you for a while and maybe exchanges likes and don't likes etc and find out about you as you converse but a lot guys just make assumptions based on what they have seen in porn again women do this as while in certain areas.

but if people keep bothering you about it might be worth just saying your not in to it , i know this blog goes part way to doing that but its just something to think about anyway

hope this kind of helps

redmustang91 60M  
9608 posts
5/13/2017 2:00 pm

Anal needs lots of lube and slow entering. Not a major thing for me, but it can be fun as a change if done right. A smaller dick also works better for the beginner...

Heathen_G 61M
7863 posts
5/13/2017 2:11 pm

    Quoting  :

People should respect how yow feel about it ... Very good advice.

if you say no you mean no ... Often this comes with a price. "No means no", so we are told, but "No" also means, "Go find someone else". Which often most do just that, they go find someone else.

Heathen_G 61M
7863 posts
5/13/2017 2:18 pm

The guy concerned at the time was my boyfriend, ... At your age, you shouldn't be wasting time with commitment.

... It's not an intended fuck hole.

have spoken to a few guys and its an ass thing. ... ha.. naa, they just want to stick it up there because it's a hole.

but I love doggystyle. is that not enough?? .... That should do it just fine.

LimerickJohn 66M
1047 posts
5/13/2017 2:56 pm

Hi Chloe, it's your choice at the end of the day.

Some like it, some don't. Pm me.

snippedshooter 56M
472 posts
5/13/2017 4:15 pm

Me I love an nice ass.....But dose not mean I want to fuck it.
MMMmmm to hold and cup..to watch and stare.....to grab and some times spank.
Even lick kiss and tongue.....Finger while eating or thumbing while doggy.
But....Only did it with a few women......Yes they had fantastic orgasms.
As I was trying to think of pussy to stay hard.
Have fun
No worries
And ok to say no

SingleItalianGy2 48M  
953 posts
5/13/2017 10:21 pm

Hi Chloe...

Thanks for sharing this post and topic. Personally I am not a huge a fan but I am always willing to please my partner regardless of my own wants or needs. Not trying to toot my own horn here but being girthy does have its negatives aspect anal being one of them. (From my own perspective w/o proper lubrication it can be quite unpleasant on my end). Again, purely my 2 cents wortyh from my perspective.

research1234 62M
109 posts
5/31/2017 4:19 pm

yes, doggy style is great but a nice tight ass is just incredible.

CharlieBee55 57M  
6 posts
6/6/2017 7:14 am

People are obsessed with anal these days, seems if you don;t say yes you are being 'prudish' bit like shaving, TBH sex is great using the traditional 'holes' and that's cool with me, I have done anal but if i never again, i wont be upset...it's different but not the most important bit.
For me it's far more intimate to actually click and like the person you are with, to be able to laugh and chat as well as fuck...but some just want to get straight down to fucking...much more fun to have a great night our, followed by a great nite in bed as the anticipation of sex is a real turn on.
I do wish we could meet for a drink someday you look a real fun person to be with xx

luv3sumz2 52M
33 posts
7/16/2017 4:54 pm

Lube Lube LubE and take it very slow.. Did he play with your pussy and clit to get you Going first ..or during?most guys see and because its"forbiden" its horny.. so some time in Future you might try it again perhaps.. Hope it works out whatever you decide.x

MaybeMore42 53M/26F

4/29/2018 3:11 am

Doggy style is all fine.

fluffyandcutie 43M/23F

5/21/2018 12:46 pm

Anal is something she loves but we don't just force anything in there.

Waiting until she's had an orgasm or two, it helps with the relaxation.

Before the sex starts, there is cleaning involved. If even that is painful, probably best not to go any further.

Lube must be applied liberally to both the anus and to whatever will be inserted.

Comfort is key. Does something the size of you own pinky finger produce pain?
(obviouly, well trimmed nails are best when using actual fingers)

A cock is basically the last thing that goes in, if everything went well.

Straight men tend to have 2 kinds of POV on anal. 1 man can have both, depending on his partners and experiences.
- it's an act of love and/or mutual pleasure. she orgasms from it so it's an additional option.
- it's an act of love and/or submission. she doesn't orgasm from anal so she does it just for him.

lovableblrmacho 36M
10 posts
6/14/2018 10:49 am

Hi Chloe,

Anal encounter is fascinating to women provided the guy lubricates her anus with tongue or any mild lubricating agent to smoothen the walls of her anus. Also, the woman should lick her partner's cock before ass fuck.

Ass fucking has to be performed with woman on top in order to enable the male to fondle her breasts subtly and passionately. Also, the woman can lean towards the man in woman on top position which enables the woman's clit to brush against the man's body or cock, which will amplify the woman's pleasure.

I regularly indulge in assfucking and most women will like it if assfucking is performed skillfully.

Lovable blr macho

Superman4695 35M
156 posts
8/2/2018 3:55 am

Yeah both times I tried it with women they said it was too painful and stopped after a short time. I think unless a woman is experienced it needs to be worked up to. Loosening with tongue and fingers to trying small butt plugs before the deed. I'm guessing that it will always be a little pain but women that like it say there is great pleasure once used to it.

PMmoca1000 47M  
40 posts
8/3/2018 4:04 am

you sexy babe

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